Okay. I've this burden on my chest for over a year now and they say a problem shared is a problem half solved (or multiplied)

So, I've this friend who lives with a woman and her little son. He and the lady are of the same age group. The husband, who is in the US is fully aware of this situation. Note: they stay in the same room and even sleep on the same bed. Also this guy's family house is just a stone's throw from the lady's house but he hardly ever visits there and hasn't passed a night there in over 4 years. If you're new to the area, you'll be forgiven if you address them as man and wife.


My main purpose of creating this thread is not to pass judgement on anybody but to seek your opinions. As a married man, will you be comfortable with your unmarried friend staying with your wife while you're overseas. As an unmarried guy, will you be comfortable living with your friend's wife.

Lao, masculinists and feminists, kindly keep off.



PS: They are both active members of their church.

It's even wrong for them to share a flat, not to talk of even sharing a room.

seyoops4u:

Or bed

That one is unheard of sef. Which man would condone that when his wife is involved?

How do you know they're sleeping on thesame bed?🤔

You say the husband is aware of the arrangement? That means the husband knows your friend. This is my take. The husband is in the US and ofcourse knows that the wife has sexual needs that have to be met. They may have mutually consented to allowing someone they both know to help the husband water the wife's garden whenever it needs watering. Your friend and that woman are sleeping together and her husband knows.

I read some stories and don’t believe them because i don’t believe these things happen. Op I don’t believe.

He can stay with her maximum of 60 days


Else it will ends in tears

Nothing Wrong, under normal conditions.

But our Naija Women of Today have HIGH LIBIDOES. 😒
They now Fcvk more than Men.

Iyaebe, what would I gain from lieing? If you are in Benin, I can show them to you sef.

Since the husband is aware and even encouraged the arrangement then it's safe to say all the parties involved are onto something. This is the type of case u are advised to mind ur f..ing biz

Dogalmighty17:
You say the husband is aware of the arrangement? That means the husband knows your friend. This is my take. The husband is in the US and ofcourse knows that the wife has sexual needs that have to be met. They may have mutually consented to allowing someone they both know to help the husband water the wife's garden whenever it needs watering. Your friend and that woman are sleeping together and her husband knows.

Interesting. But 3 of them are churchlings.

Killbillz:
Since the husband is aware and even encouraged the arrangement then it's safe to say all the parties involved are onto something. This is the type of case u are advised to mind ur f..ing biz

If you were in his shoes, would you allow that?
That's the purpose of this thread.

As an unmarried guy, will you be comfortable living with your wife's husband.


I don't understand this.

Creamypussy:
As an unmarried guy, will you be comfortable living with your wife's husband.


I don't understand this.

Omo. MOrroco at work.
I meant friend's wife.

Op is jealous i can see the jealousy in your eyes

Creamypussy:
As an unmarried guy, will you be comfortable living with your wife's husband.


I don't understand this.

Creamypussy you will understand it when you are high

Eazzii:
Omo. MOrroco at work.
I meant friend's wife.

Ok

Blupen969:
Creamypussy you will understand it when you are high

How high.

Hahahahahaha

Family planning

Creamypussy:

How high.

Higher than a kite in the sky

Blupen969:
Higher than a kite in the sky

Hahaha funny u.

Eazzii:
If you were in his shoes, would you allow that?
That's the purpose of this thread.

When I'm not insane... Them dey give lion to help hold goats?

Eazzii:
Iyaebe, what would I gain from lieing? If you are in Benin, I can show them to you sef.

I'm sure the woman and the guy are related by blood but you're not aware

Creamypussy:

Hahaha funny u.

Lols Nice monicker by the way

I wouldn't make the mistake of letting my friends know my girl/wife, talk more of visiting?

the circle of friends i have don't have concience . The shag anything on skirt, anything.

SavageResponse:


I'm sure the woman and the guy are related by blood but you're not aware

He's actually my cousin.

its called open relationship.

burp18:
How do you know they're sleeping on thesame bed?🤔

Even if they're not sleeping in the same bed. It's evil!!!

they start having feelings for each other. Not advisable

Your friend na assistant husband.

I don't understand. Are we supposed to have caretakers of our family members as cited in this story while abroad?

Alright, it's ok to occasionally visit to check up on the family. The moment you spend a night in that house, you are calling for a big problem. So no, don't visit and sleep over in my house when I am not around. It doesn't sit well talk more of cohabiting. That's evil at its peak

E shock me oh, very bad from them