BeStroNG:
Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue.

I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before.

What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"?

Should I ask her or not?

WHY NOT....BUT IF SHES LIGHTSKIN...DONT ASK!!!(no offenscce)

UyaiIncomparabl:


So, having an IVF means they had abortions? Are you this slow?

Shut up your mouth.

Fool.

UyaiIncomparabl:


What they did was a fertility test. Maybe her uterus was incompetent, her womb perforated or her eggs had depleted which will always be known. Abortion doesn’t equate to infertility.

Besides, if they could ascertain she had done an abortion, it means she got pregnant very recently and likely had an abortion/miscarriage. What they did was to check her HCG levels and that’s how the truth was found. A woman who had done an abortion for over 3 years can never be found out through tests/scans except she tells you.

Thanks for the information.

Fut9ure:
No need for all those stupid questions

Continue banging her without condom while ejaculating inside if she hasn't missed her period for once then wahalar dey

Person just talk sense .. I owe you a bottle of Heineken

It's not wrong but she will never tell you the truth...

Lovelydaisies:
Ascertaining is a good move, until you find out that being fertile doesn't always have to do with having had an abortion or not.

It's up to you to decide what you want to do.

Many nairalanders here support abortions but don't want ladies who have had one.

E go tire una.

Many men (especially on this forum) don't want virgins, no, there are no virgins in Nigeria beyond 10 years of age. All ladies have sugar daddies.

But when they want to tie the knot, they begin to look for Virginias.

As for us ladies, make we dey close legs and give ourselves dignity. Premarital sex is evil and doesn't have any benefit in the long run, unless fortunately, you both marry.

Still, premarital sex is wrong. Let's keep our bodies holy to prevent JAMB questions in the future.

Is this advice for this generation or 50 years ago? This our generation is highly incline to anything sex. 15 years old go dey tell you say, she wan do photoshoot. For who?

googlelove:
No need to ask. Look at her tummy. If you see that vertical black line, just know she must have given birth or done abortion.

There's a technology to erase that line bro..

winner37:
Wait of what benefits will it yield even you ask a girl if she had done abortion before? Or do you think girls of nowadays will tell you the truth?
In my opinion, asking a lady this question is a wasting of energy...

Any suggestion to find out?

BeStroNG

I believe its important to know.

Both parties must also know each other's fertility status. I know its hard but its the best.

There were this couple that planned to get wedded. They conducted a test and it was discovered the lady was HIV positive. Her fiancé said no problem and they got married. Later, the man got infected.

They had a child and it was HIV. They were now on ARV. I watched them tell their experience around 2000 when Bill Clinton was in Nigeria. It was at an even to host the ex-US president.

Both of you should go to a reputable hospital to do tests for you both

My ex told me about it herself and it my bugged and disheartened me.

GindoX:


Is this advice for this generation or 50 years ago? This our generation is highly incline to anything sex. 15 years old go dey tell you say, she wan do photoshoot. For who?

Oh well, the fact that people don't want to do what's right doesn't mean we should stop saying what's right.

Everybody go learn in the end. If not now, later. But let them not say no one told them.

BeStroNG:
Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue.

I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before.

What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"?

Should I ask her or not?

Such question would make her feel uncomfortable and embarassed. The truth is that most ladies have aborted before. Atleast 98% of ladies have aborted before. If u are of unforseen disappointment, go for a VIRGIN girl. Although, to find a VIRGIN girl hard sha.

BeStroNG:
Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue.

I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before.

What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"?

Should I ask her or not?

You that can't feed yourself is thinking of children after marriage.

Instead make her pregnant first

BeStroNG:
Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue.

I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before.

What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"?

Should I ask her or not?

What exactly do you guys do during dating and courtship? Is it just f**k each other's brain out?
If you are in a relationship with someone and you are considering marriage, then this question shouldn't be an issue.
In fact, this should be gist you both had a long time ago and even laughed about it. Are you going to also tell her how many times you relied on your pull out game with your former girlfriend(s) and non-girlfriend(s)?

BeStroNG:
Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue.

I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before.

What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"?

Should I ask her or not?

Is there any woman, directly or indirectly, who hasn't done an abortion

All of us na ashawo we go marry JUST PRAY MAKE YOUR OWN NO POPULAR

BeStroNG:
Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue.

I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before.

What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"?

Should I ask her or not?

Ask all the questions you feel like asking. E.g Have you had an abortion/paid for someone to have an abortion?
Do you have a child out of wedlock etc. Marriage is not beans, this is to avoid stories that touch

BeStroNG:
Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue.

I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before.

What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"?

Should I ask her or not?

yes

lilvicky68:
hope you will also get a lie detecting machine

Exactly...she's going to lie
A dishonest creature you can always trust to be dishonest

And you believe her Sonnobax15 post=122570863]
Nothing wrong about it bro........ Personally I've once asked mine the same question and she said she have never had an abortion even though she dated her ex for 6 years+ . Sometimes,to dey on a safer side,e dey good say make guyman ask some really hard questions,at least to avoid stories wey go touch him kidney las las [/quote]

BeStroNG:
Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue.

I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before.

What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"?

Should I ask her or not?

save yourself the stress.... impregnate her before proceeding with marriage rites.