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Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by mankan2k7(m): 10:19pm On May 04, 2023 |
You have a good father. Please let her do it. He get wetin an elderly man see why sitting him pikin no go see am lae lae while standing. It is very important, if the lady is not willing to do the test, free her without looking back. Thanks you father repeatedly while holding his legs say daddy, thank you for loving me. |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by ignatiuschinedu(m): 10:33pm On May 04, 2023 |
Mr man it is for your own good and for too |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Waffarianman(m): 10:52pm On May 04, 2023 |
beekind: Shebi na you carry matta cum make we EElu p iron 🧇 it you Neva c anything dey play⏯️▶️ |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by ford101: 10:56pm On May 04, 2023 |
1Sharon:if you like call it ultimatum or advice.you ll one day remember what he said.it is wise to look into a father's advice sorry you called it ultimatums. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by SPAMBOX7: 11:01pm On May 04, 2023 |
beekind:Tell your girl to go do hers. If she makes a fuss about it then just know she prolly has done alot of abortion. Our Nigerian girls no be like when you left naija. Alot has changed. Your Dad is fully aware of that hence his persistence in her running the test. I won't be surprised if your future wife already got a guy that services her whenever she's Hot. But you will sha, cos you no know as e dey go for here now. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by godofuck231: 11:34pm On May 04, 2023 |
The ancestors are awake, even the devil is afraid of a womans tricks |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Roozzaay(m): 11:58pm On May 04, 2023 |
beekind:No be you cause ham Oga make she go do ham, naso one small girl for area last week go destroyed her womb because she aborted 5 months pregnancy 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by 43Ronin: 12:34am On May 05, 2023 |
yh but these tests are done normally before marriage. a certain Catholic church in PHC there will even ask for the tests result like STD. HIV & fertility test before they marry you guys. nobody wants stories that touch pls listen to your father. nawa naija girls wey dey run go abroad no dey even falling men mind chai. so many single sisters in USA and Canada |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Juliearth(f): 12:43am On May 05, 2023 |
Beekind, this is quite simple. The fertility test should be added to the routine pre-wedding tests that you two would undergo. However, do not bring it up now. Advise your father to do likewise. It would seem off to bring it up on her first contact/visit with/to your parents. |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by OChimex: 2:34am On May 05, 2023 |
beekind: My dad used to say, “if you throw away old person words, one day you carry lantern they search for them” It happened to a relative of mine, his dad told him so, he ignored it. 4 years now after marriage, then still dey go from one hospital to another to get pregnant. A word is enough for the wise. Your dad is smart from what he has seen as a medical doctor, wahala dey for girls of nowadays, them dey do shege…… 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by lollybizzu(m): 2:52am On May 05, 2023 |
beekind: Bro, did you read his comment at all? See the best way to learn is from other people's experiences. He didn't say you should not marry her; he said slow down. And from experience I'd also advice you to slow down a little. I've been reading your responses, and I can tell you I've been there. Personally, I also fear for you at the "rush". However, it's your decision to make. Be ready to take whatever comes with it. Peace. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by bepositive11: 3:13am On May 05, 2023 |
beekind: That's good. You can do the fertility test together in Naija to make her feel comfortable. |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by linearity: 3:48am On May 05, 2023 |
beekind: I truly don’t see anything wrong with this request and don’t understand why you are making a big deal out of it. I am even surprise that, both of you did not consider doing this kind of test before moving to marriage and I am surprise that, your dad being a medical doctor is only asking for a fertility test? What about blood group test? Genotype test? Rhesus factor test? STD test? HIV test? You and this lady are living apart. Please don’t close your eyes to reality. I am positive she will want to know the results of each of the above tests from your side as well, that would say a lot about her, that she truly want to build a life with you. Please, talk to her about the test and you guys should go ahead and do them and exchange results. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by harmony75: 4:26am On May 05, 2023 |
I don't think it's a problem just as intending couples do the necessary! Your daddy as a doctor will carry out the test required so you have to let her see yours and discuss it then encourage her to do same! |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Ensquare(m): 6:08am On May 05, 2023 |
Which one is fertility test again? Just test knacking wototo and confirm the results 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by 9jaRealist: 7:01am On May 05, 2023 |
beekind: Dude, if your dad is telling you what to do, you darn sure ain’t ready for marriage…smh > |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Rocherock: 7:06am On May 05, 2023 |
I know you think that it is embarrassing asking her to do the test,but that test is so important, for someone that is free of any "cockroaches in the cupboard" she won't see it as anything. It is not wrong doing the test unless you in person can tell yourself the truth that you don't care about not having a child then you can stand against your father's suggestion but I will say that your father's suggestion is a good one but it won't be good for your father to be the one asking her to do the test. Your father is not choosing a partner for you but only asking for a test. No I haven't met her physically yet, we have only been dating online for 10 months now and haven't had a chance to visit Naija but I am visiting naija and will spend 4 months in naija when I visit later this month.[/quote] |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by chatinent: 7:22am On May 05, 2023 |
Truly, you no dey Nigeria. You for don do am since. |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by obama99: 7:41am On May 05, 2023 |
If you don't want to end up on the crusade ground seeking for the fruit of the womb on behalf of someone who knows her track. Follow your father's Instruction. The world has gone digital and it's also a prerequisite for motherhood. You father a medical doctor would have seen more than enough in his lifetime and may be talking from experience. A word is enough for the wise. |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Ombudsman1: 7:41am On May 05, 2023 |
SEE BROTHER, OMO SEE BROTHER. BROTHER WEY MUMU. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by skywalker240(m): 7:53am On May 05, 2023 |
beekind:Whatever the Old Man is insisting, you will appreciate it year's to come Nigerian girls have scattered their wombs with abortions after heavy hook ups, runs and what not, so it would be very hard to trust a 21st century Nigerian girl You have to follow the instructions of the wise Old Man, he sees what you don't. Am sure back when you were in Nigeria, you should know what the average Nigerian girl is capable of I don't see any reason why you should even question the instructions of your Father (by creating this thread) Am not saying your fiancee is bad, am saying Nigerian girls can never be trusted, forgive the Old Man if he feels same 👍 |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by zrocky: 7:55am On May 05, 2023 |
beekind:your dad is protecting you. I just hope she is godly. because our girls hear America omo pretending done start. If she dey fake am she go show you shege when she get there. SIGN PREUP 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by skywalker240(m): 8:05am On May 05, 2023 |
Juliearth:Nothing like anything Off My wife was even the one who insisted we do fertility, genotype, blood group etc, even though I have them in mind Only a woman with dirty cupboards would be put Off by such kind of suggestion 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by skywalker240(m): 8:08am On May 05, 2023 |
zrocky:Another Life saving advise, better still, you can Hakimi the situation infact that is the best @beekind 2 Likes |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by cejaypriesty(m): 8:11am On May 05, 2023 |
It's a simple thing ,do the test and don't complicate matters for yourself besides I would advice you to keep the marriage plan aside and get to know this girl in person I mean offline before the marriage plans. But then you don't live in Nigeria, though I will advice to check this girl out well before committing your life to her in marriage .As for the test I see no big deal in it do it so your dad can be happy . |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Femmyfamous4u(m): 8:19am On May 05, 2023 |
beekind: What your dad asked is not outrageous. Communicate with her that there are tests both of you need to do. Send her the ones you have done for assurance and ask her to do and send to you too my you don't have to tell her your dad asked for it. 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Passpands: 8:37am On May 05, 2023 |
Lol, I don’t want to believe you’re 38yrs old if not you wouldn’t bring this question to social media, without being told don’t you know you’re suppose to do a fertility test in your spouse before marrying her. At your big age your dad is still advising you on what to do. And you’re saying you’re scared to tell your girlfriend to do the test, so you can’t talk to your babe to something as important as this. You must not be ready for marriage |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by drimzsmoke(m): 8:40am On May 05, 2023 |
oz4real83: You dad is right, pregnancy is actually the best fertility test in a woman. A consultant once asked this question in his clinic few years ago and the answer just came to me. |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by donmarshia(m): 8:45am On May 05, 2023 |
You want to marry someone you met online, who lives in PH and whom you are yet to date physically. I know it's a new age and all that, but if you know how immoral young people are these days, you no go try am. The tests that should be carried out should not only be fertility tests, but also, mental, spiritual, hook-up, all medical tests, possible abortions, and body count test! You dey here dey argue about only fertility tests. Please be wise my brother and obey your Father. Obedience is better than sacrifice! |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by candygist: 8:56am On May 05, 2023 |
PoliteActivist: Your questions are useless |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by MansoryMX(m): 9:35am On May 05, 2023 |
beekind: I will give you two important advice. 1. Do a serious background check on your fiancé. Go to residential place and ask questions about her and her family because he get why, especially this one y’all met through Facebook. A Warri girl for that matter. 2. Not only do fertility test, also do womb checking because 50% of Warri girls have no womb. This one even lives in Ph. Another bad city Bro just do a thorough check on that girl you wan marry o! For real. Warri girls sabi fvck anyhow. They are extremely cheap and if the said fiancé is from a poor home. Man you don enter be that. You hardly see a Warri girl who is beautiful, from a poor home and isn’t a sex addict who fvck easily. Just do your research on her thoroughly ooo. I am not trying to discourage you but only making sure you aren’t falling for one of them condemn girls here in Warri because them too plenty. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Acme45: 9:50am On May 05, 2023 |
Depriest2020:God bless you my friend, you just said it all. Pls don't just tell her to do the test . Take her to the lab in fact recommended by your dad based on his experience and profession. So that the girl will not connive with any fake Lab scientist to forge result. I know of people who are married for years without any issue. Don't just go ahead to marry her because she is beautiful- beauty fades. |
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