AM REALLY WORRIED ABOUT OUR MEN IN NAIJA,
A WHOLE LOT OF THEM PROMISE YOU HEAVEN AND EARTH BUT DONT FULFILL THOSE PROMISES.
WHY IS IT LIKE THAT. CAN SOMEONE TELL ME WHY?

may be u are meeting the wrong men. I can see my self promise a girl without fulfilling my word. If i cant, i simply say no.

but why our naija girls never satisfied with the little given to them

see it go round with both side.

Well, if these arrogant men don't make these promises, some women wouldnt look at them twice, let alone love them. I don't blame dem, some women just love being lied to.

True words. The question should have been: why do Nigerian women love to entertain unreasonable promises.
The man who make a heaven and earth promise must have done it at the insistence of the woman.

So if heaven refuse to come down must the man kill himself? I think it is wrong on either side, not just the man.

My own question is promising a woman heaven & earth does it pertain 2 naija men only or all men in general


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lauryn:

Well, if these arrogant men don't make these promises, some women wouldnt look at them twice, let alone love them. I don't blame them, some women just love being lied to.

Better person u took the words right out my mouth, some naija girls no dey like hear a potential's story. they want a made man.
I can just imagine stepping to a girl with the line that u aspire to do this n that, she wouldn't even answer u, but when u step with the line i have this n that or i'm this or that, then u have her attention and everything else. Sad but true, so to still get gonos some guys have devised this promising of heaven and earth story to use code the girl

@ Topic

Which promise ooooooooooooooooooooooooooh

That is the only language that the AVERAGE nigerian girl understands.

Not all men cos i don`t have the time for all that talk talk or promises, I go tell u the real me and if u Bleep up, Nah u know cos i worth more than u can imagine.

Love Ya.

why do u wait for those promises in the first instance? are you talking about promises of marriage or promises of earthly things? the question should be this - why do women seek or look forward to promises from men.

rasque:

That is the only language that the AVERAGE nigerian girl understands.

and d AVERAGE nigerian man is dumb enough to go with d flow?

Har. I make NO promises whatsoever!

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Cause you girls love to believe lies. You dont always want to hear the truth and that is why these men continue to decieve you.

I'm a guy but i wont fool around or fool anyone around.

word my bro, thats what they want

@poster Just because 9ja women love promises and we give what they like to them which is promises

Cos they know what you wanna hear and they tell you what you wanna hear, for you to give them what they wanna get.

Nigerian women love to be lied to. They love to hear all the positives of life and shy away from the negatives. Which woman would like a guy that drives a beetle or 1980 santana? I once met a girl in Unilag and she was complaining that a boy with a shagari benz actually stopped in front of her and toasted her, she felt humilated and was just praising God that her bobo no de drive that kin rubbish when e de Naija. Meanwhile the bobo no de Jand but don relocate go anoda school because of confra yawa and the moto e de take impress am na im uncle own. Now if this girl knew this guy was a footwagon major, would she date him?, Abeg you girls stop ranting over things that are flowing in your blood! You love lies, you adore them and every Naija man would use this scope on you till the end of time!

lawyer:

Nigerian women love to be lied to. They love to hear all the positives of life and shy away from the negatives. Which woman would like a guy that drives a beetle or 1980 santana? I once met a girl in Unilag and she was complaining that a boy with a shagari benz actually stopped in front of her and toasted her, she felt humilated and was just praising God that her bobo no de drive that kin rubbish when e de Naija. Meanwhile the bobo no de Jand but don relocate go another school because of confra yawa and the moto e de take impress am na im uncle own. Now if this girl knew this guy was a footwagon major, would she date him?, Abeg you girls stop ranting over things that are flowing in your blood! You love lies, you adore them and every Naija man would use this scope on you till the end of time!

Not true in all cases!!!! Even where ladies love to be lied to, why must the men fall for it and lie? Men should do the right thing and avoid lies at all costs. Must guys lie to impress?

if we no promise,una no go gree for us

it takes two to tango you know

^{if na lie i talk,make una ,wetin una fit do sef?}

yeah, we no go gree, but the thing is, if i met a guy d first time he will look so big n respected. but after his lies n shit. he will be as big as a grain of garri 2 my eyes. n u no go like am if i lose respect 4 u

@ acid ^{chai,the name is scary enuf that i cant finish it}

true una no go gree,but if the guy tell you say e be poor boy,you go take eye reduce his status to poverty so therefore, he need to promise you wella so you go know say 'ground level,no shaking'.

it is just the truth,make we no decieve ourself,if i come meet you acid,shey you no go gree?

@poster
I assure its not just a Nigerian men thing.

Don't worry be Happy! and don't look forward to promises.

always believe in yourself and what you want to do and become in life!

Hey make una keep shut ooo cos nah una cos the lies, If bobo meet una and tell una real him, No be hisssssssssss nah go hisssssssssssss
Now bobo kan wise kan dey cook lie for una and nah dey happy cos nah dat lie nah wan hear nah no want hear the real truth of the BOBO,
Make una no complain ooooo cos i am fed up of u peeps self, But i will always be myself cos i love the truth and i say the truth of who i am, I don`t care if u don`t wanna believe me, Thats ur own cup of tea, So far,i have the REAL KOKO and i make use of my KOKO well well and am just SATISFIER with real APETIZER in me.

Love Ya.

saucekid:

@ acid ^{chai,the name is scary enough that i can't finish it}

true una no go gree,but if the guy tell you say e be poor boy,you go take eye reduce his status to poverty so therefore, he need to promise you wella so you go know say 'ground level,no shaking'.

u know what, letz just say that chicks varies, iight, cos recently the poor boiz are the hottest. n i dont really care if u poor or not. as far as u gat what i want