Why are you guys fighting?
The poster asked if any of ya'll find Indian men attractive. Answer the question and move on? And seriously some of your answers were insultive as hell

@ poster
I don't find them attractive.  And plus i don't like how they treat darker skinned Indians? I mean comeon that Indian girl in American Next top Model that's drop-dead geogerous and she taught she was ugly justbecause she's dark-skin.  I agree with some of the people in this board that claim Indian's discriminate on skincolor.
Another reason i won't date one is i don't trust them, the same way they don't trust black people.
I have an indian boy in my Europe world history class that likes me but i will never go out with him cause he cute but i don't trust indians and plus my my mom will do anything to break up any relationship she doesn't find right. She always say " If two people are from different cultures, their relationship and marriage will never work.".

That's my answer.

All that garlic. . . . .

Indian?



Loff is Blind

why would any naija babe date an Asian?

what of curry?

@poster
its not even about dating indian men,because both male and female indians dont like black people how many indians have you seen marrying or even dating a black person?

lucabrasi:

@poster
its not even about dating indian men,because both male and female indians don't like black people how many indians have you seen marrying or even dating a black person?

Its not like they dont like black people. they are just too culture centric. they like to date within their own ethnicity. Even among Indians, there are certain ethnic groups that would never consider dating an indian of a different ethnic group.

I would rather be celibate than date an indian girl though. I have met quite a number of them and they are all the same, friggen selfish individuals.

Its interesting to read all flavors of comments here,  Yes! I am Indian from India and lived there till my teens,  Moved to America 2 yrs ago after 6 yrs in Australia. Honesty! being not exposed to other culture, like anyone, I was pretty much naive rather than judgmental. I stayed as paying guest with a black family and felt very much like home. I dated a black girl - Nigerian and a Kenyan exchange student in Sydney and it was an amazing experience, they are still my best friends. I never felt being judged and always felt comfortable being myself with them. These exposure made me a global person with my Indian roots intact. After moving to states, I hanged out with few black girls and made few friends. Most of black female I found are nice. I guess its all about the way you treat people. I as well met few who came with loads of pre conceived notion which I see here as well. I guess those losers have issues with themselves than anyone else.
Well! everyone individual is different and they have good reason to be the way they are. Life is a continuous learning process and with right exposure ppl develop appreciation for others, the way i did. Right now as well, My best friends are my colleagues a blk guy and a girl. When it comes to setting down I guess I will go for anyone who treats me well and respect me of who I am and same goes out from my side  as well. Indian family definitely want their kids to be happy and If I am happy with a black girl then my folks will also be eventually. Moreover its my life and I have all rights to find my love and introduce her to my other loved ones. 
on last note - its all about approaching any other ethnicity with an open mind than pre-judgmental and treating them the way you treat every one else. I am sure if I show some of these posts to my black friends they would definitely laugh loud.

Cheers

Inidans. . . Yeah. . . When I was studying in Suisse before, my roommate is from India and so are some of my best friends. It depends actually. I notice the ones living in developed places are always very open minded but those living in the rural area might consider alot of practices and beliefs.

hmmm me thinkin* ********** *** * *

Hi all,

I'm new to this forum but this topic really caught my attention. I wish to share my experience befriending an Indian man here. FYI i'm 26 yrs old, asian chinese gal, nvr dated before, let alone had sex. I've got nothing against having sex before marriage, just that i choose who my partner is & up till now, i haven't found one. I got to know this Indian man fr UK from Match.com. We were just e-mailing each other at the beginning when he started showering compliments etc after the first few e-mails & asked for my no. I tried to ignore his charming attempts coz i treated him as a friend. But the more i resisted, the more he doubled up his efforts to the point of telling me point blank that he is trying to charm me. Anyway, i noticed a few warning signs even though i had no experience. He would sms me once in a week or fortnightly which i dun think someone who's into me for real would have left it that long, calling me all sorts of endearments. There are times when he doesn't reply my sms etc which i found disturbing. He invited me to dinner when he flew over to asia on a working visit recently. We missed the 1st meeting coz he replied my sms too late (12.15am in the morning which i rejected immediately) after the date of our planned meeting. I called him twice on that day to confirm place & time & he didn't pick up the phone, prob coz my no appeared as private no & we're both working. Anyway i would have thot that he would have called me if there had been any problem/ he is committed to meet me, its basic manners to inform others if u cannot make it on a promised date. I gave him the benefit of doubt when he called me personally to explain that he got my sms date confirmation 3 days later from our planned date, prob due to phone lines probs as he is using a UK no while mine's local. Actually, i suspected that its not the case as he has a history of ignoring sms topics he didn't want to talk abt, not even an acknowledgment. So i agreed to make another date with him. I met him at his hotel & he lead me to his room. Again, i went in willingly & i have no compunction of having dinner in the room. We chatted, kissed & i was down to my underwear but i held back. The truth is i don't trust his intentions in regards to our relationship (though i would rate him a great kisser/lover) & i used menses as excuse (he said he didn't mind, but i insisted saying no). Rest assured that i have no qualms whatsoever to scream the blue murder if he tried to assault me. We parted as friends. After that meeting, we're back to square one as he is going back into the habit of being in touch once in a blue moon. What am i to him? A drive-in potential no string attached one-night stand? Anyway, i'm glad that i didn't let things go any further. I respect myself more than that. The whole episod of befriending him screwed my mind for a while. Thankfully, i'm back to being rational again. Rest assured that he is going to remain just a friend, FOREVER. I hope the girls/ladies out there take heart. Call a spade a spade. Stop trying to find excuses for their poor behaviours & save yourself the trouble.

Dating an Indian man means getting used to taking a meal of 10% carbohydrates, 2% starch and 88% pepper!!!

lai lai neva in a million years will i date an indian man!!!!

moved to dating and meet up.

Im not attracted to indian men and I never will

wen nigeria guyz are there with muscles n bbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg long thing

It's unfortunate that our ladies don't want Indian men and here I am snagging an Indian girl

hey everybody

i've seen many of us accusing indians of being racist. i'm n indian myself and i can tell u that its not racism but curiosity in most case. as of many bad experiences being told about here, i dont think there is any country with only good people or only bad 1s. only bcoz some1 had a bad experience doesnt mean u should develop an opinion in general about a country or a race. if u do, THAT would b racism.

those who say indians smell like curry, i'm sure they've never actually met an indian. i remember when last year i was in Florida on an official tour, my american boss's mom asked me, "Do u have elephants over there?" wot more can i say except that b4 anybody talks crap about indians or pakis or africans, he or she must get rid of his or her ignorance.

If you are a lady n u are like it big u don't wanna date indian.

dating or not dating someone is a individual's personal decision. its beyond such generalised rules like "if u r blah blah blah u dont wanna date an indian". if 1 person doesnt like someone, its not necessary that nobody else would like him either. 1 cant say his likes or dislikes r always correct.

I'm currently dating an Indian man we have been together for 10 months and it is great.

Gues d poster alrdy got hokd wth 1 .tryng to learn tipz and trickz

Wow guys, every one here, I mean EVERYONE here is upset over their perceived view of how racist indians are against blacks and so forth.

yet everyone here makes such terrible and racist comments against indians. its almost as if this thread has become some sort of hate filled spite against indians.

I think its god awful at the way you guys are insulting others. There is absolutely no need to treat anyone like that.

I think its a shame that this has turned into such an antagonistic and racist tirade against another race. Everyone here seems to comment on how ugly or terrible, how stupid or whatever indians are.

How do you feel when whites say that to you? or talk about you like that? how do you think indians feel when whites say that about them? Indians too have faced oppression for a very long time. The same can obviously be said about blacks. There is no point in looking down on each other or insulting each of our people. it makes no sense. Least of all in meaningless discussions on an internet forum.

I actually came here looking to see how other indians and blacks dated. As an Indian I have always been attracted to black females. My first girlfriend in college was black as was my second. I have dated hispanics, hal puerto rican/indian women, half black half white women and white women. I have enjoyed my relationships with all types of races. There is no need for such racial insensitivity.

INDIANS

Hi,

I am an indian was dating a nigeria girl before, but i have not faced any problems as such.

Yes we had some because we did not had the understanding as we were new in the relationship, but after spending a year we had no issues.

The basic point is to understand opposite persons requirements and leave EGO aside at least in a relation because that matters the most.

I agree indians have lot of family emotions but who does not have it is even common with nigerians.

There are many people who have posted a lot of positive and negative points about indians, but they are one-women man and can be trusted.

I felt really sad when i saw this post and also when discovered that when nigerians look indians in a wrong way or as a bad man.

I am not saying that because i am indian and i should protect indians, but as the same time i know indians are not that bad too.

If you go globally you see the top management guys are indian.

There are some indians working in the american government with OBAMA.

The best Doctors,
The best Engineers,
The best Scientist,
The best IT Industry,

All these best professionals in the world,

Who are these people,

Are they not INDIANS,

It is very easy to blame somebody for something, but that does not mean you should not look in your heart and see if it is clean or not.

My girlfriend, secretary, staff, cleaner, maid, driver ALL of them are nigerians, and they all are happy working with me, NO COMPLAINTS.

I am sorry if i have hurt anybody emotions as that was not my intension, just wanted to explain everybody that INDIANS are not bad people.

GOD BLESS.

lmao

its nt a big deal dating an indian man, wt if god say's he's ur husband, u hv no option than 2 go 4 dem. i love indian men becos dey are understanding

:d

Indians - they stink

Hey uh I'm a U.S. born and raised indian kid, erm I can say that personally, I'm not racist, and I've found myself attracted to girls of every race and color possible. To be honest, I find black girls pretty attractive, contrary to what most people on this site would think? But whatever.

its nice to see such an expanded and elaborated chat on Indian guys, especially it makes me feel proud because I belong to the same race.
No doubts that Indians carry smartest brain on their shoulders, which incidentally makes them a bit geeky.
Again I would like to say that we cannot put all Indians on same platform, some are bad and mostly are good.

For that matter its been 4 weeks since I landed in Nigeria, I find this place really good and culturally rich.
Though yet to find a good company to go places in lagos. I've put up near Surulere (Lagos). If someone can help me go places that would be of great help.

cheers !!

This thread started about dating Indian men, then it changed.

I can't believe how racist some of my fellow Nigerian brothers and sisters are coming across as. It's really sad, how misinformed, selfish and ignorant some people can be, I'd like to believe the majority of Nairalanders on here are educated. What then is your excuse for displaying such an intense dislike and ignorance, on a public board? If such attitudes came from some of the older, uneducated people from some of our remote villages in Nigeria, I'd understand. But from allegedly educated and enlightened people?

yommyuk:

Indians - they stink

Ignorance at it's greatest.

hickybrax:

INDIANS 

Speak up - what's wrong with Indians?

oneah:

If you are a lady n u are like it big u don't wanna date indian.

Where did you get that from?

Treetop20:

why would any naija babe date an Asian?

Why wouldn't they, if that was their choice?

spikedcylinder:

All that garlic. . . . .

Spike, you've let me down, you're the last person I'd have expected to be so narrow minded. 

Gamine:

Indian?



Loff is Blind

This thread's been a real eye-opener, in more ways than one.

Really disappointed.