If you have a friend, go sometimes and be chilling with him. I pray you can save enough money to find a place for yourself bro. You need to get her our of your sight for awhile for your sanity.

GeneraVieve:

Please can you explain what a Capricorn is?

nah zodiac sign nah which one be jamb question abi wetin unah mean by Capricorn oooooo .... To the best of my knowledge it's a zodiac sign.. if you need more clarification use chatgpt bros. I have answered your question oya answer mine

If i say you should use the woman for ritual now, people will say am hash, but she want quick money.

PoliteActivist:


I really felt for you reading this. I can tell it is authentic, not all these stories people make up here.
I want you to bear this in mind: every great person goes through a period like this. You also go through a period when someone or circumstances or shame will try to throw you off a path you know in your mind is your path to success. It is your defining moment. Your mum means well - she wants to nag you into taking risks, into doing something big. But it is people like her that cause people to carry drugs or such and end up in jail. Use her nagging as motivating fuel, but also guard against people like her. Maybe NLFPMod will move to FP for more advice.

she doesn't mean well abeg... person like me I for don dismother her....what kind of mother puts unnecessary pressure on her child if not an unreasonable mother.....

ukaface:

And you are sure she is your real mother? Like she gave birth to you? And gave you her breast to suck as a baby?
Guy go look for one room , face me i face you, anywhere far away from her and hustle like mad. No do illegitimate o
If it’s to go back to your 25k job go back while still learning the skills

GET OUT!

honestly she is an unreasonable mother..a good and reasonable mother is supposed to confort and console her child not add to his problem.. someone like me she will never see me for life again..edn if she die one Kobo I will not contribute or attend... rubbish

GeneraVieve:

Thank you very much for this,I really appreciate. My mum doesn't mean well for me at all,even if I should get a job of 150k,she will still complain that it will take time for me to buy a car,I don't know if she has wants me to go illegal, imagine comparing me with a my relative that is into fraud. What pains me the most,is that she is a leader in one of church programs and she preaches about being good and avoiding crimes. I have stopped going to the program bcus I don't like hypocrites.
All that is in my mind is to hustle harder and leave here soon. After that I will cut all ties with her.

bro cut all ties ooo... someone like me she will never see me again...I go marry raise family without her consent or allowing her come close...if she like make she kpai her burial I no go attend what rubbish

That's very bad of her, hope you learnt from your mistakes equally. Travelling back home after Nysc is one thing I tell guys never to attempt, e dey bring see finish.

Wizywiz:
she doesn't mean well abeg... person like me I for don dismother her....what kind of mother puts unnecessary pressure on her child if not an unreasonable mother.....

GeneraVieve:

Thank you very much for this,I really appreciate. My mum doesn't mean well for me at all,even if I should get a job of 150k,she will still complain that it will take time for me to buy a car,I don't know if she has wants .

By "mean well" I mean she wants you to SUCCEED by any means necessary, or die trying. Many women are like that - especially with their husbands. It's either you SUCCEED, or you LEAVE them, or you die of DEPRESSION. Those are your choices!

She might not be your real mother!
Do some research!
God will prosper you, my boy

if you have made it, please dont help your mother with any monetary assistance. if she cant respect you now that you are strugling, why would she enjoy with you when you have made it?

Stay focused. You'll succeed. You need to stay away from her for now as soon as it's possible but keep in touch with loved ones and stay close to God. You need that for strength and to maintain emotional balance Please don't ever think of exiting this world without fulfilling your divine purpose. God is with you and will surely uplift you.