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My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by RepNaijaUpdates(m): 12:57pm On Apr 19, 2023
A young man identified as Chisom has revealed how his girlf­riend supported him financially when he lost his job.

Chisom recalled that during their courtship, the company he worked for went out of business, resulting in him losing his job.

Chisom’s girlfriend, who is now his wife, sent him a monthly allowance to help him with his expenses until he was able to secure a new job to support himself.



He added that, when his girlfriend sent him the first payment, he was overwhelmed with emotion and broke down in tears.

“Before we got married, there was a time when I was out of a job. The company had closed down and my boss then didn’t pay me salary for that month.

My wife (gf then) was sending me money for upkeep monthly till I got a good job. The first month she did this, I cried like a baby.” He tweeted.

See the post below:



https://repnaija.com/my-girlfriend-was-giving-me-monthly-allowance-when-i-lost-my-job-man-reveals/

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Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Eyinju112(f): 12:58pm On Apr 19, 2023
I had done this before, but for the wrong person.. That bastard was a liar, a very good one… I thought I was being kind I never knew I was been played. He had different fake stories to hit me then😂😂😂 if guy man hit me story, he’d burst into tears and be like he’s tired of living, and he wanna take his life… you see those statements are my weakness. I don’t wanna hear die😂😂😂 I’d send him money even to flex his friends so they won’t know he had lost his job and broke😂, infact I don’t have a car but I was fixing his car anytime it developed faults. Ano get car but I Dey buy tyre, Mention any car part wey I no know 😂😂😂 Omoh I don mumu oooo😂😂😂😂
Well God loves a cheerful giver, he was extorting me then but God never made me had the feelings, he kept blessing me. I wasn’t hurt because I spent on him, I was hurt because he lied about so many things that I can’t forgive. Till tomorrow he’s on my dm begging for forgiveness.

Lesson learnt is I don’t bankroll men anymore. I’m gonna spend on you if you spend on me. You’re broke, I’m also broke…. You’re generous damn it I’m spoiling you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Reminderz: 1:00pm On Apr 19, 2023
Rare scenario of a good woman... a once in a blue moon kind of story..

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Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by theophorus(m): 1:01pm On Apr 19, 2023
Better Material no hard to spot.

Just open your mind and reason like person wen get sense, no let make emotions becloud your reasoning.

If She dey Bill you always, Na Atm you be.
If she can do without calling you for 3days, You dey date Yourself.
If she is not talking about the future and investment with you, Runnnn.
If she is interested in a BellaNaija wedding not minding how much it will cost you... Runnnn.
If all the Bill for the wedding is coming from you... Na liability you wan carry sooo.

Make I stop here Sha.

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Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by ThatrealestApex: 1:02pm On Apr 19, 2023
Like, your Nigerian Girlfriend? shocked shocked shocked no, I don't believe this shocked shocked

The Nigerian women we know will NEVER do this shocked shocked instead, they'll quickly leave the man or make his life a living hell grin grin

Check well, that girl mama and Papa fit be from different countries but decided to live in Nigeria grin grin grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Autobot05: 1:09pm On Apr 19, 2023
I believe because ive experienced it before... she bought gave me money for half of all my handouts in school until she screwed up sha .
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Zonefree(m): 1:31pm On Apr 19, 2023
I want to believe that girl is not a Nigerian.


But, if she is, prepare brethren cos the world is about to end.

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Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Tntsi: 1:32pm On Apr 19, 2023
Leave all this frustrated guys hating on women out there.
My wife now ,also heavily supported me financially when I was broke and out of work during our courtship.

There are lots of beautiful loving ladies out there. The question is are you also a good guy?
Because most of the time, like attracts like.

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Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Zonefree(m): 1:36pm On Apr 19, 2023
Tntsi:
Leave all this frustrated guys hating on women out there.
My wife now also heavily supported financially when I was out of work.
Ask yourself, why is it news when a Nigerian girl support a guy financially?

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Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by KidDarkness(m): 1:39pm On Apr 19, 2023
Eyinju112:
I had done this before, but for the wrong person.. That bastard was a liar, a very good one… I thought I was being kind I never knew I was been played. He had different fake stories to hit me then😂😂😂 if guy man hit me story, he’d burst into tears and be like he’s tired of living, and he wanna take his life… you see those statements are my weakness. I don’t wanna hear die😂😂😂 I’d send him money even to flex his friends so they won’t know he had lost his job and broke😂, infact I don’t have a car but I was fixing his car anytime it developed faults. Ano get car but I Dey buy tyre 😂😂😂 Omoh I don mumu oooo😂😂😂😂
Well God loves a cheerful giver, he was extorting me then but God never made me had the feelings, he kept blessing me. I wasn’t hurt because I spent on him, I was hurt because he lied about so many things that I can’t forgive. Till tomorrow he’s on my dm begging for forgiveness.

Lesson learnt is I don’t bankroll men anymore. I’m gonna spend on you if you spend on me. You’re broke, I’m also broke…. You’re generous damn it I’m spoiling you.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sorry about that
Manipulation is really a bad thing
He might be begging because the other women he has been with can't do what you did for him
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Negroid001(m): 1:41pm On Apr 19, 2023
Eyinju112:
I had done this before, but for the wrong person.. That bastard was a liar, a very good one… I thought I was being kind I never knew I was been played. He had different fake stories to hit me then😂😂😂 if guy man hit me story, he’d burst into tears and be like he’s tired of living, and he wanna take his life… you see those statements are my weakness. I don’t wanna hear die😂😂😂 I’d send him money even to flex his friends so they won’t know he had lost his job and broke😂, infact I don’t have a car but I was fixing his car anytime it developed faults. Ano get car but I Dey buy tyre 😂😂😂 Omoh I don mumu oooo😂😂😂😂
Well God loves a cheerful giver, he was extorting me then but God never made me had the feelings, he kept blessing me. I wasn’t hurt because I spent on him, I was hurt because he lied about so many things that I can’t forgive. Till tomorrow he’s on my dm begging for forgiveness.

Lesson learnt is I don’t bankroll men anymore. I’m gonna spend on you if you spend on me. You’re broke, I’m also broke…. You’re generous damn it I’m spoiling you.
How far? Let's spend on ourselves.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by fortunateme: 1:45pm On Apr 19, 2023
Eyinju112:
I had done this before, but for the wrong person.. That bastard was a liar, a very good one… I thought I was being kind I never knew I was been played. He had different fake stories to hit me then😂😂😂 if guy man hit me story, he’d burst into tears and be like he’s tired of living, and he wanna take his life… you see those statements are my weakness. I don’t wanna hear die😂😂😂 I’d send him money even to flex his friends so they won’t know he had lost his job and broke😂, infact I don’t have a car but I was fixing his car anytime it developed faults. Ano get car but I Dey buy tyre 😂😂😂 Omoh I don mumu oooo😂😂😂😂
Well God loves a cheerful giver, he was extorting me then but God never made me had the feelings, he kept blessing me. I wasn’t hurt because I spent on him, I was hurt because he lied about so many things that I can’t forgive. Till tomorrow he’s on my dm begging for forgiveness.

Lesson learnt is I don’t bankroll men anymore. I’m gonna spend on you if you spend on me. You’re broke, I’m also broke…. You’re generous damn it I’m spoiling you.
Omo! Things d occur oh. please forgive but I know it's not forgettable. It's good for you even more than the offender. Call him and let him know that you have genuinely forgiven him.
There's no where in the bible that is written that you must take old friends back. Forgive and move on.

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Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Rokiat(f): 1:51pm On Apr 19, 2023
What a big risk. I would never be Dorothy the builder for no man.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by pansophist(m): 1:56pm On Apr 19, 2023
The idea that a woman does not give comes from men in a relationship with women that didn't love them. A woman that loves you is the most beautiful thing a man will experience. It's heaven on earth.

Your stomach will be filled, balls empty, pocket supplemented, and a kind of peace that resembles what only God can give. If you ever jam such women and loose her, you may not find her kind again until you die.

This dude is lucky. He has been blessed with something even kings do not have. A good woman.

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Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by PerfectStranger(m): 2:11pm On Apr 19, 2023
Its alway news when a Nigerian girl does this SMH.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Tntsi: 2:12pm On Apr 19, 2023
Zonefree:

Ask yourself, why is it news when a Nigerian girl support a guy financially?

My brother , most of the time, you attract the kind of person that you are.
I know there are some ladies who are anti- help. But most time like attracts like.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Raalsalghul: 2:16pm On Apr 19, 2023
Eyinju112:
I had done this before, but for the wrong person.. That bastard was a liar, a very good one… I thought I was being kind I never knew I was been played. He had different fake stories to hit me then😂😂😂 if guy man hit me story, he’d burst into tears and be like he’s tired of living, and he wanna take his life… you see those statements are my weakness. I don’t wanna hear die😂😂😂 I’d send him money even to flex his friends so they won’t know he had lost his job and broke😂, infact I don’t have a car but I was fixing his car anytime it developed faults. Ano get car but I Dey buy tyre 😂😂😂 Omoh I don mumu oooo😂😂😂😂
Well God loves a cheerful giver, he was extorting me then but God never made me had the feelings, he kept blessing me. I wasn’t hurt because I spent on him, I was hurt because he lied about so many things that I can’t forgive. Till tomorrow he’s on my dm begging for forgiveness.

Lesson learnt is I don’t bankroll men anymore. I’m gonna spend on you if you spend on me. You’re broke, I’m also broke…. You’re generous damn it I’m spoiling you.

Fair.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Kobojunkiee: 2:20pm On Apr 19, 2023
RepNaijaUpdates:
A young man identified as Chisom has revealed how his girlf­riend supported him financially when he lost his job. Chisom recalled that during their courtship, the company he worked for went out of business, resulting in him losing his job. Chisom’s girlfriend, who is now his wife, sent him a monthly allowance to help him with his expenses until he was able to secure a new job to support himself.
Sadly, all this does not guarantee he will not eventually cheat on the girlfriend he wifed because she gave him an allowance when he was unemployed. lipsrsealed
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by nicerod(m): 2:32pm On Apr 19, 2023
grin



Very rare



U mean Nigerian grls?

Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Eyinju112(f): 2:55pm On Apr 19, 2023
A friend of mine use to joke about it, he’d say I’m a black maga😂😂😂 I overly pay 😭😭😭
KidDarkness:

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sorry about that
Manipulation is really a bad thing
He might be begging because the other women he has been with can't do what you did for him
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by ndenzo(m): 4:20pm On Apr 19, 2023
[quote author=Eyinju112 post=122618114]A friend of mine use to joke about it, he’d say I’m a black maga😂😂😂 I overly pay 😭😭😭

Ur not a maga, the guy u loved and spent on. be mumu
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by BigYash: 4:53pm On Apr 19, 2023
He actually married an angel in human form.. Nothing like when girl invest in relationship, she no go wan see the relationship hit rock.. But when its only the guy investing,baby go start play around, cux las las if d relationship breaks,she has got nothing to looss... Na the boy go just dey cry like that guy on FP, when them go dey nack him babe for family hux,after he don dey pay the girl bills for a long time..
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Nobody: 5:52pm On Apr 19, 2023
Eyinju112:
I had done this before, but for the wrong person.. That bastard was a liar, a very good one… I thought I was being kind I never knew I was been played. He had different fake stories to hit me then😂😂😂 if guy man hit me story, he’d burst into tears and be like he’s tired of living, and he wanna take his life… you see those statements are my weakness. I don’t wanna hear die😂😂😂 I’d send him money even to flex his friends so they won’t know he had lost his job and broke😂, infact I don’t have a car but I was fixing his car anytime it developed faults. Ano get car but I Dey buy tyre, Mention any car part wey I no know 😂😂😂 Omoh I don mumu oooo😂😂😂😂
Well God loves a cheerful giver, he was extorting me then but God never made me had the feelings, he kept blessing me. I wasn’t hurt because I spent on him, I was hurt because he lied about so many things that I can’t forgive. Till tomorrow he’s on my dm begging for forgiveness.

Lesson learnt is I don’t bankroll men anymore. I’m gonna spend on you if you spend on me. You’re broke, I’m also broke…. You’re generous damn it I’m spoiling you.
Rare 💛
Now u know you gat to be a little wiser.
I know your type..
Nice gurl.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Nobody: 5:53pm On Apr 19, 2023
Eyinju112:
I had done this before, but for the wrong person.. That bastard was a liar, a very good one… I thought I was being kind I never knew I was been played. He had different fake stories to hit me then😂😂😂 if guy man hit me story, he’d burst into tears and be like he’s tired of living, and he wanna take his life… you see those statements are my weakness. I don’t wanna hear die😂😂😂 I’d send him money even to flex his friends so they won’t know he had lost his job and broke😂, infact I don’t have a car but I was fixing his car anytime it developed faults. Ano get car but I Dey buy tyre, Mention any car part wey I no know 😂😂😂 Omoh I don mumu oooo😂😂😂😂
Well God loves a cheerful giver, he was extorting me then but God never made me had the feelings, he kept blessing me. I wasn’t hurt because I spent on him, I was hurt because he lied about so many things that I can’t forgive. Till tomorrow he’s on my dm begging for forgiveness.

Lesson learnt is I don’t bankroll men anymore. I’m gonna spend on you if you spend on me. You’re broke, I’m also broke…. You’re generous damn it I’m spoiling you.
Rare 💛
Now u know you gat to be a little bit wiser.
I know your type..
Nice gurl.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Juliearth(f): 5:58pm On Apr 19, 2023
Eyinju112:
I had done this before, but for the wrong person.. That bastard was a liar, a very good one… I thought I was being kind I never knew I was been played. He had different fake stories to hit me then😂😂😂 if guy man hit me story, he’d burst into tears and be like he’s tired of living, and he wanna take his life… you see those statements are my weakness. I don’t wanna hear die😂😂😂 I’d send him money even to flex his friends so they won’t know he had lost his job and broke😂, infact I don’t have a car but I was fixing his car anytime it developed faults. Ano get car but I Dey buy tyre, Mention any car part wey I no know 😂😂😂 Omoh I don mumu oooo😂😂😂😂
Well God loves a cheerful giver, he was extorting me then but God never made me had the feelings, he kept blessing me. I wasn’t hurt because I spent on him, I was hurt because he lied about so many things that I can’t forgive. Till tomorrow he’s on my dm begging for forgiveness.

Lesson learnt is I don’t bankroll men anymore. I’m gonna spend on you if you spend on me. You’re broke, I’m also broke…. You’re generous damn it I’m spoiling you.





Wow!!!!
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by oz4real83(m): 6:24pm On Apr 19, 2023
Which country did this happen? What nationality is the girlfriend? shocked

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Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Dshocker(m): 6:31pm On Apr 19, 2023
Rokiat:
What a big risk. I would never be Dorothy the builder for no man.

This one you are sounding like this, seems men has shown you Shege.

Your eyez have seen grin
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Foodqueen(f): 6:36pm On Apr 19, 2023
My cousin did same thing for years.

They later got married but he never liked nor loved her.

He frustrated her till she died.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by Kobojunkiee: 9:02pm On Apr 19, 2023
Foodqueen:
■ My cousin did same thing for years. They later got married but he never liked nor loved her. He frustrated her till she died.
Yah! undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Giving Me Monthly Allowance When I Lost My Job – Man Reveals by advanceDNA: 9:31pm On Apr 19, 2023
Reminderz:
Rare scenario of a good woman... a once in a blue moon kind of story..

Fake story

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