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Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by ZIMDRILL(m): 2:07am On May 28, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra: i thought i were going to share the alternative As someone who grown up in africa and from an average family, average i mean without toys and then moved to the west in my very late 20s i have observed few things that can be used as alternative In africa, deny the child to go play with others and explain the basic of action and consequences (the problem with most african parent we assume that kids have good memory in remembering do and donts) not realising thats kids are kids they quickly forget hence u beat him/her now 5mins later i can quickly bribe him/her with cuddle and they forget about the beating, my point there is a certain age they repeat the same mistake over and over nomatter how many times you have spoke to them about it. For those with toys and gadgets take those away as punishment eh play station the mobile phone etc, if the tv is connected to cable tv disconnect Take away things that they love For me my time, mu gadget was a brick, push it imagining that it is a bus the disdavantage with our parents was they could take away the brick, i could always find another one, but being stopped from playing with others was a killer Todays kids take away access to being online or those gadgets but we shouldnt reward them for things that there supposed to do as part of learning responsibility eg washing, cooking cleaning etc 2 Likes |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 6:00pm On May 28, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: Absolutely. But taking away gadgets and access to the internet is so short-lived too. I have found that they will have access to other gadgets from their friends. . .and as long as your modem is visible to anyone, your router can be reset and boom!. . . they are back online. I have found so many gadgets I did not purchace in my home. They will find new ones. At the end of the day, I just enter my room jeje and go mind my business. Me sef don taya! 6 Likes |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by ghettochild(m): 9:36pm On May 29, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:Then u gonna b Iya ndagbe (home alone) Na that time u go miss their presence 3 Likes |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by ghettochild(m): 9:42pm On May 29, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:I'm sure those two can't wait to leave that house.. Na military zone dem dey. Lol 3 Likes |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by ghettochild(m): 9:44pm On May 29, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:The last picture be like ponmo inside the plastic 1 Like |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by ghettochild(m): 9:48pm On May 29, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:Seems yr major war is kick against keeping trash in the bedroom. |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by ghettochild(m): 9:49pm On May 29, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:No mind the oyinbo ooo. Na so dem dey do. |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by ghettochild(m): 9:51pm On May 29, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:I'm sure dem kids can't wait to go to boarding camp |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by ghettochild(m): 9:54pm On May 29, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:All these hair these boys them keep so.. if na naija here... na compulsory barbing na Nigerian parent go insist on n say na bad pikin dey keep hair. 2 Likes |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by ghettochild(m): 9:56pm On May 29, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:Haa haa u finally give up on this internet fight.. They won this round. |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 12:49am On May 30, 2023 |
ghettochild: I concur totally! I nor fit catch stroke abegggggiπ |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 12:51am On May 30, 2023 |
ghettochild: They are soooooo cute!!!! Naija na bush man country ke! I love to men with locs! Not dreads o. LOCS only. Soooo sexy!!!π See 18 year old MEDICAL DOCTOR with locs.β€οΈ In fact all the dudes in the family have locs or FRO! π See AWA HANDSOME NIGERIAN-AMERICAN DUDES ABEGGGI! My little chics know they have handsome, intelligent cousins ke! Any attempt to bring a βTRASH-DUDEβ into the family . . . The dudes are waiting to have a goooooood laff!π 1 Like
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Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 12:53am On May 30, 2023 |
ghettochild: Me toooo! I don pack all dem suitcases and βessentialsβ kpa kpa! Goooood RIDDDDDANCE!ππππ |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 12:54am On May 30, 2023 |
ghettochild: Na only dem waka come?π |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by 1Sharon(f): 12:54am On May 30, 2023 |
ghettochild: Some of them even insist girls must shave their hair. It's self-hatred. Our hair is not a burden. 3 Likes |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 12:55am On May 30, 2023 |
ghettochild: That is ehn? I canβt STAND it!π‘ |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 1:01am On May 30, 2023 |
ghettochild: I have my man abeg! When dem born, make dem call me.β Right now, we gat nothing to talk about,π |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 1:03am On May 30, 2023 |
Andretti camp continues. All fun and games.β€οΈ Showing them the gooooood life! No need to depend on ANY man or woman!π 2 Likes
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Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by Hallotti: 2:06pm On May 30, 2023 |
Welcome to 2 -Day Money Campβ€οΈ Can men invest time and money on children like this? Lai lai! Too busy pursuing women, men and Bobriskies upandan!π Thank God for my super-duper flexible schedule.π Donβt mind that nasty spermButtocks that hijacked my account!π As I was saying jooooor. . . . Keep them busy! No time to get into mischief! After Andretti yesterday, they were not looking forward to being in a class room to play βmoney gamesβ!π Dem don pack dem food and drinks jeje!β Introducing dem to better families and potential friends. . . . Not SOCIETY RIFF-RAFFS AND DREGS! Now, back to work tomorrow !πΉ Enjoying my empty house for a few hours. 3 Likes
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Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 9:55am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Keep them super BUSY! Thank my Hagnostic Gad for a super flexible schedule!ππ½ππ½ππ½ππππ I looooove MY DOG!!!!!ππΏππΏππΏ
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Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 10:01am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Camping list items!β
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Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 10:04am On Jun 09, 2023 |
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Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by sacajawea(m): 6:41pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:Can we chill out sometime soon.. not even for anything Just to chill out with you in person 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 2:06pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
America THE BEAUTIFUL!!!!πππππ 1 Like
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Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 2:14pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
sacajawea: My online/offline chilling days are so over abeg. . . Just love to hang out with my family members I KNOW only. Not in a position to meet new people. Life is too good.β€οΈ Nice to chill wichooo all hia.β |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by sacajawea(m): 6:55pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:I will come back later, maybe when you are in a different mood |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by Jossyfine(f): 8:55am On Jun 21, 2023 |
Please, how old are your kids? KanwuliaExtra: |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 1:04pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
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Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by Jossyfine(f): 2:35pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
They canβt have access. I want to learn from your experiences. KanwuliaExtra: |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by kkins25(m): 4:24pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
ahnie:Talknojutsu!! Most of us hated Talknojutsu. |
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