I've noticed this about girls/ females : they tend to crowd the guy who is the life of a party. And when you go cold, they go cold with you and cling to another who is playing that role in a social gathering.

Now my question is, is it worth it ? I've experienced these such that you'll have to keep acting it till the end of whatever activity brought about the gathering in the first place and when you later turn cold, and another guy begins to give that vibe, they'll turn to that other person, and pretend like you don't exist.

But this is a terrible job and draining especially to introverts.

Following redpill movement will make you understand this shouldn't always be.

So I ask, what do y'all think ? Is it worth it ?

I somehow think it's more manly to stay put even with yourself even though they may not appear to be giving you attention cos you're just all by yourself.

Let's talk

who roles with you will always role with you, whether you are Life of the party or not...am an introvert, whenever I go to work and see my colleagues crowded and yelling, laughing or vibing to whatever that is making them happy,i just move out there and stay on ma lane, I Know of a colleague who joins me there within the space of 5 mins and we share our own moments...

this my point....

no do pass yaself,no matter how cold you are, people who loves that vibes we always come around...i feel empty when i yell and laugh soo hard...not a good feeling for me

kelspinall:
who roles with you will always role with you, whether you are Life of the party or not...am an introvert, whenever I go to work and see my colleagues crowded and yelling, laughing or vibing to whatever that is making them happy,i just move out there and stay on ma lane, I Know of a colleague who joins me there within the space of 5 mins and we share our own moments...

this my point....

no do pass yaself,no matter how cold you are, people who loves that vibes we always come around...i feel empty when i yell and laugh soo hard...not a good feeling for me

Right

I agree with you on that.

Who life of the party help? ...
Does it pay bills?
Bring business deals?
If the answer is No, then you have your answer ...

Honestly na useless life. I would rather buy my fellow guys drinks than ladies.

Our ladies are having some sort of self entitlement in relationships.

Relationship is not a job opportunity for Christ sake.

Most girls/ladies nowadays prefer party guys or guys that make noise
They like it and it attracts them
But if you are not trained up to be rowdy like some guys then you don't have to be like them
Some girls like calm and quiet guys although those girls are now rare, just like endangered species 😌