its ik:

pls, am sorry I came into this very late. I once dated this chick, am a good fan of spendind on your chick. I use to spend my last on her,up to the extent dat I borrow on few occassions "if need be" to solve her problems.
But peepz, do u know the funny thin there, wen I was dating her, I wasn't that bouyant as I was now, but I met her demands. If she has 5problems dat money will solve, I try to solve at least 3 or 4. Sometimes all. But do u know one thin I noticed about this gurl, her problems were on unendind, insatiable, infact there was this problem she had dat she needed a 100,000. I tried to raise 54,000 naira for her but still. Wow. She doesn't say or see anythin good. About me, she really loves u wen there is a problem u will solve for he. The sex, I don't knw how many times of recent we had it. To say thank u, a problem.
I helped this gurl with her school exams, thought her even had to write some exams for her, finally she came out with a 2.1,but it nothin for her, she tells me that is not other gurls boyfriends dat give them up to 100,000 or 150,000 naira dat am here saying she's too demanding. We broke up
Now thins are far better for me now, and she has seen it . She wants to come back.

That is why I said its not good to be spending on your gurl like dat, cos at a time u become an atm machine or a problem solving factory. Not considering if this guy has his own problems facing him.
I think this is my reason. Though I will buy them presents, but not like I did b4 wit my ex, cos I was crazy. Even though I didn't have much then.

Yours is a different case my man! You did not know when and where to draw a damned line in your spending! You were so eager to please her. You even went as far as borrowing to please her! What the HELL is that supposed to mean? Why wont she consider you as an ATM machine? Or her cash cow? When you, as a man could not put her thinking faculties on a more trajectory plane when she makes some foolish unnecessary & unwarranted demands! Dont you know how to say NO? Or should i ask if the word NO was erased from your vocabulary? I dont tolerate momentary acts of discombobulation from my partner! Thank God all men are not like You! NEXT!!!

Mr, Cork:

Tom Tom. Bro. So u into Arm robbery becoz you need to impress a girl?

Nayah:

^^ Hi TOM, why don't you try to talk to your women having pedadogic conversation and blaming your own side as men thinking stopping showing off your "wealth" this spendind things will end or improve when both side would have accept their mistakes

tom28:

You are always out of point.Did i mention in any of my post that i was into armed robbery?

from your comment: Yes!

tom28:

Dfav unfortunately the poverty rate in Nigeria is very high and hence it has turned many young girls into nothing more than beggers.If the Nigerian Govt were that serious it would have initiated a programme to bring about the empowerment of the nigerian woman and to encourage young women to be self indenpendent.In America women are self indenpendent and they have jobs even if they are still in school.Even a 19 yr old american girl can fend for her daily needs because she has a part time job but in nigeria a grownup 28 yr old woman would be hassling a man for little things like phones or house rent.Its that shameful and it has brought about the degradation of the nigerian woman.

tom28:

Dfav unfortunately the poverty rate in Nigeria is very high and hence it has turned many young girls into nothing more than beggers.If the Nigerian Govt were that serious it would have initiated a programme to bring about the empowerment of the nigerian woman and to encourage young women to be self indenpendent.In America women are self indenpendent and they have jobs even if they are still in school.Even a 19 yr old american girl can fend for her daily needs because she has a part time job but in nigeria a grownup 28 yr old woman would be hassling a man for little things like phones or house rent.Its that shameful and it has brought about the degradation of the nigerian woman.

agitator:

How many men got jobs?

agitator:

How many men got jobs?

Mr, Cork:

Tom28. Ok so u move from being arm robber to begger. Just becoz you cant afford to spend money on woman, you belief its your human right to degrade them. I will pray for u

tom28:

In other societies women who are without Govt jobs are doing one menial job or the other to fend for themselves[b] but in nigeria they sit on their asses and wait for a man to do everything for them.[/b]Even those guys in nigeria without jobs are doing one menial job or the other to fend for themselves.And talking about men without jobs is it no t so funny its the same unemployed men who go about buying very expensive gifts for their a girl just because they feel its a must for them?.Ask me were did they get the money frm?.My guy if women in nigeria are indenpendent then they wont be bugging a guy for everything.

sexkillz:

What an argumentative fallacy! And how is this fair to ladies that are actually independent, and work their asses off?

tom28:

Since when did women become indenpendent in nigeria?.Even those ones who claim indenpendence are still being funded by sugar daddies and rich senators.

Nayah:

[size=20pt]what about those who wake up early to sell in markets? [/size]

Nayah:

^^Well brother time is coming be patient, life is not like this of our parents! reality will pass above dreams they will change !
Nevertheless some African women are independant don't be mistaken, what about these who wake up early to sell in markets? don't forget them