Dear sir Turner and Mara-Times readers, I'm really going through rough times due to what my wife has been doing.

In fact, as I write this, I no longer have a job to care for my children because my wife has been stealing my company's money for about 3 years and now my boss has fired me eventually because there was always shortage and he got tired of hearing one excuse or another.

I worked in an organization where we deal mostly with clients who pay in cash, and in most cases because of how the nature of the work is, I may not have time to take the cash to the bank that day, so I would usually bring it home and the very next day before heading to work, I would usually pay to the bank.

I would discover that in most cases, when I get to the bank there would be shortage, sometimes as much as 50k and I'd have to pay with my salary. The organization would deduct from my salary until I've fully paid off.

Initially I thought maybe my maid was the issue, I fired the first one and hired another one and just 3 weeks later the trend continues and this has continued for too long that my boss thought maybe I'm just intentionally removing company's money for personal purposes, until he eventually fired me.

Now I'm jobless for awhile now and I struggle to keep body and soul together, bills are piling up. I have gone to my boss to plead with him and he isn't listening to me because he thinks the same thing will repeat itself.

My wife has confessed that she was responsible for all the money that has been missing and that she's sorry!

I seriously don't know what to do at this point, but to be honest I'm somehow considering a divorce - But I am also considering our 2 kids who would have to live without the mother care. They're grown a bit, 8 and 5 years.

I feel this will have a very negative effect on them. But on the other hand, I'm thinking if she did something that is this bad that led to my sack, she could do even worse if I Iet her stay. Because come to think of it, a woman that has been stealing from me for these years, isn't there a possibility that she can be cheating on me?

I'm even wondering what she did with those money she stole. Although she said she was giving it to her family for support. But there was never a time that she requested something on behalf of her family that I didn't do my best to meet their needs, at least within my capacity.

I really need your advice on this because I just get irritated when I look at her. I'm vexed but I'm just keeping my cool because I'm sometimes pushed to lose it on her.

Please help me out!

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Forgive her because of your little children but never trust her again and make plans for your future independently

A lot of men are carried away with looks, leave big yansh and boobs alone; focus on the woman's character - someone who will listen and give you peace of mind, but no, you all will be running after fair skin ladies with big butts. These sets of women will wreck and frustrate you, finally, drive you into depression if care is not taken.

That's why we have so many divorces, people marry for the wrong reasons, riches and beautiful bodies.

This is the height of wickedness ...

I'm sure she prolly knew your boss was deducting it out of your salary every month and STILL she didn't think to stop? ...

I dunno about you, but a thief is not someone I want around my kids, cause kids be learning from what they see ...

I did a small gig for a mag one time like that and realised that they do generate stories on their own to keep their readers entertained.

So you realised that money that isn't yours kept missing in your house but kept taking the money home, right?

You didnt find a way to ask the company to get you a safe so you could leave the money at work?

You didnt manage your time such that you could atleast take the money to banks before they close as that sounds a lot cheaper than taking the risk of the inevitable "shortage"?

Ypu didnt think to set a trap for whoever was stealing in your home long before the matter escalated into being fired?

Now you're wondering what to do with your personal thief after the bubble bursted....biko forgive her. She will not do it again.

You should force her to go and confess to your boss

If to say u get money i 4 say make u try conduct DNA test on ur two kids. e get why

Seems she married you for the money

you have too many problems in your life sir...
A) you have a deceitful thieving wife
B) you are jobless
C) you wanna divorce the animal you married, yet cannot even feed your own self, let alone your children!

as for how you got yourself in that mess, its obvious you were careless because the FIRST TIME money went mssing, you should have been more careful and even sleep with the money (if thats what was needed to not be called a thief at work again)

You're not a wise man
What is the essence of that ur TV stand drawers & wordrope drawers
Why didn't you always put it there & lock

Abeg shift this sounds so childish

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For 3 years money kept missing in your house…

For 3 years you kept taking money there. And paying the shortfall with your salary.

I know this story is not true…but you need to be kicked in your a.ss!

This is probably another cock and bull story or a story on the most dumb and dense man in history

Office money keep missing you keep repaying without telling your wife you're repaying any money?

So when you bring in let say 200k in the night, so before you head to bank the following day you don't recount the money or raise alarm at home for shortfall,it's at the bank you discover it

So you mean all along you and your wife never search the house for missing money