PureFace1:


What is so special about marriage lol ?

Most Nigerian guys are just desperate to enter that cage call marriage all in the name of God's know what, maybe because you have been brainwashed lol.

Your desperation for marriage is going to affect your chances of getting married.

Don't even consider a woman for marriage unless she is signaling to you that she is ready to take the relationship further with you and you find her suitable enough. Many guys proposal got rejected and their heart totally crushed because they couldn't read the signs , a woman will urge you to take the relationship further subtlely when she is ready for the next step with you. It is not you that will be so eager or you will be crush. When you are ready she may not be ready, when she is ready she will let you know subtlely.

Reason why it is better to just have fun and go with the flow if you are dating at least 3 women, it is just a matter of time before one would be totally into you and urge you to take that step. You are a man anyway and have all the time unlike women so take advantage of it instead of rushing and acting desperate like a woman that would soon hit menopause, men get even more attractive as they get older.

Theres no way i cant get married. Its a necessity for me if not i will lose some serious positions that are entitled to me.