sure privacy matters, but then,

but then, what?

No big deal

thanx otokx, its no big deal esp when you have a strong and solid (same words?) relationship.

of course, if i am there, she would give me my phone to answer, if i am not and cant make it before the call drops, she picks. no fears, no worries.

the only call i wouldn't pick is when its from her MUM and thats not because the Mum does not like me, but because I really like avoid talking for long

I see. Whether he's there or not I don't pick up the phone. I either silence it and let it go to voicemail or take it to him. I do the same with the house phone.

ok

@africanboy, I agree with you completely. I mean, whats all the fuss about? As long as you and your spouse are ok with it and don't consider it as been distrustful(if theres a word like that), then why not? My Husband even answers calls from my mum if am not available to tell her am in the bathroom or something. Honestly I don't understand why this is such a big issue here, I guess it just depends on the couples concerned and there level of understanding and maturity.

I think it's only an issue to those who want it to be. We have an understanding that we don't pick up one another's phone while others have an understanding that it's alright. I all comes down to what works for the couple.

my arrangement is probably the best (dont mind me, everi1 has/have their arrangements), but i still strongly believe that there is nothing wrong in picking each other's calls. i will always do it. my girlfriend will always do it.

on the issue, can you use yur husband's phone credit to make calls without his permission?

Africanboy, not to be confused but I don't see anything particularly wrong with answering one anothers phone. If that's the way your relationship is set up and it works, that's what counts.

As far as phone credits, I'm not sure what that is.

ca you use his phone to make calls without his permission?

Yes, I can use his phone if I needed without having to ask, or I could use my phone or the house phone. It doesn't really matter.

@flower i agree with you
all need privacy it depends on the individual

fibers we have to trust our self deeply,

men and women are fibers, what is it to just answered a phone for your partner when is busy or bathing. We don't trust each other that's it.

trust ur self

nothing dey happen.

@jigman. Its now something dey happen! 

A good husband or wife should trust there mate. If the spouse is picking up the phone because s/he don't trust their spouse it is a problem . Otherwise i think its perfectly normal. :)

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i see nothing bad about ur spouse picking or answering ur calls.FOR THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE, no be me talk am,na the Scripture{Holy Bible}

i see nothing bad in ur spouse picking or answering ur calls.after all.THE TWO SHALL BECOME NONE.no be me talk am, e dey inside Scripture{THE HOLY BIBLE}.

I don't answer any call that's not mine. Simple

@ Rottweiler three gbosa for you,you were precise and straight to the point as if you read my mind. Couples should be practical and have some amount of privacy. I broke up with my girlfriend cos she is too nosy,she reads my sms,views my call log and wanted my mail password to which i declined though she gave me hers but am not interested(i sometimes feel it could be due to the nature of my job,am an optometrist and have a lot of female patients but that was not supposed to make her insecure cos i always make out time for her,to the extent of coming to see me @ work). There should be limits love or no love. If to say i come marry am,e go dey follow me about?