One lady has been hyperventilating on Facebook.

Her grouse is that men above 35 shouldn't date girls 19 or below.

Should we tell her?

Maybe we should.

I wl never advise any man seeking a marriage that would bear children to marry any lady older than 25. And quite honestly the younger the better, barring child abuse age.

My opinion.

Reason: I'm an MBBS and in my line of work I see numerous ladies... and... I've done an informal survey: If I scan 10 ladies 26 and above at least 5 to 6 of them would have fibroids.

This is the hard truth that needs to be told. Raw sex plus emergency contraceptives like postinor is creating a whole new subset of early uterine fibroid sufferers .

I swear it.

So what are you doing with that demographic only to start disturbing people for prayers

If children are not on your mind then, this may not apply to you. Otherwise, it's the new reality upon us, many more of our younger ladies are suffering from this ailment than our parents generation had.


So the Facebook lady shouldn't blame men. Many of us only marry for reproduction purposes and the dynamic now has absolutely changed.


Thank you.

Ah.. you want to put evening newspapers into depression abi is that ur plan?

Nawttiboi007:
Ah.. you want to put evening newspapers into depression abi is that ur plan?

No mind am jare. Dem dey come 4 im head soon, very soon 🏃🏃🏃

Nawttiboi007:
Ah.. you want to put evening newspapers into depression abi is that ur plan?

Just saying reality

mymadam:

No mind am jare. Dem dey come 4 im head soon, very soon 🏃🏃🏃

I'm wearing a helmet already ⛑️

But where is IyaebeTheGreat, pocahontas,

Straybullet:
One lady has been hyperventilating on Facebook.

Her grouse is that men above 35 shouldn't date girls 19 or below.

Should we tell her?

Maybe we should.

I wl never advise any man seeking a marriage that would bear children to marry any lady older than 25. And quite honestly the younger the better, barring child abuse age.

My opinion.

Reason: I'm an MBBS and in my line of work I see numerous ladies... and... I've done an informal survey: If I scan 10 ladies 26 and above at least 5 to 6 of them would have fibroids.

This is the hard truth that needs to be told. Raw sex plus emergency contraceptives like postinor is creating a whole new subset of early uterine fibroid sufferers .

I swear it.

So what are you doing with that demographic only to start disturbing people for prayers

If children are not on your mind then, this may not apply to you. Otherwise, it's the new reality upon us, many more of our younger ladies are suffering from this ailment than our parents generation had.


So the Facebook lady shouldn't blame men. Many of us only marry for reproduction purposes and the dynamic now has absolutely changed.


Thank you.

just wait u will soon see the evening newspapers here attacking you as if u are their creator..

Hopemanfx:

just wait u will soon see the evening newspapers here attacking you as if u are their creator..

My helmet ⛑️ dey my head

Straybullet:


I'm wearing a helmet already ⛑️

Well, that's the truth sha.....I have seen some having difficulties conceiving while younger ones just dey get belle anyhow.......

To me it depends on the girl's lifestyle. Someone I wanted to marry was just 24 and has no womb. When I discovered, I quietly backed out. At that time a man was dragging her with me and went ahead to marry her. My friends were surprised that I didn't resist. I told everyone that the marriage won't last. In less than 6 months the man divorced her after discovering

worldclass68:
Well, that's the truth sha.....I have seen some having difficulties conceiving while younger ones just dey get belle anyhow.......

Precisely the point

seniorgozman:
To me it depends on the girl's lifestyle. Someone I wanted to marry was just 24 and has no womb. When I discovered, I quietly backed out. At that time a man was dragging her with me and went ahead to marry her. My friends were surprised that I didn't resist. I told everyone that the marriage won't last. In less than 6 months the man divorced her after discovering

Chai

Truth. I can't agree less cos the rate of fibroid surgeries among unmarried young woman around us is alarming compared to decades ago.

Kooldon:
Truth. I can't agree less cos the rate of fibroid surgeries among unmarried young woman around us is alarming compared to decades ago.

Thanks . It's unfortunate.

Kooldon:
Truth. I can't agree less cos the rate of fibroid surgeries among unmarried young woman around us is alarming compared to decades ago.

I am even scared of marriage, I might end up paying someone to allow me pregnant her while she goes her way

seniorgozman:


I am even scared of marriage, I might end up paying someone to allow me pregnant her while she goes her way

Shyt is happening nowadays. Sadly

Nawawooooo. May God have mercy

I do both younger ladies and older women. There is no better. One set too reckless - too selfish, the other set too marriage conscious or already has a kid. How do you determine the one with fibroid issue by lookin' at their faces? This has nothin' to do with age brother.

swagguElite:
I do both younger ladies and older women. There is no better. One set too reckless - too selfish, the other set too marriage conscious or already has a kid. How do you determine the one with fibroid issue by lookin' at their faces? This has nothin' to do with age brother.

Believe me or ask your doctor. Age is everything...Well almost everything

Wahala! Wahala!! Wahala!!!

talk2hb1:
Wahala! Wahala!! Wahala!!!

Toh

I just thank God for my life, na small small online fights be my own, spoil no follow. I don't even know what postinor looks like.

IyaebeTheGreat:
I just thank God for my life, na small small online fights be my own, spoil no follow. I don't even know what postinor looks like.

Wow! Really impressed. Are you above 24?

Straybullet:


Believe me or ask your doctor. Age is everything...Well almost everything

I don't think there is any literature yet that has categorically stated the exact cause of uterine myometrium.

What you stated here is just an opinion, there are several other opinions too.
But i believe the age factor is just as important as lifestyle
Just like some people believe advanced maternal age( 33 years and older) is one of the key factors for multiple gestation i.e conceiving twins, triplets etc

ProphetM0hammad:


I don't think there is any literature yet that has categorically stated the exact cause of uterine myometrium.

What you stated here is just an opinion, there are several other opinions too.
But i believe the age factor is just as important as lifestyle
Just like some people believe advanced maternal age( 33 years and older) is one of the key factors for multiple gestation i.e conceiving twins, triplets etc

Sure it's an opinion, but the available evidence weighs heavily In my favour....unopposed estrogen action by postinor preventing pregnancy, exposure to human papilloma virus from sex, age to give both enough time to produce the myomata.

Straybullet:
Many of us only marry for reproduction purposes and the dynamic now has absolutely changed.

Tomorrow, don't come here and be shouting women are wicked oh, except you have money. How can you say you marry ONLY for reproductive purposes? Hope you meet a woman with the same mindset.

Me, I want to marry for love, peace and companionship abeg. We think wokeness is the key...

wisdomkid:


Tomorrow, don't come here and be shouting women are wicked oh, except you have money. How can you say you marry ONLY for reproductive purposes? Hope you meet a woman with the same mindset.

Me, I want to marry for love, peace and companionship abeg. We think wokeness is the key...

Actually it is you who is expecting peace from human beings that be disappointed.
What they owe me is children. Nothing else.

To be honest I think age actually plays a part in it but I have witnessed a situation where a 38year old lady got married and had 2 children in 2 quick pregnancies without any complications whatsoever

🤔

Kobicove:
To be honest I think age actually plays a part in it but I have witnessed a situation where a 38year old lady got married and had 2 children in 2 quick pregnancies without any complications whatsoever

Just as I’ve seen a 23 year old with fibroids.

That’s why most conditions in medicine, number one cause is almost always UNKNOWN (Idiopathic).

And to the Op, I hope and pray none of your sisters or daughters exceed 24years, unmarried.

A consultant obstetrician while teaching in class asked “why would anyone marry a lady above 30years of age?”
Guess what! His daughter turned 31 this year, after her traditional marriage got cancelled few days away, due to genotype incompatibility last year.

Straybullet:
One lady has been hyperventilating on Facebook.

Her grouse is that men above 35 shouldn't date girls 19 or below.

Should we tell her?

Maybe we should.

I wl never advise any man seeking a marriage that would bear children to marry any lady older than 25. And quite honestly the younger the better, barring child abuse age.

My opinion.

Reason: I'm an MBBS and in my line of work I see numerous ladies... and... I've done an informal survey: If I scan 10 ladies 26 and above at least 5 to 6 of them would have fibroids.

This is the hard truth that needs to be told. Raw sex plus emergency contraceptives like postinor is creating a whole new subset of early uterine fibroid sufferers .

I swear it.

So what are you doing with that demographic only to start disturbing people for prayers

If children are not on your mind then, this may not apply to you. Otherwise, it's the new reality upon us, many more of our younger ladies are suffering from this ailment than our parents generation had.


So the Facebook lady shouldn't blame men. Many of us only marry for reproduction purposes and the dynamic now has absolutely changed.


Thank you.

I think your figure of 6 out 10 ladies over 26 having fibroid in Africa is very conservative, especially if they have not given birth at that age.

Statistics put that number at 8 out of 10 African ladies, the good news is there are now effective treatments and even nonsurgical means of getting rid of fibroid even in Nigeria, the disadvantage is, they are expensive and therefore beyond the reach of many families.

[url]https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0283201#:~:text=Background,of%20all%20races%20and%20ages.[/url]

Kobicove:
To be honest I think age actually plays a part in it but I have witnessed a situation where a 38year old lady got married and had 2 children in 2 quick pregnancies without any complications whatsoever

Very possible and happens . Probability is the issue here