Ceaser90:
I painstakingly chose to read through all the chats.
I am in the UK and I know what is obtainable. I brought my wife in January and I know what started happening just 3wks she came in. Hiw I saw the chats from her own sister of how they will teach me a lesson.
In all, be calm. Speak to her, Share the bills and plan yourself.
Take your time and decide if you want a child with her (pray more about this) because it will increase your sorrows. Take care of your mental health brother.
Thanks for this thread. Atleast I am consoled. I nearly ran mad here.

Jesus, bro are you for REAL

Insultme:
Now I don't feel like having sex with her.

I always think about how someone can leave his husband and go to a man's house cause of 3 bags.

Some are saying it is too early to divorce her.

Some are saying I should forgive and let her swear that she won't do such thing again.

Some are saying I should think of how much have spent in total and not allow the devil to push me to take irrational decision.

WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK?

1. Stop having sex with her
2. Start making plans to send her back to Naija

Don't destroy your future before it even starts my brother, think hard!

Because one day when you have got a mortgage and built a life another man will come and buy 6 bags and move into your house....

GIDIBANKZ:



OP i feel your PAINS SHA…. So sorry about the betrayal from your WIFE….just that you didn’t know her that much before you brought her with yourself to UNITED STATE….

Can we chat privately, i have fee questions to ask you. Thank you

It's United Kingdom oh.
Not the state.
The betrayal is bound to happen.
I just felt, you can't monitor a woman, she is the one to teach herself self discipline

Insultme:


It's United Kingdom oh.
Not the state.
The betrayal is bound to happen.
I just felt, you can't monitor a woman, she is the one to teach herself self discipline

It is well Bro ✅… can we have some private conversations please if you don’t mind

Mrreal69:



1. Stop having sex with her
2. Start making plans to send her back to Naija

Don't destroy your future before it even starts my brother, think hard!

Because one day when you have got a mortgage and built a life another man will come and buy 6 bags and move into your house....

6 bag Kwa.
To collect a whole house. 😂🤣
Wàhálà

GIDIBANKZ:



It is well Bro ✅… can we have some private conversations please if you don’t mind

Check mail.
Or send email here.
Mannet erry@ Gmail. Com
Remove the space

Ladymillion:
she will restrategize and be more discreet

Very right!!!

Insultme:


Check mail.
Or send email here.
Mannet erry@ Gmail. Com
Remove the space

Have sent you a direct mail to ya gmail bro

GIDIBANKZ:


Have sent you a direct mail to ya gmail bro

Replied.

Thanks

Insultme:


Are you single?😂😃

I can never date a divorcee

Antyxx:

I can never date a divorcee

Oya if u be good girl come date me 😆

see talk smh.

Olushylay1:
Please dont divorce her...
Just try to send her back to Nigeria..
She will end up cheating on you..
She still wants to enjoy life..
She's not ready to settle down.


By the time she spends two years in Nigeria,her fish brain would have been back to factory settings.

Gsently:
USE 23HRS FEAR WOMAN

What of the remaining 1hr

Insultme:


💯. That is how a sensible man talks.
Not all those spitting jack shit up there.
You're weak
You're simp.
You're this and that.

You're just looking for Validation. People really needed to talk sense to your head bro , and I'm glad that the words really got to you. Thats why you're picking and choosing the replies .

I hope you do what's right for you and your future sha. And I hope men really get to grow with their SONS and really teach them WHO A MAN REALLY IS ... Most cases on this forum are just pathetic

luminouz:


Babe....
Excuse my forgetfulness!! I don't remember your moniker oh.

Abeg remind me

I am your old time Nairaland friend.

DearGorgeous:


I am your old time Nairaland friend.

Really? Hint me na or DM

Damn shall is nothing new with nigeria or most women in general


Am not in the uk but don't divorce some women can just be there collecting cash from guys with nothing involved is left for you to do close marking with her like am doing currently with mine better safe than sorry check her phone monitor her call that's all