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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by dbestuncle: 3:17pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
May the good Lord heal your home and help you to truly forgive your mum in Jesus name. Amen bigsmoke2: 3 Likes |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by abidem4real: 3:19pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Rokiat:Only poor, low libido and shy men are faithful men! A man is not created to be faithful to a woman. Two or more women are made for a man by nature. |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by ddeola: 3:21pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
It ruined my dad, his business crumbled completely and we learnt the hard way. I swear , my brother and I will NEVER go there. May we never have cause to do it in our lives in Jesus name. 2 Likes |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Pacyrus(m): 3:22pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Paramount01: Mine is the opposite. This life nor balance sha. |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Lordsview(m): 3:23pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. The only standard that can make any man to be faithful is to be a child of God(genuinely born again and not by mouth or an half baked Christian) |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by achimendy(m): 3:28pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Rokiat: I remain faithful because faithfulness pays alot, and cheating is dangerous and expensive. 1 Like |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by DWJOBScom(m): 3:32pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
MasterJayJay: In a relationship , there's an agreement and a commitment to stick to each other unless both parties agree to be in an open relationship. All these children eh , una no go destroy everything to have una way 1 Like |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by SKIBiNSKI(m): 3:33pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Why in the world would i wanna be faithful? With all these big ass and big breasted women all over the world, i read that there are more women populations on earth than men, i have already had sex with nearly 200 women in the last 25 years of my life and i don't intend to stop. Some men can be faithful and some cannot, I cannot that is why i am single. Don't want any hassles. |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by kaywhy09(m): 3:43pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Discipline |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by MasterJayJay: 3:46pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
DWJOBScom:Coming from someone that has signature 'Jesus still loves you'. Na wetin you dey teach your grandchildren, that Christians can fornicate with their boyfriend/girlfriend? |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Sammy5413(m): 3:54pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Nigerian men don't cheat |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Paramount01(m): 3:59pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
RIDOO: You are married for how many years |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Paramount01(m): 4:01pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Lordsview: Leave that 1 I am not a child of God and I am faithful |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by mercy87(f): 4:03pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
BusinessPlan22: And you're on nairaland? May God protect you in Jesus' name, Amen. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by ogbe88(m): 4:04pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Rokiat:U guys are deceiving yourselfs on this topic. 1 Like |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by mercy87(f): 4:05pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
BusinessPlan22: May God bless you. May He honour you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Carnivorouslamb: 4:05pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
A woman shouldn't expect to marry a man for sexual loyalty but for financial, physical and security provision becos men and women arent the same. Men marry women for emotional and moral support which includes helping to organize the home and sexual loyalty/purity. This is why female virginity has always been a prized asset for years. When women start accepting that the role for men and women esp. in marriages and relationships in general are different then they would start to live in peace with themselves and men. As long as a man doesnt bring any health hazards to his wife and his actions outside the home with other women doesnt in any way affect his primary or secondary responsibilities and obligations, you cannot label a man as a cheat. Wise women know their roles and maintain their lane while diligently performing their duties. 1 Like |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by wunmi590(m): 4:10pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Rokiat: Ah, aunty my wife is too innocent to cheat on, she's caring and very loyal pa, very submissive... I'm not a sex freak, so I hardly think about woman like that, but I adore women... Lastly, I'm always scared of cheating and at the end you hear, the woman died in the man's hotel, the last thing you will hear is the man has used her for ritual |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Abemy(m): 4:10pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Thanks Rokiat, for acknowledging that a few of us still exist. I must confess, it is not easy. Personally, I made the decision, not to cheat on my wife, even before I met e her. I decided not to cheat on any woman I settle down with. Temptation would always come, it usually become stronger, especially when we are away from each other. On several occasions, beautiful ladies had approached me, asking how I cope with out my wife for a long time. Many offer themselves without me asking them, but the vow not to cheat never depart from my conscience, and being fast to remind and even tell people who don't know my wife, that I am married, has been a helping secret. As I write, we have been away from each other since December 17,2022 due to security reasons. Her few weeks away from me always almost make me ruin this personal vow, but I always remind myself that my wife, is more beautiful than any other lady out there, and with time, I get used to it. Other factors that help me in winning this war so far is the fact that, I know how women bodies work, I am sorry to say this, no matter how pure and neat other ladies look, I see them as potential infection vectors, another helping secret is, I am not financially bouyant enough to finance my family to my dream taste, I can't afford to share my Limited resources to pussy hawkers. When I was single, I will ask a lady out, but anytime we had canal knowledge of ourselves, I would be asking myself what I benefited, I knew I benefited nothing, so, I still believe it will be same today. People who see beautiful, sexy, succulent and seducing ladies as temptation has never been faced with real temption. I disciplined myself before marriage. I stopped girlfriend things two years before I started searching for a wife. I didn't gather my partners in sex, and forced God to direct me to one, no, I departed completely from them, I did a new search, and there is no ex in my dictionary. Within my first year if marriage, ladies I haven't spoken with for years, started calling me, asking what happens to them, as I got married, these are girls we broke up and forgot about each other. Outrightly telling them to move on, and even threatening to hand their numbers to my wife saved me the stress, at some point, I set a female's voice on my phone and answered their calls and calmly advised them to mind their business. People around me knows me too well, so at times when the temptation would have overcome me, the fear of ruining my reputation aslo helps. 1 Like |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Faposky95: 4:13pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Focus, Family, a good woman....most especially WISDOM Known her for about 15years |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Abemy(m): 4:13pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
abidem4real: That's what you think, but it's not true. |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by mercy87(f): 4:13pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Lionize: You remind me of Job that made a covenant with God that he will not look upon a maid. I'm proud of you. May God bless and honour you in Jesus' name, Amen. |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Uche559(m): 4:15pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
For me, my woman dnt allow konji to even gather b4 she pack everything. So almost every morning I go out dekonjirized. 3 Likes |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Onlinebar: 4:17pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Long term thinking |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by semasir: 4:18pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Just want the peace of mind and able to manage the little resources I have. A woman alone is more than wàhálà then double it, isn't that wàhálàs enough? Rokiat: |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by harmony75: 4:24pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
For women I love myself first of all by the grace of God there's nothing in sex if it is not for you and your spouse. I cannot disgrace myself just for 3mins nonsense. The fear of God keeps me and encourages me to live a life of purity! I love my children so much I don't want to disappoint them ❣️❣️❣️ |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by DWJOBScom(m): 4:27pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
MasterJayJay: You just confused yourself You deluded yourself by saying no cheating in relationships instead it's fornication but in reality cheating and fornication is a sin. I was speaking to honesty in a relationship as well as commitment, and who says all relationships leads to fornication?? Stay safe |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Abemy(m): 4:27pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Thanks Rokiat, for acknowledging that a few of us still exist. I must confess, it is not easy. Personally, I made the decision, not to cheat on my wife, even before I mate her. I decided not to cheat on any woman I settle down with. Temptation would always come, it usually become stronger, especially when we are away from each other. On several occasions, beautiful ladies had approached me, asking how I cope with out my wife for a long time. Many offer themselves without me asking them, but the vow not to cheat never depart from my conscience, and being fast to remind and even tell people who don't know my wife, that I am married, has been a helping secret. As I write, we have been away from each other since December 17,2022 due to security reasons. Her few weeks away from me always almost make me ruin this personal vow, but I always remind myself that my wife, is more beautiful than any other lady out there, and with time, I get used to it. Other factors that help me in winning this war so far is the fact that, I know how women bodies work, I am sorry to say this, no matter how pure and neat other ladies look, I see them as potential infection vectors, another helping secret is, I am not financially bouyant enough to finance my family to my dream taste, I can't afford to share my Limited resources to pussy hawkers. When I was single, I will ask a lady out, but anytime we had canal knowledge of ourselves, I would be asking myself what I benefited, I knew I benefited nothing, so, I still believe it will be same today. People who see beautiful, sexy, succulent and seducing ladies as temptation has never been faced with real temption. I disciplined myself before marriage. I stopped girlfriend things two years before I started searching for a wife. I didn't father my partners in sex, and forced God to direct me to one, no, I departed completely from them, I did a new search, and there is no ex in my dictionary. Within my first year of marriage, ladies I haven't spoken with for years, started calling me, asking what happens to them, as I got married, these are girls we broke up and forgot about each other. Outrightly telling them to move on, and even threatening to hand their numbers to my wife saved me the stress, at some point, I set a female's voice on my phone and answered their calls and calmly advised them to mind their business. People around me knows me too well, so at times when the temptation would have overcome me, the fear of ruining my reputation aslo helps. 2 Likes |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by moneyissweet(m): 4:34pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Only big soft yansh can keep me |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by MasterJayJay: 4:34pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
DWJOBScom: You are the confused being here..Go and read my first post word by word. When you misyarn, accept you don misyarn |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Femi960: 4:39pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
To free from headache To free from wastefulness To free sickness and diseases To make easier for the family to indetify the cause of death if nature beckon |
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by adexoramo(m): 4:40pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
xynerise: It's already proven that every man cheats |
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