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My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Notorioustroll: 5:04pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
It pains me to the hell of my heart when ever my beloved girlfriend says I am weak. What causes this is because I am not violent. Anytime I say I will not beat my girl no matter what she did, she would say "it's because you are weak". It makes me upset. I have told her several times to stop saying that but she won't listen. I just can't tell how to stop her from making that statement I hate it. She said the same thing today. She always makes it sound as if my decision was born out of the knowledge that I can't defeat her using physical strength. My guts are telling me something very painful😭😭😭 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Nataliace(f): 5:07pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Don't be tempted to beat her cause you will surely regret it. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:10pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Notorioustroll: BE STRONG and get rid of this person who likes to belittle you... or do what she wants you to do and BEAT THE HELL OUT OF HER to put her in check so choice is yours... stay with a desrespectful woman or become strong and put her in her place! 20 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Notorioustroll: 5:15pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
GreatVocalist:I know that very well. I will not be a victim of her temptation. |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Tecnophone: 5:16pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
you are very weak, the weakest so far Notorioustroll: |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Notorioustroll: 5:18pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:Thank you so much for your valued advice. I will never lay my hand on a lady no matter what she do. I would rather dump her and move on than stoop to the level of fighting a "mere woman". 10 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Notorioustroll: 5:19pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Tecnophone:Thank you for the compliment ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Rokiat(f): 5:20pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
The truth is bitter, but it looks like you are indeed weak. Because what are you doing with this low self esteem damaged no good for nothing woman? Someone who wants a violent jerk azzz for a man? She must clearly have daddy issues. Clearly your values don’t align. What you need to do is kick her out your life so she can go mingle with those misogynists jerk azzz men. They are dime a dozen in these streets shes sure to find her match. Find you a matured lady that appreciates a gentleman. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Autobot05: 5:23pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Op its better you leave her and get your peace of mind but dont beat her ( since she didnt hit you ). SOMETIMES BEING SOFT IS STRONG 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by soundOsonic: 5:24pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
I once dated a girl that was angry at me simply because I never scolded her and even get angry with her. She said I was weak, as a man I am meant to put her in check, I didn't fall for it, she deliberately tried to do something to get me irritated, but I was but I will handle things maturely. She found it boring, so I noticed it and I showed her what she asked for, she loose guard one time, and I talked sense into her and she was crying like a baby and refused picking my calls. Later she called me that my anger is very bad, she doesn't like it, I told her if she doesn't like it then don't make me get angry. The funny thing is I wasn't even angry, I said those hurtful words deliberately to give her what she wanted, the way I get sweet mouth, na thesame way I get bad mouth. So oga mi, if she is daring you, make sure you go physical on her, don't beat her, show your strength by pinning her down to the ground and ask her to repeat those words again. Do it in a playful manner after that you can kiss her and do whatever adults do with that passionate atmosphere. Na wetin she dey find be that. It could be her turn on. I have seen my roommate fighting with his babe, they can't be passionate until they start drawing blood. Though their case is extrrme and a sign of mesochist, some lady use all this things to spice up their love life. 6 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Draslo(m): 5:25pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
There's something you're doing or have done that makes you seem weak to her and trust me, there's a guy or guys out there that have shown her more manliness. Either way you don fuçk up. Next time you're in animal style session with her...when you're feeling her climaxing and her walls are tightening against your shaft, pull out and give her the hardest smack on her butt. When she turns around to ask you why, before she finishes grab her and flip her on her back violently while her vjayjay is still pulsating rhythmically with her heartbeats, place your strongest arm around her neck and reinsert yourself with your other hand. Thrust very hard while slapping her mildly with the weaker hand, then ask her again if she still thinks you're weak. Disclaimer: This is not guaranteed to work. Witches must be broken up with. Don't try to change anything. Just end it. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Draslo(m): 5:27pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Notorioustroll:There's also no such thing as a mere woman. Inu obirin jin. |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Notorioustroll: 5:27pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Rokiat:I am not weak emotionally or physically it's just that I hate to insult or beat up any lady not to talk of my girl. Generally I hate to hurt women not because I am weak or disrespectful but I see it as a sign of weakness and disrespect when a full grown man like me engage violently with these weaker vessels. And for your advice, I am considering that, seriously. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Notorioustroll: 5:30pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Draslo:I enjoyed this comment, not the sentiment shared but the poetic style-writing ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Draslo(m): 5:35pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Notorioustroll: ![]() |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by soundOsonic: 5:36pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Draslo:Oga wetin be this kids actually read this, it's on front page so the graphic content isn't necessary |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Joey4321: 5:36pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Notorioustroll: I would break up with her the first day I heard that shit 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by maestro299: 5:38pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Draslo(m): 5:39pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
soundOsonic:Harmless advice. Meanwhile, we've both seen worse hit the fp |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Rokiat(f): 5:40pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Notorioustroll: I didn’t mean it in that sense, I meant it in the sense that why would you be putting up with a woman of her type? Someone who can belittle you like this, as to not recognise the king that you are. Your kind of man is rare in these streets. You need to know your value and not settle for less. She should treat you like the king that you are and not belittle and disrespect you like this. In case you don’t know this is a direct attack on your manhood. Telling a man he’s weak/not man enough do you know what that means? My nigga she have discredited your entire manhood. Don’t even think about it, what do you mean by you are considering it? Dump this woman ASAP and move on to something better please. I really hate these stupid immature small girls that be giving value to these bad boys and jerks thereby putting down nice respectful men. I hate it. Because of them these dusties out here thinking they are doing the right thing and they got game. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:41pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Notorioustroll: sadly you have to understand that some women out there are so emotionally damaged that they dont value men like you because they see you as a weak being, and they will use every opportunity they have to belittle/disrespect you. some women out there understand that they are emotionally fukced up and need a man to straighten them out so that they DONT act a fool in a r/ship.... if you say or do nothing when your woman act a damn fool, then weak man you indeed are. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Rokiat(f): 5:42pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Draslo: Lolzzz so to you everything is about sex ehn? ![]() |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Flight90: 5:42pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
@op, you are weak ![]() Don't always allow words bring you down. The more you let it get to you, the more she sees it as an avenue to continue. The way I see it, she won't stop calling you weak not until she sees that the word she is calling you no longer has any effect on you |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by jimmychang: 6:00pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Notorioustroll: Leave her,she is abusing you emotionally and mentally.Instead of her to be happy she making you feel less of yourself. ![]() ![]() I am sure she is still in her early 20's 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Tickles001(m): 6:01pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Notorioustroll: I don't know how to put this, but you're actually weak. I don't want to start explaining it to you because I believe you're grown up. Stop masking your inadequacies with "I can't beat a woman" platitude. Everything is not about beating. Tell yourself the truth and work on yourself. PS: there's nothing wrong with getting violent with anyone that keeps crossing the line. Be it man or woman. |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Queendera(f): 6:52pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Notorioustroll:you are actually quite weak. A man should never ever use this emoji 😭😭. It reeks of weakness. Same with these 😓😔😞😢🥺 especially when asking for sex or anything. On a side note, please always threaten your babe. Make her fear you actually. Even if she calls you a potential wife beater, accept am. It's always better to be feared than ignored. It's always better to be feared. Next time if she said that you are weak, actually rush her, bend her hand to her back in thar painful position. Don't release her until she beg and beg. Do this always. Always pin her to her bed if she does something that warrant beating. But above all, keep it playful. But always exert your strength. |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by madscientist88(m): 6:55pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
she may be suffering from stolkom syndrome,ask if her dad is violent towards her,if he is then she was raised to be attracted to dominant attractive men, maybe your physique attracted her but she was also expecting a violent touch to your vibes,so she is a little disappointed,im 100% sure its stolkom syndrome, instigated by a previous intimate relationship or someone in her home.some ladies even prefer captive fetish,let not go there.good luck with your girl,but if im right,you should know her sickness has no cure, stolkom syndrome is worse than addiction,a normal person cant want peace and violence at same time. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by BlackMan6969(m): 6:58pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
How do you Niggas get to date bitches with bad mouth. Get rid of that bitch 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by Simeony007(m): 7:10pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
If you're still dating and she's saying things like this you know what to do know before things gets out of hand and it'll be difficult to correct later. If you marry her she'll say worst things. |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by OloYeOfEgbE: 7:22pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
You are not only weak but ignorant.. Well I don't believe stuffs like this.. You made it up |
Re: My Girlfriend Says I Am Weak by ItisWell22(f): 7:32pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Use your head oh, before we read your story for NL… 🤧 |
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