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Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by cococandy(f): 10:10pm On May 15, 2023 |
Octopusssy: Not a literal rod. But I don’t want to have a theological discussion today. However on the topic, we are in agreement that parents cross the line between corporal punishment and physical abuse. But who’s regulating it? Who’s there to tell them hey now it’s not longer discipline it’s abuse. We all know of that wicked madam who hit someone else’s kid and the kid suffered bruises all over. We all agree that it’s evil and wicked. Why is it excusable when the parents do it to their own kids 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kobojunkie: 10:12pm On May 15, 2023 |
Sonyboom:1. Do you even understand what it takes to get a child to the point of him doing what you did? The reason you revolted in such a way was because of the psychological toll all that flogging had taken on you. No child should have to get to that point at all. For a long time after that day at age 14, I walked around with guilt after what I had tried to do to my dad. It was not easy at all. 2. The system out in much of the developed world is in order to prevent kids from getting pushed to the point where they slam a parent or even think it is OK to kill them in order to be free of or end the abuse. 3. If you are not willing to step out of your will, then best you remain in Nigeria because people are being widely sensitized about these things out in the West and they are not going to turn a blind eye to your rudeness as far as their society and rules. 3 Likes |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by frugal(m): 10:12pm On May 15, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: All the ones we flogged yesterday are the ones now looting our country dry today 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Fuckyoumod: 10:14pm On May 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:after jail time, my advice to him is to sell off his properties and relocate to Nigeria. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by ModCaller: 10:18pm On May 15, 2023 |
techbroX: Beating is abuse. That your forefathers have been doing it doesn't make it right |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:18pm On May 15, 2023 |
frugal: you people are mistaking something fundamental here....just because you flogged a child doesnt mean he will end up the best citizen out there, it just means that WHILE LIVING UNDER YOUR ROOF, THEY WILL OBEY YOUR HOUSE RULES AND REGULATIONS! majority of us didnt end up as looters, did we?! 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Nobody: 10:19pm On May 15, 2023 |
ModCaller: What's your problem? Why the nasty comment about your forefathers? |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kobojunkie: 10:20pm On May 15, 2023 |
abbey621:Compared to other parents, my parents were mild. Physical abuse leaves scars and each person handles them differently is all. Flogging a child does not necessarily mean that child would turn out right — that much I know a lot about — nor does it guarantee said a child would grow into a responsible human being. A lot of folks who were raised harsher than I was didn't out so well, as a matter of fact, I am glad I fought back when I did as I am at least not clouded at this point in my life as many of them remain. So, if it produces results that aren't necessarily better than not flogging at all, what is the point of it? |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by ModCaller: 10:21pm On May 15, 2023 |
TUANKU: Beating someone to make him respect you is called oppression, not discipline 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by cococandy(f): 10:21pm On May 15, 2023 |
Fuckyoumod: He did. And no he didn’t go to jail because obviously… And before you ask, no the beating didn’t help me in any way. I also think 3 years in jail is a bit excessive. Just as his punishment to the kid was excessive |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kobojunkie: 10:21pm On May 15, 2023 |
Fuckyoumod:Sell what property again? |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kobojunkie: 10:22pm On May 15, 2023 |
ModCaller:No be wetin police dey do Nigerians every day be that? |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by abbey621(m): 10:23pm On May 15, 2023 |
JohnBullMySon: It is more common than you know especially in USA households with over 80 million children, the percentage might be 5% like you said but 5% of 50 million(80 million minus orphans, those living with grandparents, uncles etc) is what? 2.5 million, that is 2.5 million kids calling their parents, Betty & Joe! In the 70s it was virtually non existent but nowadays it is seen as signs of emancipation for being a cool parent. [url]https://www.phillytrib.com/commentary/backintheday/back-in-the-day-calling-your-parents-by-their-first-names-is-a-no-no/article_9407332a-52e4-5add-b17d-a9ddd98b9e88.html#:~:text=Some%20children%20call%20their%20parents,want%20a%20less%20formal%20relationship.[/url] https://www.cbsnews.com/newyork/news/parents-names/ https://www.metroparent.com/parenting/oh-mother/kids-call-parents-by-their-first-names/ https://www.huffpost.com/entry/calling-parent-by-first-name_b_1453337 |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by cococandy(f): 10:23pm On May 15, 2023 |
Sonyboom: Ignoramus 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by abbey621(m): 10:27pm On May 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Are you speaking from the point of view of majority or are you just cherry-picking the cases that it didn't turn out right? I always like to look at things from a more complete point of view. I know I might sound like a broken record but overall when all things are equal, Nigerian kids are still more disciplined than American kids. Good or bad, the flogging kept most of us from experimenting our wild tendencies as kids or teenagers. It is a brain resetting mechanism that works wonderfully well when implemented properly with due moderation. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by godwon01(m): 10:29pm On May 15, 2023 |
A lot of Nigerian are very useless in the UK ,because of their children. They can not work due to child cruelty they were been accused of. Nigerian children misbehave in the house because they have been brain washed that their parents can not beat them. Some Nigerian were regretting bringing their kids to the UK. It is difficult to send them back home. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by godliman: 10:30pm On May 15, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:Flogging a child is child abuse, confusing a child to do gender transitioning by surgery and hormone swap is not abuse but child's right, this people are cursed 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kobojunkie: 10:32pm On May 15, 2023 |
abbey621:1. There is no evidence for any of the claims you keep making in your desperate attempts to compare Nigerian kids to American kids, so die that nonsense altogether. As for the former, well, my folks stopped hitting me at 14, as I previously explained, however, I have friends whose parents did not stop until even their 20s. Many of them rebelled eventually going down the wrong path. Most of them even to this day are still spinning wheels as far as who they are mentally. 2. Yet again, there is no evidence of this at all. It is simply a myth you have been fed that you lot hold to without really reasoning for yourselves. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kobojunkie: 10:34pm On May 15, 2023 |
godwon01:Are Nigerians the only ones with kids in the UK for crying out loud? 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by 1stGenAmerican(f): 10:35pm On May 15, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: The man beat his son with a metal rod then lied on his wife, not caring if she went to jail for false reports. What you’re telling us is that beating kids so bad with objects like metal rods that land them in the hospital with injuries produces ‘great human beings’ which I refuse to believe. Those kinds of beatings produce children that grow into angry, hostile adults with PTSD who go on to abuse their kids. 2 Likes |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by 1stGenAmerican(f): 10:36pm On May 15, 2023 |
anthonyuncle: Partners should also agree that they won’t lie and blame each other for things that can send them to jail like this man tried doing to his wife. He told police that she was lying to them and he would’ve been fine if she would’ve gone to jail. 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by 1stGenAmerican(f): 10:38pm On May 15, 2023 |
madridguy: You think laws that prohibit adults from beating 9 year olds with metal rods like cattle and causing injuries that require hospital visits are funny laws? 2 Likes |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by 1stGenAmerican(f): 10:39pm On May 15, 2023 |
techbroX: Again, this so called man lied to the police and said that his wife, who was away visiting her older son, was lying to police. He tried sending her to jail so if she takes him back when he is released then she is crazy. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by JohnBullMySon: 10:40pm On May 15, 2023 |
abbey621:If it has to be in the news then it is not common. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, just that it's not common as you say. Let's even assume it is common, it does not automatically mean disrespect. It depends on the context. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by matm: 10:43pm On May 15, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: The kids over there carry guns to school and shoot teachers and their fellow children, and u dare not touch them. That's really a curse on the whites from God, as they raise monsters who cause them sleepless night. No one can be wiser than God who said, spare the rod and spoil the child. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Shimran(m): 10:44pm On May 15, 2023 |
pyyxxaro: Laff wan kill me |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by KingPure(m): 10:44pm On May 15, 2023 |
Less we forget, since it seems you like dancing alone to songs that make the black man appear like Lucifer. I really want to believe that snatching ballot boxes is way less harmful than going on a shooting spree against peeps who are barely part of the craze that jumped on the shooter, which is becoming rampant in the Western world more than ever. Every nation is blessed, almost no nation on earth is cursed, only the people is left with the power of choice for sustainable development. Let no man deceive no one here, 90% of Nigerians in the UK, and other 'safe' haven today were once bruised with cane either at home or in school, yet they grew thick skin to become a better version of themselves in the respective nations they now found succour. So snatching ballot boxes or becoming a better citizenry are two different parallel lines running based on the individual choices. One can be punished and still end up a serious criminal. Mindlog: |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by 1stGenAmerican(f): 10:46pm On May 15, 2023 |
eddynaira125: Do you know the size of a 9 year old? A man who beats a child that size with metal rods so bad that the child winds up in the hospital days later with its and bruises also abuses his wife and the story said there was evidence of abuse with the other children so I if his wife was tired of being married to such a monster, I understand why. He’s been beating those children for a while and the child still disobeyed their orders about the computer so that tells us that beatings weren’t working to begin with, doesn’t it? The man will be an ex-convict once released and I really pray that he’s deported. If he isn’t, he’ll have hell finding a job because of his criminal record and rightfully so. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by stonedlive(m): 10:47pm On May 15, 2023 |
"Well, it seems more like abuse than beating cos he was reported to have beaten his kid with a "metal stick." At the same time, the mother and the child should be ready to take care of themselves without the husband because that man may not forget that incarceration... It's not gonna be easy to reconcile after 3 years in prison." did i hear you say reconcile with an african man after you as the wife cooperated with oyinbo peple to rob him of 3 years of his life... i laugh in greek.. reconcile ko ... they are on their own for the rest of their lives.. the UK govt will need to find a new husband for her and a new father for the son.... they will not see the man again after he comes out of jail ooo...lol |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by matm: 10:50pm On May 15, 2023 |
madridguy: They claim to be respecters of human rights.In other words, they claim to be more humane than God. They accept and respect every thing that they feel make one happy like homo,Lesbianism, sex with animals, marriage with trees, nudity in public places, and lack of discipline of kids. What a debauchery!!! Africans need to take d gospel back to the whites. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by olaniyilukman(m): 10:51pm On May 15, 2023 |
Ireportlive:Hypocrite at higher level, and Nigerian kids are responsible, laugh my ass out... We can't just continue with our primitive ways of instilling discipline in our children,we abuse them physically and we tag it as discipline, we continue maltreating ourselves as slaves and we expect white people to start respecting us, it is not done that way, you will learn how to respect yourself before other people will start respecting you... |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Nobody: 10:52pm On May 15, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican: Hmm... Guess the family is broken then. So much for "till death do us part"... So sad! |
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