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Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by guobe: 8:14pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
As I was coming back from my place of work this evening at about 7 pm I saw a young boy and another kid still in the school premises.I was forced to stop my vehicle to enquire why the boy was still in school and he told me his grandmother has not come to pick him yet.I enquired about his parents and he told me both his father and mum japa to London 7 years ago.I asked for his age and he told me 11 years.I asked for the grandmother's number and he gave me but when I called her she did not pick.The little boy told me grandma comes to pick them late always.As fate may have it the grandmother came with a kekenapep and the other boy entered the kekenapep .The little boy told me that was his brother also and he ran to meet his grandma.Most parents these days are chasing money and leaving their kids at the mercy of an aged grandmother.May God help us. 7 Likes |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by Kobojunkie: 8:16pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
guobe:1. 7 years?? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by guobe: 8:23pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:parents these days japa and leave their kids behind.If they have not gotten genuine papers they won't come back to naija 1 Like |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:49pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
blame African/Nigerian society for that... so many broke legged useless married ignoramus quick to have children after marriage, even though they are not emotionally/physically/financially fit to care for these children the proper way. i would also blame the foolish grandparents who accept to take care of these abandoned children... if it was me, i would not take care of these kids, even for one day. you had them, you take care of them! thats what BEING RESPONSIBLE tastes like. 7 Likes |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by guobe: 8:54pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:The economy is harsh you may not really blame them for running away from the country.Guy you may have 5 million naira in Nigeria before you get married and when you eventually get married within two years that money is gone and you go borrowing.I know what I am talking about. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by faceLAGOS: 8:55pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Reason why I’m not doing anything tangible here before I gbe bodi. Once I leave like this. Bye bye to Nigeria & anything Nigeria. Even if my malle die sef, na video call we go do for her burial while I send money. I fit dey breeze in the country con flex o, but I’m no longer residing in Nigeria. Unless if Nigeria divide! 6 Likes |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by Nobody: 9:00pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Some people get mind sha. That boy should just zero his mind from those so called parents that abandoned him for 7 years. 1 Like |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by guobe: 9:05pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
faceLAGOS:ah for real e don reach like that 1 Like |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by guobe: 9:05pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Miracood2:why are people calling them abandoned kids Is there something I am missing |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by kelspinall(m): 9:15pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
nawaooo 1 Like |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:20pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
guobe: abeg, dont blame the economy for foolish ignorant married people having children they cannot take care of, and subsequently abandoning these same children for 7 long years, while they go abroad (to possibly or not make it)! are you now claiming that after 7 long years in the UK, its still the same old "Nigerian harsh economy" that makes these useless parents not come back for their children?!?!?1 2 Likes |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by guobe: 9:27pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:hmm true sha |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by Ogamysamo: 10:39pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
guobe:and they leaving behind the children they brought on their own to this world to age parents that have suffered and brought them up to cater for their children again is still on the government? even in the developed country the government can not do everything for you. 1 Like |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by Kobojunkie: 10:41pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
guobe:1. If the economy is harsh then don't have kids. Wait until the economy becomes better to have them. These kids were abandoned in Nigeria by wicked parents. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by guobe: 10:47pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Ogamysamo:so true |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by guobe: 10:47pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:you and this abandoned lol |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by Nobody: 11:20pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
7-years? If your story is true, those are two very useless people. 1 Like |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by uchman(m): 1:37am On Mar 22, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Do you know if the aged parents/grannies are still depending on the kids' parents for a living?, if so, they will have no option than to do the Nanny/babysitting job while the kids' parents goes to look for money. Are they expecting the kids' parents to shit out money from their nyash to be footing both their bills too? 1 Like |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by Georgekyrian(m): 6:49am On Mar 22, 2023 |
guobe: So after you got married, you fold your hands and doing nothing? |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by kingthreat(m): 8:12am On Mar 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Plain truth. Foolish parents. 1 Like |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by kingthreat(m): 8:15am On Mar 22, 2023 |
faceLAGOS: This is none of our business. You ended up contributing nothing to the topic. |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by kingthreat(m): 8:17am On Mar 22, 2023 |
guobe: I don't know how your childhood was but what if you were raised by your grandparents and you didn't witness the impact of your dad and mum because they were chasing money? Do you know what the child has to go through because of no physical parental touch? Do you know the abuse they are exposed to, the sexual predators, the psychological issues? 1 Like |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by faceLAGOS: 8:27am On Mar 22, 2023 |
kingthreat: Hey! What was the topic again? Narrow minded 🤬 |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by guobe: 8:58am On Mar 22, 2023 |
kingthreat:I understand my brother.the situation is very dicey 1 Like |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by Kiddogarcia(m): 9:23am On Mar 22, 2023 |
I don't like the abandon claims tho, but you've got to do what you've got to do for a clearer and better future. Couples leaves naija without their kids on a regular,no biggie in it. Sane way Giannis antemtokoubo parent left his brother in Nigeria and moved to Turkey. It's a life of sacrifice and risk. Na we be your best plug for everything Sexual enhancement tho 1 Like |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by guobe: 9:28am On Mar 22, 2023 |
Kiddogarcia:its all about risk management. |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by uchman(m): 6:46am On Mar 27, 2023 |
Georgekyrian: This your question is funny. Have you heard about unforeseen occurrences like Corona Virus? 1 Like |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by uchman(m): 6:48am On Mar 27, 2023 |
kingthreat: Stop being harsh Oga! I understand him 100% but that "if him male die", my hand no dey. 1 Like |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by Kobicove(m): 9:41am On Mar 27, 2023 |
faceLAGOS: ![]() |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by Kobojunkie: 3:49pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
Kiddogarcia:1. You even understand the meaning of the words "sacrifice" and "risk" at all? ![]() sac·ri·ficeThat no be the same as abandonment? ![]() riskNa risk be this! ![]() |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by Kiddogarcia(m): 3:55pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: See how you are dictionary meaning to quote people. What happened to context bruh,at that present moment, travelling abroad was a more better sacrifice than staying here with their child on the long-run. But as you don use dictionary quote am,I don hear. Na we be your best plug for everything Sexual enhancement tho |
Re: Effect Of Leaving The Kids Behind And Travelling To UK by Kobojunkie: 4:00pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
Kiddogarcia:1. Context ke? We are talking here of two human beings who were abandoned by parents who felt they had a better opportunity elsewhere. Did you read the story at all? The kids are left back at school until late for their grandmother to come by to pick them up. How are their lives better than that of average Nigerians out there because mummy and papa abandoned them in Nigeria to seek better opportunities elsewhere for Pete's sake? ![]() Which long run? Kids get to grow up without the care of their parents. Grandma gets to work extra after raising her own kids. And it isn't that they are being chauffeured around or something or that they are living large as a result of, so what long run be that after 7 years of abandonment? ![]() 1 Like |
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