My younger brother has been going out with his girl friend for about a year and all this while she has been claiming to him that she is a Virgin. One faithful night after club night in Uniben, their school, he finally had sex with her but, “Omo” the boy come use vex come tell me say, all this while wey him girl no dey let him thing and hand go there, na lie she dey lie. He is really down about the whole thing and seeking for my advice, The thing is that, he really love the girl and she wasn’t a virgin has she claimed formally. He said she is very free down there like every other girls doing it.

Please watin ona think, because the boy wan use phone call kill me for advice and the girl dey beg am too.

Your advice?

All girls lie so that isn’t an issue.

If he wants to continue that relationship, then he has to be very careful with her; but if her feels he won’t be able to trust her enough, then he can end that relationship.

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@game over

that is exactly what i told him to just continue and play along side for all the time wasted cliamin she was a Virgin, but the guy no wan hear game matter. the problem and truth is that, he really love the girl.

I'm waiting for more contribution so that i can convince him properly!

dreadeyez, not nice for your brother to play along, if he cant let it go and love the babe for real, better to back out and no need to pay her back, playing with a ladies' emotion is a very terrible thing, just tell your brother to talk to her and fashi and move on, that is if you brother is not looking for excuses to dump her anyways, cos i see no big deal, just like men sometimes lies about so many stuff.
Eveny one na thief, na the person wey dem catch be barawo.

Not about "virgins" again, please! Don't you guys have better things to come up with?

"All girls lie" as well as all guys are pigs!

tnaidR, na wa for you oh, hope you know what pigs represent, and one day you go get husband and get a son oh, so i beg chill a lil' it is just a thread, dont take it too personal ohhhhhhhhhhhhh

@Rhino

I feel  ur contribtion, but i can ask u something, why was she lieing all those while him and my lil bro said, menn she is even worst far free to every normal girls like she did it that very day with something very large.

menn watin u wan come talk about that?

@tnaidaR

I am 26 male and i am a Virgine guy, ooooooo!

watin u wan come tell me now?

dreadeyez:

My younger brother has been going out with his girl friend for about a year and all this while she has been claiming to him that she is a Virgin. One faithful night after club night in Uniben, their school, he finally had sex with her but, “Omo” the boy come use vex come tell me say, all this while wey him girl no dey let him thing and hand go there, na lie she dey lie. He is really down about the whole thing and seeking for my advice, The thing is that, he really love the girl and she wasn’t a virgin has she claimed formally. He said she is very free down there like every other girls doing it.

Please watin ona think, because the boy wan use phone call kill me for advice and the girl dey beg am too.

Your advice?

Hmmm! the first tot that hits my mind is that how did the unfortunate girl get to hook up with your bro.
first he's the type to kiss and tell plus all he really ever wanted from her was sex and now that he's got it he starts to ask questions about if he wants to stay or not.
no lie the girl also did wrong but i deffinately feel she is the victim all up in here because who wouldn't lie to someone with character flaws like your brother.
she is deffinately better of being single because if you asked your dad who i think is about 60, how important sex is in a marrage on the long term vis-a-vis the bond that'll actually keep you together. my guess is that he'll give it a strong 3 over 10.
bottomline you, your brother and the girl need councelling as you all got issues.
so, if your brother is reading this (you don't actually think i fell for that did you), then tell him he needs help.
peace out.

Rhino, my opinion shouldn't get you worried.

Eyez, tell your brother to accept her or leave her. Very simple.

dreadeyez:

@tnaidaR

I am 26 male and i am a Virgine guy, ooooooo!

Too much info son.

dread, it is damn wrong for her to have lied about it, now yor brother has found out, 2 wrongs dont make one right, your brother playing along, knowing in his heart that the relationship wont go nowhere is not good on his part too, he has found out that the babe was lying, so he can move on and just fashi the babe, paying back is not always the best solution, if he can forgive her, then, let him forgive and love again

@godsword

First of all, my lil bro trusted me that is why he complained to me only. i did gave him proper advice but he think he need more contribution. He is not awere of me brining ths issue cos, he would not like it. so it is a secret in here and i feel i need more contribution so that i can pass my final advice to him. thanx thou!

Back to the topic!

@Rhino

nice one bro! i think ur last commot is the best contribution for the now.

Now i am getting more on what to advice him on

More?

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To tell u the truth i am sick and tired of all this "Tear Rubber" chick search. The guy that wanted the thing, is he a virgin?
Ok, let's say NO. If he couldn't wait till marriage, what makes him expect someone else to do it (This isn't the rule, it's an exception)

If a guy's not a virgin, they say it's not a big deal. But when its a lady, the society slams the hammer before she can blink. Would he still have continued the relationship with her even if she was a virgin when he did her that night?Abi he dey vex cause he no be the 1st?

Yes, the girl lied, because she didn't want to lose him (Which was wrong). But is he having a relationship with her or whats "in between". If it's the first, then he shouldn't make it a huge deal. if it's the second,

Secondly, people are different. There are some Vs who act shy and inexperienced the first time, and some Vs who know d entire anatomy (yes, being a V doesn't have to mean being ignorant) and are (let me use his own words) FREE. They've been going 4 a yr!

he should just be sincere with himself
(Disclaimer: On no account should any opt to meet me with Gunz blazin, cause i've got more amour than Rambo himself)

na today?

like i said before, the girl needs to go find someone else for real.
your bro(i still dont belive ya), really aint a man yet, whats being a virgin got to do with anything? i mean how does it change the price of fish?
the truth is your brother really does not know what it takes to be involved in a meaninful relationship, if he did he'd be more concerned with working on himself to find out why his "girl friend" would lie to surpossedly the closet person to her heart.
maybe, your bro is the unrealistic type (which i think he is) and talks about fairy tale relationships and she felt he'd respect her that way. but really what ever it is he's surpossed to be the man in charge of his relationship and if something this serious goes wrong then there is only one person to blame, thats right! your bro.
see women are very complex beings that even the wisest man to ever live (solomon) spent his entire life trying to understand them.
your bro is kind of like Adam who belived he really didnt need to have a rapport with his woman so much so that another creature came and becieved her. in your bros case his lucky she only lied, she could have slept with his best friend and from what i know about your bro, he'll never notice.

now my opinion on virgins is my kind of like my own experiences i want her slightly inexperienced but extremly currious. what that means is that i would really preffer someone who is not a virgin BUT ONLY BECAUSE IM NOT ONE MYSELF. WHY would i crave a chaste woman when i never saw the need to be chaste myself. NOW THATS A MAN SPEAKING

like i said before she needs a real man in her life and tell your bro GODSWORD says he should grow up.

@poster what's up with the title_my younger brother greatest surprise, i was actually expecting to see something meaningful not this.what's so surprising about the girl not being a virgin was he really expecting her to be.is he a virgin?that's if it's not you, looonggg hissssssssssssssssss,abeg make we hear word.

@lukmond

I am sure u must be mentally disturb and long hissssssssssssssssssssssss too to you. small brain dey worry u. please Bleep off my topic is u dont av something to contribute

mtcheww, what's so important about virginity when he's not even a virgin himself.