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Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by Sanguine(f): 7:38pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Start paying the tithe of all your income and watch God rebuke all the devourers for your sake, especially in your finances. |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by Raalsalghul: 7:38pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Op, unfortunately there is nothing you can do. You're not the only one experiencing this same issue. See below threads. https://www.nairaland.com/7626172/f-irst-born-wahala#122034651 https://www.nairaland.com/7612340/background-determine-how-far-go#121781209 https://www.nairaland.com/7609774/agony-first-child#121719546 Do the ones you can and allow your parents handle the consequences of their irresponsibility. Remember if you die, they'll still continue to live life. Emmaodet, can you see now what I meant by saying "most Nigerian parents are useless". If we talk them go say we too woke. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by oluwaseyi0: 7:45pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
victooman:It's your parents responsibility to take care of their children Marry and face your own nuclear family, see your other family as your extended family Help them to the best you can but don't kill yourself, you can't be taking care of father, mother and their children |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by oluwaseyi0: 7:47pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Sanguine: You mean pay tithe and watch God kill/rebuke his parents and siblings Money is not enough for his own and family need you are asking him to take up his pastors children responsibility too Kuku kill him na 4 Likes |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by Sacrosanct12(m): 7:53pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
victooman:then who did. Let's all go through another rough years in APC hand |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by candygist: 8:58pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Sacrosanct12: Frustrated Obidients. I see you I thought you wanted to help him since he Said he did not vote for APC. But as usual, you did not fail to disappoint. |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by olagunte4divine: 9:47pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Learn to balance the two. Your personal aspirations and your family issues.Learn to balance the two. Your personal aspirations and your family issues.... |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by okerekingsley90: 10:08pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
victooman: Don't take any counsel from that individual. Always active and says rubbish all the time |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by compton11(m): 10:12pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
ufotty2001:people like u are dumb ass nigga. I know many people were worse than him in anambra under Peter Obi. |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by almarthins(m): 10:20pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
victooman: You go need prayers as your problem no come from the blues, them get roots which you must deal with. Otherwise na u go continue d circle |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by Exceed15: 10:35pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
When u die they will continue their lives. |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by PapaHadum: 12:39am On Mar 27, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Evil advise up there! Listen and listen good!👇👇👇👇 If you want to go fastly, walk alone. But if you want to go far, do not walk alone. Carry your family along. Empower your siblings so your load will be lighter cos if not, your load will never be relieved cos you can never run away from your shadow/responsibilities. God will help you. Tough times do not last, but tough people do! |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by Nonywendy(m): 1:17am On Mar 27, 2023 |
victooman:family problems no dey finish. No go kill ursef oo. Do the best u can |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by emmaodet: 2:22am On Mar 27, 2023 |
Raalsalghul: Honestly I am tired of stories like this. People giving birth to children they can't take care of yet call themselves humans with brains. There are many reasons for giving birth to many kids in the olden days and these reasons are not there anymore yet people popping out kids like mushrooms. The 3 major reasons for having many kids then were - 1. Too many inter tribal wars in the world so people have more kids so as to have population to fight off the invaders 2. For farming. You need a big family to cultivate your farms. 3. High mortality rate due to diseases that today we have conquered like malaria, typhoid, cholera etc that are easily cured by buying off-the-counter drugs and use. Now, I ask again, what do people need many kids for? Since we are entering the 4th industrial revolution where robots and machines will replace humans to do most of the jobs. What do we actually need this huge humans for? Rather than screaming the government should provide more jobs for us as if na govt impregnate and produce them. Why must humans be creating unnecessary problems for government sef. Why? 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by luminouz(m): 2:33am On Mar 27, 2023 |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by luminouz(m): 2:34am On Mar 27, 2023 |
EmiDon11: Lmaoooo.... Take it easy |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by Sacrosanct12(m): 9:40am On Mar 27, 2023 |
candygist:as much as you dey suffer your own. No sha use your own come my side. |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by Nobody: 10:41am On Mar 27, 2023 |
So you want to add another burden by getting married and having kids, which would mean more responsibilities for you. Forget about marriage for now. You men are lucky because even in your 50s, you can still marry a young woman and have kids, so put the marriage thing aside for now. victooman: |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:58pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
PapaHadum: - let your family carry their own self as a man need to have his own family/children and cater for them FIRST AND FOREMOST! - before any man should think of empowering ANYONE, they should first empower themselves! - there is no more foolish man than someone who is trying to help every yeye person in his own family |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by Blupen969(m): 4:24pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
EmiDon11:Emidon11 see as you deh mumu yourself for something weh you no fit smell talk more of touching, i swear before push comes to shove i go like push you make you fall ode |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by EmiDon11: 4:28pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
Blupen969:lol The girl i am dating now has a bigga azz than her self. |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by Blupen969(m): 4:37pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
EmiDon11:Good for you Emidon11 use the bigga ass to pay all your karmic debts |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by EmiDon11: 4:47pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
Blupen969:hahahahahahaha |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by frozen70(f): 2:13am On Mar 28, 2023 |
victooman: Its not peculiar to you alone it's the normal things first born go through especially if their parents are struggling to survive Am glad you have a supportive girlfriend which you plan to settle down with Just love and appreciate her and both of you will succeed through her support Just thank God your mum gave birth to few of you 1 Like |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by victooman: 6:26pm On Mar 28, 2023 |
CallmeTrinity:Your insults are basically childish and full of tantrums,,, Are should take care of my siblings ? who told you l have not been taking care of them? so if l decided not to have anything to do with a woman l will automatically become a billionaire? most of you filled with this bitterness against women are failures and hopeless masturbation addicts,,, is it my girlfriend that is paining u or the fact that you can't get a woman to call ur own? so l shouldn't get married and build my life because l have siblings,, what do u take me for? a god or what,, your approach is very senseless honestly,,if we check it now u probably have not send anything to your mother this year with all this ranting. |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by victooman: 6:33pm On Mar 28, 2023 |
Samantha124:l dont and wont marry in my 50s,,, so u mean if l don't get married l will automatically have the money to take care of my siblings? what if it backfired? what if at 50 the money does not come and the wife is not there |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by Nobody: 6:42pm On Mar 28, 2023 |
Your siblings will be grown and taking care of themselves by then. Will you now have the money to take care of both your siblings and kids? Or you will go around begging? victooman: |
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by victooman: 8:15pm On Mar 28, 2023 |
CallmeTrinity:mumu,, you can be anything u want to be online you can even claim to be dangote,,, oga thank u,, please exist my thread with ur childish ranting |
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