Roland17:

@Ben-10 they both agreed to part ways because she could not wait that long, they parted amicably before she got involved with her husband. its not sams fault either,because he tried to make it work, but guy u and i know how powerful distance is.

@sexkillz
I always appreciate your comment anywhere i come across them, truly the husband has changed, she complains that he beats her after getting drunk and is soo hard on the kids, she does not want to go back to sam, she only wished he was the man that disvirgined her, because according to her he is a rare breed. sammy my friend got married a year and six months ago, they have a baby boy and he tells me he is happy with his marriage, his wife also claims he is the best thing to have ever happened to him.

deniyor:

I agree with sexkillz to a point. The woman might have been the underlying factor to her husband's bizzare behaviour. However that is only one possibility. Also no matter the lady's behaviour, he should not be hitting her or getting drunk regularly like a teenager. It just shows irresponsibility.

Another possibility is there was no love from either of them in the first place. From the first point (sexkillz's) the woman did not love her husband as the love was reserved for sam. The guy might have married her for a range of reasons from age to just having kids.

There is also the possibility that the husband is just naturally abusive.

There is also the possiblity that the frustration of the husband is cos the wife sucks in bed and is too stubborn to learn . Though that can be related to a lack of love but not necessarily.

Roland17:

Samuel had been in a relationship with his girl for 3 years, she was a virgin and wanted Samuel to wait until they got married before they can start Being Intimate, my friend was true to his promise, he never asked for sex for three years, this does not mean he did not feel the urge, but he was in love with her and wanted to marry her, so he respected her opinion and was able to hold himself.

Both were very dedicated and committed to the relationship as they could vouch for each others faithfulness and loyalty, everybody around knew them very well. Problem started when he was issued a visa to pursue a 5 yr degree course in the united states, distance punished the relationship severely, to cut the story short, they parted amicably, not without tears, grief and sometimes anger.

she was getting older, she ended up getting married to another guy as she could not wait, the guy played along well for the period they were dating, after they got married, she said the guy changed, she describes the guy as an animal. she already has 3 kids for her husband and has vowed to remain in the marriage.

Now all she says is Samuel deserved her Virginity more than her husband, because he was a rare breed of man and wished she allowed him disvirgin her before he traveled.

So ladies i ask, is it every husband that deserves a ladies virginity?

sexkillz:

If he was, she'd have noticed it during their dating period and then in early marriage! I guess!

Roland17:

@cuddle
Am sorry pretty, i have been busy with my xams, but thank God am through now, i have also been looking out for u, i trust u are doing great. cheers.

Roland17:

Don't be too sure, humans have perfected the act of pretence and its's really difficult to decipher when people pretend.

sexkillz:

Yeah! True talk! Do u also think she failed to notice? Or turned a Blind eye? Was she desperate?

What does yours smell like?

, im not ready to see or smell anything disgusting