Getting so attached to an abuser and a narcissist personality couple with the illtreatment from his family can due to many factors
1) Low self esteem

2) Lack of self love

3) fear of being single again and loneliness

An abuser knows your weak point and can mess you up mentally especially when you are finding it hard to get detached...

If you are tired of this situation, please do the following
1) join an association and volunteer your service.. when you surround yourself with people you can relate with and begin to help others with your service, you are likely to get detached and you will easily get someone who will appreciate you because you are surrounded by people..

2) get your own apartment.. staying with him is not a good idea.
Your life is at risk

He needs help and what you are doing is not the solutions....

Narcissist personality and an abuser derive pleasure and feel better when they unleash pain to their victims..

Please stay away
Juliet diary