Persephone1:
This is gross.

Nigerians and their misplaced hardness. We are already in a loveless ,dog eat dog world and we keep killing every form of humanity in us with some unreasonable "wokeness"

Birthdays ought to be celebrated, it means you remember the day you were born and grateful for it. It is only reasonable to support or at least be happy for whoever chooses to celebrate his or her day. Life is hard and sometimes not worth celebrating if someone chooses to be happy and merry for a day, it is only expected of a sane being to atleast show support or pretend to.

When people send you pictures, it is to help you remember them. They shouldn't be the one to do that but they understand YOU ARE BUSY. It won't kill you to type shortest HBD if you are too busy or uncaring to congratulate someone who knows you and find you worthy enough to share their big day with you.

It's very ironic when people like you litter the internet and WhatsApp with pictures of dead friends or relatives inscribing RIP in different fonts and colours whereby you complain of them reminding you to celebrate them when they are alive. Na your type dey carry dead people picture follow undertaker. Nonsense!


PS: I don't celebrate birthdays big, I don't share pictures with contacts on my birthday either but I appreciate those who remember and celebrate me.

I just find your post entirely gross!

Darkmode64:

Birthdays should be celebrated, without a doubt. You don't have any claim as to how I would celebrate with you, though. The OP is talking about having an attitude of entitlement. Take Ielts you no gree. Keep embarrassing yourself

You don't know how funny you sound at the bolded .

Your whole write up reminds of a 🤡

Tomiwasamuel:
Why must you expect me to wish you in the first place... I can send you a thousand good will message and still not wish you well

Ishilove:
Unpopular opinion

Ishilove:

People are not mind readers to know you wish them well "in your mind". You will be judged based on your actions and inactions, and not on your internalised "good wishes"

Samantha124:
I also don't like birthday celebrations and the idea of people posting me on their statuses because I may not even view them.

I feel like going into hiding whenever that day approaches because I really hate being the center of attention..🤦🤦🤦

Persephone1:
You don't know how funny you sound at the bolded .

Your whole write up reminds of a 🤡

Darkmode64:

Clown? At least I make losers like you laugh. Once a loser, always a loser.

Persephone1:
You must mistake me for one responsible for your birth.

I forgive that. Go and sin no more.

Schrodinger2:

On this, you're my female version, and replica

NeoWanZaeed:
Birthday and others like it are western culture.

You claim you are giving thanks to the Lord but it's business plan to you. Same as wedding these days

Where is it that the Lord gave u instructions to give thanks to him on your birthday?
Na so they invent Christmas and others

Nonsense

tete7000:


And where did God tell you to type all these on his behalf? They are simply your view, your subjective opinion.

IranianSea:

Shutup! Ode! I know the OP personally. He is better than anyone in your family. So, no sapa in his life. Na you suppose work on yourself with your poor pocket, poor upbringing and poorest mentality. Most of those who asks for good will messages, are very poor people. On my birthday, I couldn't even check all the wishes because I will be somewhere enjoying myself with men and celebrating. Better a transfer to my ASA than posting my pictures on your WhatsApp status.

Persephone1:
This is gross.

Nigerians and their misplaced hardness. We are already in a loveless ,dog eat dog world and we keep killing every form of humanity in us with some unreasonable "wokeness"

Birthdays ought to be celebrated, it means you remember the day you were born and grateful for it. It is only reasonable to support or at least be happy for whoever chooses to celebrate his or her day. Life is hard and sometimes not worth celebrating if someone chooses to be happy and merry for a day, it is only expected of a sane being to atleast show support or pretend to.

When people send you pictures, it is to help you remember them. They shouldn't be the one to do that but they understand YOU ARE BUSY. It won't kill you to type shortest HBD if you are too busy or uncaring to congratulate someone who knows you and find you worthy enough to share their big day with you.

It's very ironic when people like you litter the internet and WhatsApp with pictures of dead friends or relatives inscribing RIP in different fonts and colours whereby you complain of them reminding you to celebrate them when they are alive. Na your type dey carry dead people picture follow undertaker. Nonsense!


PS: I don't celebrate birthdays big, I don't share pictures with contacts on my birthday either but I appreciate those who remember and celebrate me.

I just find your post entirely gross!

Tomiwasamuel:
Sorry to disappoint you but I don't post pictures of the dead on the internet... I'm o trying to celebrate their death or what?

Apili:
I swear it's so really annoying
Today is even my birthday
But no body on my contact list
Knows its my day
I see my birthday as a normal ordinary day
There's nothing so special about it
If any one decides not congratulate me on my birthday I won't see anything wrong with it
The few ones that even knew where asking me for pictures
But as a local man that I am I don't take pictures

Not everyone that wishes you good on your birthday
Means well for you

EgusiShankly:

Old souls see things like this as irrelevant, meaningless - not something to be bothered with. You didn't send a birthday wish? the next morning, our relationship continues as before.

Apili:
I swear it's so really annoying
Today is even my birthday
But no body on my contact list
Knows its my day
I see my birthday as a normal ordinary day
There's nothing so special about it
If any one decides not congratulate me on my birthday I won't see anything wrong with it
The few ones that even knew where asking me for pictures
But as a local man that I am I don't take pictures

Not everyone that wishes you good on your birthday
Means well for you

PussyGalore:
If cannot afford to send me a gift worth at least 50K then do not bother wishing me happy birthday!

#TeamBossLady#

Samantha124:
You sound like my family and friends, those people always have something planned for me no matter what I say or do...

My sisters have already started asking me what I'd like for my birthday this year..🤦🤦🤦

mariahAngel:



Make impacts in people's lives, and they will be falling over themselves to wish you happy birthday.

When you touch lives, people will be thankful to God because of you.

Karleb:
I really hate people who demand for things on their birthdays and it's always ladies and their entitlement mindset.

But unless you are a sadist, I don't see what is wrong with you wishing a friend or colleague a happy birthday, doesn't matter if you don't care about your own birthday.

id4sho:

That's how one girl sent me her account number. No greetings, no reason. Only account number, I just view

ChybuzzDD:


Which countries outside nigeria do you see people waste their limited time and resources celebrating birthdays?

If for anything, the celebration is even more common in Nigeria where many girls like you use it as a means of fund-raising.

There's absolutely nothing worth celebrating about birthdays.

If you must celebrate, do so for your achievements, not birthdays.

Ishilove:

Hm, good point. However, it is a part of good social etiquette. It is expected of you

YourNextLevel:
Guy stop thinking and witting rubbish. Go and look for money, wishes will come by fire by force

Karleb:


But if we are friends and you care about me, you'd do things that make me feel good even if you don't like it as long as it doesn't hurt you in any way.

This is like claiming you are in love with someone but you are not telling them.

caesymore:


Does that still mean you aint inlove with the person

sweetonugbu:
ok