When we choose to love, we tend to love with our heart and mind

Time and resources are invested in the relationship, we get so attached to our partner that we tend to ignore some traits that could affect us mentally
Those traits could have been corrected, only if we consistently speak about it to our partner with a view that it will be corrected

When those traits can't be corrected and it is affecting you mentally
There are ways you can detach yourself using these few tips
1) Draft out plan and activities on self development and get involved

2) spend 98percent of your time and energy building your personal business

3) Surround yourself with community of positive friends and families

4) Change current place of residence

5) Be a volunteer in any community/ church/ organization programs

The day you begin to get your mind preoccupied with positive project, the faster and quicker you get detach from a narcissist

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