Good evening Agba! Apologies for DM
violation and I want to thank you for
being so impactful and making it a
twitter essence to all of us. I met my girlfriend around May 2021, She reside in my street with her parent in a celestial church compound. In short, we started dating and about 1 month when we were dating she started living with me which I consented perhaps because
the love was still fresh and shameless. You might be wondering if her parent were okay with the development.
Well, they didn't support at first but later gave in and we were both happy to live together with their consent. I came from an Islamic background, I'm in my mid twenties with an entrepreneur spirit. I've achieved a couple of assets and I have a company of my own. I could assume her parent consented her to stay with me because of my financial status.
One time my younger sister came to visit me and i introduced her to my sister. They both had fun and gist before my sister left the second day. My mom called me that same day my sister left that she heard about my new girlfriend, she asked me what I was doing with a cele girl that she will never consent with me having her as a gf let alone marrying her. I tried to enlighten my mom that this particular
lady was different and her parent were cool too. My Mom was worried that how could she had move in with me within just 2 month of dating and her parent also consent, that a
responsible parent will never accept that. About a week after, my mom had to come to their church to report her parent to their pastor (Olusho as they usually call it). I was very annoyed with my mom that I vowed never to leave this lady. Truth be told, this lady is virtuous, beautiful and respectful lady and I
love her so much. All this hullabaloo went down and I pretend I had nothing to do with her again. Meanwhile, her parent were of the
opinion that they can't dictate for their children. If she loves me equally, they're ready to support her decision and I also second this.
About 4 month after, her dad called me to meet him at the church compound, he told me that I can attest to their standard of living of which most of the time I do send them tokens and sometimes quality amount to get foodstuff and foot their bills. He then asked me if I could please get him a car for Uber, this request was made in the presence of my gf and her mom. For the first time, I felt ashamed and disappointed. This is a Red flag, not even up to 6 months and her Dad is making this kind of request. I just told him I can't afford it and if there's anything I can help him with I'll communicate it to their daughter which is my gf. I started recalling most of her parent stylish request through their daughter, they might call her on phone that her younger ones haven't eating or some frivolous issues that
requires money, I'd have to be responsible for all of this. I can't imagine how she could be
responsible to all of this when she doesn't have her on work or means of livelihood. I had this retrospection and I thought of what I could do. Firstly, I started dodging some billings and I try to focus on her and enlighten her on what's right and wrong, I asked her
about her plans and she said she intend to become a nurse, I enrolled her to an hospital where she would learn Nursing while she process her school.
She had an elder sister who's married and stays in Lagos. Her sister called me one day and asked if she could squat in my place with her two kids for 2-3 days for a church anniversary party that she told her husband not to secure an hotel since I reside in the
same street with their church. I was short of words because I wasn't expecting this kind of shameless attitude. Well, she came and she
almost exceed a week while I had to call my sister to pretend she's coming to my place. Getting to my place, mysister called my mom that she had confirmed that I've been hypnotized and charmed. She left that day
because she overheard my sister conversation with my mom. Since I have denied her dad request to buy him a car, her dad as now
developed a scam way of borrowing Money from me without paying back. It has happened about three times and I have denied him of that way. Her mom once did it too...Lol. This kind of demands has become extortions and
not normal at all.

It's been almost 2 years and I have tried to manage them with this red flags but they'll only stop for a while after a strict declining and then bring it on again. During this years, I don't
feel safe with them, I don't trust them, they're desperate, my girlfriend (their daughter) is different and doesn't exhibit this kind of attitude but she's unable to stop them too.
I need your Advice. Kindly keep me Anon as I'll also be observing the comments sections too

#lalasticlala

So you don't know that marriages and relationships are financial break through/investment /stability for ladies and their families these days?

Just check if you can still breathe or you may eventually choke to faint by the vampires....

Awww… eeeyaahh… sorry sir… what a sad story and headline.
People at times can be something else.

Please whoever reads the write up should summarize it for me because I didn't read it.

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They are already finishing a FINISHED man

The only thing useful about Nigeria girl is to fvck them and dump them

Fiction.

L'ori iro part1

This is big time red flag, don't ignore it seat down and think very well if you can cope with them after marriage, if all this is happening when you have not married their daughter what will now happened if you end up marrying the girl? My advice for you is don't start what you can't finish, why not put all this resources in taking care of your parents and siblings?.

This is what you get when the only reason why you fell in love with a girl is because of her breast and nyash.

You're doing well for yourself, and you feel dating a jobless liability is the fastest way for you to achieve your life's goals.

Honestly, most guys lack class when it comes to women.

Don't renew your house rent. Pack to another house this time far away from them but this time your girlfriend is not moving in permanently with you,but come and go after few days.

Also the apartment should not be more than a room and parlour self-contained so that nobody will bring family to your house.

The parents have seen the girl as their break away from financial issues

The first red flag is how would a father allow their daughter to stay with a man just 2 months into dating and u guys stay in same street

You are already a finished man because a woman will provide for her maiden family no matter the case

If you cannot stay with the constant request
you better run for your life

Honestly, people wey get girl child dey enjoy.

Just born, train till breast and nyansh go grow then throw into the street.

There is a nigga that will willingly carry her cross, whether legally or illegally.

-Karleb

😂😂😂😂😂

Omoh your babe papa na confam agbero, him suppose dey park dey load bus or dey do conductor work that your babe papa be like person were go convince your babe make she marry another person were get money pass you if him see am. Normally I no too blame the man Sha.. na wetin poverty dey cause

tonye33:
Good evening Agba! Apologies for DM
violation and I want to thank you for
being so impactful and making it a
twitter essence to all of us. I met my girlfriend around May 2021, She reside in my street with her parent in a celestial church compound. In short, we started dating and about 1 month when we were dating she started living with me which I consented perhaps because
the love was still fresh and shameless. You might be wondering if her parent were okay with the development.
Well, they didn't support at first but later gave in and we were both happy to live together with their consent. I came from an Islamic background, I'm in my mid twenties with an entrepreneur spirit. I've achieved a couple of assets and I have a company of my own. I could assume her parent consented her to stay with me because of my financial status.
One time my younger sister came to visit me and i introduced her to my sister. They both had fun and gist before my sister left the second day. My mom called me that same day my sister left that she heard about my new girlfriend, she asked me what I was doing with a cele girl that she will never consent with me having her as a gf let alone marrying her. I tried to enlighten my mom that this particular
lady was different and her parent were cool too. My Mom was worried that how could she had move in with me within just 2 month of dating and her parent also consent, that a
responsible parent will never accept that. About a week after, my mom had to come to their church to report her parent to their pastor (Olusho as they usually call it). I was very annoyed with my mom that I vowed never to leave this lady. Truth be told, this lady is virtuous, beautiful and respectful lady and I
love her so much. All this hullabaloo went down and I pretend I had nothing to do with her again. Meanwhile, her parent were of the
opinion that they can't dictate for their children. If she loves me equally, they're ready to support her decision and I also second this.
About 4 month after, her dad called me to meet him at the church compound, he told me that I can attest to their standard of living of which most of the time I do send them tokens and sometimes quality amount to get foodstuff and foot their bills. He then asked me if I could please get him a car for Uber, this request was made in the presence of my gf and her mom. For the first time, I felt ashamed and disappointed. This is a Red flag, not even up to 6 months and her Dad is making this kind of request. I just told him I can't afford it and if there's anything I can help him with I'll communicate it to their daughter which is my gf. I started recalling most of her parent stylish request through their daughter, they might call her on phone that her younger ones haven't eating or some frivolous issues that
requires money, I'd have to be responsible for all of this. I can't imagine how she could be
responsible to all of this when she doesn't have her on work or means of livelihood. I had this retrospection and I thought of what I could do. Firstly, I started dodging some billings and I try to focus on her and enlighten her on what's right and wrong, I asked her
about her plans and she said she intend to become a nurse, I enrolled her to an hospital where she would learn Nursing while she process her school.
She had an elder sister who's married and stays in Lagos. Her sister called me one day and asked if she could squat in my place with her two kids for 2-3 days for a church anniversary party that she told her husband not to secure an hotel since I reside in the
same street with their church. I was short of words because I wasn't expecting this kind of shameless attitude. Well, she came and she
almost exceed a week while I had to call my sister to pretend she's coming to my place. Getting to my place, mysister called my mom that she had confirmed that I've been hypnotized and charmed. She left that day
because she overheard my sister conversation with my mom. Since I have denied her dad request to buy him a car, her dad as now
developed a scam way of borrowing Money from me without paying back. It has happened about three times and I have denied him of that way. Her mom once did it too...Lol. This kind of demands has become extortions and
not normal at all.

It's been almost 2 years and I have tried to manage them with this red flags but they'll only stop for a while after a strict declining and then bring it on again. During this years, I don't
feel safe with them, I don't trust them, they're desperate, my girlfriend (their daughter) is different and doesn't exhibit this kind of attitude but she's unable to stop them too.
I need your Advice. Kindly keep me Anon as I'll also be observing the comments sections too

Nothing wey person no go see for this nairaland

Wahala

Raalsalghul:
Honestly, people wey get girl child dey enjoy.

Just born, train till breast and nyansh go grow then throw into the street.

There is a nigga that will willingly carry her cross, whether legally or illegally.

-Karleb

😂😂😂😂😂

I feel appreciated boss!

No lies detected.

This is supa story



Abeg I need summary

My son no go marry/date girl from broke home. Period.

K

Bros just run

Another fiction from our Nl Nollywood. Post after post,thread after thread,format after format, stupidity after stupidity. The veil always splits.

In a bid to act high value or pose as a financially stable man the op came up with this


If just 1% of men have 500k in their account,how come almost all men are taking care of their girlfriends? Or is it from the little 'change' this men have that they are suddenly catering for a girlfriend? It doesn't add up.

CuriousStudent:
Another fiction from our Nl Nollywood. Post after post,thread after thread,format after format, stupidity after stupidity. The veil always splits.

In a bid to act high value or pose as a financially stable man the op came up with this


If just 1% of men have 500k in their account,how come almost all men are taking care of their girlfriends? Or is it from the little 'change' this men have that they are suddenly catering for a girlfriend? It doesn't add up.

Your username shows you are not old enough to be on threads like this. Stick to education thread.

What i will say is never let your gf no your actual income… know this and have peace of mind

A really tough one, most especially as the girl seems different.

Stand your ground and do what's best for you.

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You see why rich avoid the poor like plague. It's because of dirty, shameless attitudes like this. Seems like your gf is not like that, just her family. Anyways, you must pick one of these demons.

First one is to let her go, which will systematically cut off her family. Or accept that being with her will be an unending request for financial assistance from her family. You must choose one.

In any case, make sure you learn from this. Don't just jump into a relationship without due background check. Leave feeling and emotions for women, as a man, you don't have that privilege.

Because no matter how you feel, your wallet is the fuel that keeps the relationship going, so be vigilant and don't fall in love unthinkingly. I mean, she is broke and can date a financial capable man like you, that's female privilege.

The quest to be the all plus all to a lady who can be pushed around, is what gets most men into such bullsh*t!

Worst part is Nigerian parents who allow their daughter move in with a man, before marriage.
E don deep pass red flag sef… 😢

pansophist:
You see why rich avoid the poor like plague. It's because of dirty, shameless attitudes like this.

Because no matter how you feel, your wallet is the fuel that keeps the relationship going, so be vigilant and don't fall in love unthinkingly. I mean, she is broke and can date a financial capable man like you, that's female privilege.

It’s no longer about them being poor, as being poor isn’t a sin.

It’s the shamelessness from a family, with the worst part being the father who should have some dignity to protect.

Dude just end the relationship, se Na like this u wan dey live for the rest of your life, I pity u cause it will only get worse once u marry cause then ur gf will start giving u tough time and attitude anytime u denied her parent request.... I pity u

They didn’t just bring red flags 🚩, it’s a fuqin carnival 🎡
Congratulations, the circus 🎪 is in town.

Ara agbala husband material.

tonye33:
■ It's been almost 2 years and I have tried to manage them with this red flags but they'll only stop for a while after a strict declining and then bring it on again. During this years, I don't feel safe with them, I don't trust them, they're desperate, my girlfriend (their daughter) is different and doesn't exhibit this kind of attitude but she's unable to stop them too. I need your Advice. Kindly keep me Anon as I'll also be observing the comments sections too

If the girlfriend is unwilling to stand between you and her mooch of a family then it is best you abandon ship entirely. I mean the only reason these folks seem to have access to you is the fact that you are dating their daughter. By the way, if that gal were to get pregnant by you, are stuck with them for life, so you better engage your brain at this point and discuss this issue seriously with her before it is too late for you.

This one have been charmed and there’s nothing you can do about it .
RIP