This is what I have noticed: there are many unmarried men in the world looking for a wife, but a woman is still praying and fasting and visiting native doctors to help him find a husband; there are many single ladies desperately looking for a husband, but a man is still wishing he can get a wife; there are many orphans roaming the streets wishing they've had a parent, yet many couples and fasting and praying and trying all forms of medication just to have a child. Something must be wrong somewhere...