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. by Nobody: 4:57am On Apr 05, 2023 |
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Re: . by yrhuhfy113: 5:16am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Esortigress: You need a psychologist or a therapist urgently BECAUSE it means you have reduced your life to the standard your parents set for you and sadly you think it is MAN who should bring you out of that house.... are you not thinking of WORKING ELSEWHERE in another state? Are you not thinking of relocating? Are you not hoping one day to live on your own and know yourself better as a single individual before even thinking of MAN? these are questions in the mind of a NORMAL MATURE LADY who hopes to be her own woman someday.... so that's why your situation is really a cause for concern. THESE ARE A FEW CONCERNS WHY A PSYCHOLOGIST/THERAPIST may be needed URGENTLY to jailbreak your mind from the attachment to your NEST of a home. |
Re: . by Karleb(m): 5:16am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Just stay put in your parents house and leave us the Bleep alone. |
Re: . by Nobody: 5:21am On Apr 05, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113:I’ve always lived with my parents all my life and I’m starting work soon and will be going to work from my parents house, I’ve never really lived on my own. You scaring me though |
Re: . by Nobody: 5:22am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Karleb:You should be the one to leave here if you have nothing to say 2 Likes |
Re: . by kenedyx: 5:23am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Can't relate.. remember I couldn't wait to leave my parents house and start making my own money. Though I know a thing about phobias, they can be nerve wrecking and even induce paralysis. See, not everyone must get married (you can be a nun) but if that's what you truly want then you must take baby steps and realize that a phobia is just like virtual reality.. it's not real. Remind yourself that you're in control of what you experience and you have the power to change or eject yourself from any unpleasant situation and start to exercise this power from the get go. You'll be alright. |
Re: . by Karleb(m): 5:33am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Esortigress: Stop bugging people online with your little worries. You think men who are interested in you aren't scared of starting a family too? but they are taking the bold steps nonetheless. 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 5:35am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Karleb:Taking down. You are a toxic person. I’ll pardon you 1 Like |
Re: . by yrhuhfy113: 5:43am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Esortigress: So sorry BUT this is a NORM of being an adult.... Your parents won't be here forever, you need to face it now or never. LIVE ALONE for a year, get to truly discover yourself on yourself, NOT based on what anyone tells you. Then you can decide if you are ready for relationship or NOT.... else YOUR PARENT WILL BE THE ONES TO CHOOSE WHOM YOU MARRY AND EVEN IN MARRIAGE YOU WILL LIVE VERY CLOSE TO THEM OR VISIT THEM DAILY JUST TO FEEL SAFE..... That will be so awkward. try and attempt independence little by little 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by Nobody: 6:00am On Apr 05, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113:Thank you so much |
Re: . by Nobody: 6:12pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Esortigress:So start getting ready... U and deleting of post sef 🙄 I love that body on u btw 😚 |
Re: . by Nobody: 6:37pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Killbillz:You want carry load wey pass your muscles abi? ![]() ![]() |
Re: . by Nobody: 6:48pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Esortigress:My day was good and it's still all good and urs? Yess oo na load when pass me I won dey carry now 🙂 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by Nobody: 7:06pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
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Re: . by Nobody: 8:56pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Esortigress:Small small ke? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by Kobojunkie: 2:21am On Apr 06, 2023 |
Esortigress:1. Fear of leaving your parent's home? Have you ever tried living on your own to maybe figure out whether it is related to what you think there? ![]() 2. It might simply be that you don't buy into the idea of sacrificing your personal freedom for a contract that binds you to the whims and desires of another. In a lot of cases, it isn't so much commitmentphobia as it may simply be that you just do not share the same enthusiasm that others have with marriage. Marriage is not for everyone and it is perfectly OK to avoid commitment that you know may lead to marriage. I would suggest you move out of the house first, take your time to explore life away from mummy and daddy, and then decide then whether if this is just who you are or if it is indeed a phobia you should concern yourself with then. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:12am On Apr 06, 2023 |
Rayban25:You are very stup.d for this statement, everyone is not a pretender like you and how come you know every of my monika? You are the real definition of a hypocrite. My present is your dream life and my future is your heavenly dreams. I wonder why get so angry and fooli.sh over chats with my friends here , keep following my shadows about if it pay your bills. Nansense |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:20am On Apr 06, 2023 |
Esortigress:I won't give the slowpoke that luxury. He's been on to u since last year... Na wah sick people full this forum. Why aren't u sleeping btw |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:23am On Apr 06, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:I’ve never really lived on my own sha and I doubt if that would be possible but let’s see how it goes sha. Thanks kobo |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:29am On Apr 06, 2023 |
Killbillz:I just woke up not long. Just ignore him and look beyond his pretense, he’s a hypocrite because I don’t see any reason why he should always get mad at people I chat with . If I decide to go ballistic on him now he’ll play the victim mentality game. They really don’t know how to mind their business here. You wey be original odogwu no let the wasted kid drag you to his level abeg. Na So dem dy miss their helper with their uncouth behavior 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:33am On Apr 06, 2023 |
Rayban25 you think everyone is a riffraf like you? The odogwu you are trying to drag can help your meaningless life ooo, don’t let your uncouthness makes you unfortunate. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:35am On Apr 06, 2023 |
Esortigress:Lool... Abi the mugu dey like u since but has no clue how to go about it 😁 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:41am On Apr 06, 2023 |
Killbillz:Kikiki he’s just a kid and a hypocrite ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:48am On Apr 06, 2023 |
Esortigress:I will ignore the sea-goat no worry. I know his type 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:52am On Apr 06, 2023 |
Killbillz:Ignore please. Thanks 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by Nobody: 5:01am On Apr 06, 2023 |
Esortigress:Going back to sleep? Or ur sleeping already |
Re: . by Nobody: 5:05am On Apr 06, 2023 |
Killbillz:No , I’ll be out early today so I’m getting ready. 1 Like |
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