Hi nairalanders
So there's this girl in my department i really like.
We were getting intimate at one point but suddenly she started ignoring my chat yet she still greets me if she sees me physically and I just respond coldly cus I don't get why u ignored me yet u still greeting me like u cared and all that
Anyways that aside
How do I stop having feelings for her and getting jealous now when she's always with this other guy in class.
They sit next to each other,they laugh,always talking and all that i feel really bad that I could have been the one.
I just want to let go and focus on my books
Help
Thanks

Kobranet123:
■ Hi nairalanders So there's this girl in my department i really like. We were getting intimate at one point but suddenly she started ignoring my chat yet she still greets me if she sees me physically and I just respond coldly cus I don't get why u ignored me yet u still greeting me like u cared and all that Anyways that aside How do I stop having feelings for her and getting jealous now when she's always with this other guy in class. They sit next to each other,they laugh,always talking and all that i feel really bad that I could have been the one. I just want to let go and focus on my books Help Thanks

if you had acted more maturely, you could have gotten answers directly from her as to why she started ignoring your chats that would have helped you with what you are asking us right for now. What do you want us to tell you right now? Well, take this time to adopt self-discipline and self-control in order to get your mind on your books..

to say hello to someone means the babe is CORDIAL to you. she doesnt hate you nor does she have bad blood with you....she just doesnt want to fukc you any longer. is that too difficult to understand? maybe she found someone that wants to actually build something with her (aka a BF and/or future husband) rather than someone who just want to fukc her when he is h0rny....

Kobojunkie:
if you had acted more maturely, you could have gotten answers directly from her as to why she started ignoring your chats that would have helped you with what you are asking us right for now. What do you want us to tell you right now? Well, take this time to adopt self-discipline and self-control in order to get your mind on your books..

I wasn't interested in knowing why she ignored the chat...that's why I didn't bother myself..

Anyways thanks for the tips

MrBrownJay1:
to say hello to someone means the babe is CORDIAL to you. she doesnt hate you nor does she have bad blood with you....she just doesnt want to fukc you any longer. is that too difficult to understand? maybe she found someone that wants to actually build something with her (aka a BF and/or future husband) rather than someone who just want to fukc her when he is h0rny....

TRUE
I've moved on
thanks Mr brown

The answer is simple : she's eager to fvck the other guy and come to you when the other chap no longer wants her around . So do yourself a favor and walk away from her . Infact , find another chick or do hookup to expel the excess kongi in you. You'll have a clear head afterwards

Jashub:
The answer is simple : she's eager to fvck the other guy and come to you when the other chap no longer wants her around . So do yourself a favor and walk away from her . Infact , find another chick or do hookup to expel the excess kongi in you. You'll have a clear head afterwards

thanks gee

Free the babe bro..no reason am.

Blaxie:
Free the babe bro..no reason am.

Ok boss

Kobranet123:
■ I wasn't interested in knowing why she ignored the chat...that's why I didn't bother myself..

Anyways thanks for the tips

Well, you let your ego deprive you of the medicine your mind needed is what. Now you know for next time that the major reason we struggle to let go is that the mind needs resolution/closure in order to properly resolve even failures in our lives.

Kobojunkie:
Well, you let your ego deprive you of the medicine your mind needed is what. Now you know for next time that the major reason we struggle to let go is that the mind needs resolution/closure in order to properly resolve even failures in our lives.

True sha but I felt that if I asked her why she ignored me she may feel I'm disturbing her or something and I know she doesn't really like me again so I just left her alone

Anyways lesson learnt

Tallesty1:
That moment when you are dealing with breakfast from someone you never dated

Lmaoooooo

Kobranet123:
■ True sha but I felt that if I asked her why she ignored me she may feel I'm disturbing her or something and I know she doesn't really like me again so I just left her alone

Anyways lesson learnt

1. She may feel that way but you have your texts to show that a relationship once existed between the two of hence giving you license to at least inquire. People aren't simply allowed to walk all over others without at least being open to answering the question why. The exception is if she already previously explained to you why she was no longer interested but you felt you needed to press on; in that case you become a stalker.

Kobojunkie:
1. She may feel that way but you have your texts to show that a relationship once existed between the two of hence giving you license to at least inquire. People aren't simply allowed to walk all over others without at least being open to answering the question why. The exception is if she already previously explained to you why she was no longer interested but you felt you needed to press on; in that case you become a stalker.

Wow I definitely learnt something new from this

Many many thanks boss