SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?

Did they say once you go, you will NEVER return to naija again? If so, follow your heart.

hardbody:


My cousin even has a right of abode but chose not to use it. It's no biggie. Most people don't give a rat's ass about relocating. I personally only go for trainings sponsored by my office and spend not more than an hour longer than the trainings end, sometimes I leave a day before like my last trip in December when I left on a Thursday while the training was to end on Friday. It's all about choices and no biggie

Your case is different, life no dey hard you. He said life is hard for him. His office doesn't send him abroad or training

It's because your mum still sends your money from the UK every months. That's why...

Why not go, spend some years to see if you wanna settle there or not .. you can always return if you don't find the palace interesting...

I will advise that you go first....

For facts, it is clear, yes, things are hard in Nigeria...but not for you.


Anyways, I'll prefer Canada to the UK twice on a Sunday.

Sleekcode:
You're destined to be somehow useless.

It's not your fault

Not eager to relocate abroad technically means destined to be useless? The mentality of many Nigerian youth is somehow warped!

Sleekcode:
You're destined to be somehow useless.

It's not your fault

Did you say "somehow?'

Segzy19:
It's because your mum still sends your money from the UK every months. That's why...

Why not go, spend some years to see if you wanna settle there or not .. you can always return if you don't find the palace interesting...

I will advise that you go first....

Are you sure there is even a visa? Clout chasing every where

He is a lazy man that want to depend on the pounds coming from United Kingdom.. he doesn't wanna work . I know plenty guys like that . There people over there send money everytime ...s9 they don't know what it takes to hustle.

Niwdog:
Why you go travel...per say your people wey Dey abroad still they send you change, you come use am they flex Nigeria, my brother the truth be say you ant doing nothing in Nigeria cause if you are..then your family won't pester you to live

His family should help him establish in Nigeria then. Must he go to UK for hourly work?

maasoap:

Not eager to relocate abroad technically means destined to be useless? The mentality of most Nigerians is somehow warped!

Too many shallow thinkers.

What do you expect?

Most don't have a mind of their own.

Follow follow.

I remember that friend of mine that got a Canada PR in 2012. He was scared because of fear of unknown because he had a job that pay’s about 200k then. I encouraged him to go try it over there first (as someone that has been outta of the country then). He later told me it’s one of the best decision he ever made. @OP There is no harm traveling over there to see things first hand for yourself and ‘if’, you can find your way back. Besides, when did UK started interviewing for VISA?

Somalino:


Your case is different, life no dey hard you. He said life is hard for him. His office doesn't send him abroad or training

My bad. I probably didn't read him right. I was under the impression he had a cozy and fluffy life back here. I have built a career, have investments by God's grace and don't see a justification in starting life afresh . I toyed with Canada for a while but was dissuaded and that's the last there is to relocating. Maybe when I have made more free money I will contemplate Kitts.

Dexy4yah:

You guys keep making polytechnic students look like they are just wasting there time.

Oga who go succeed in life go succeed weda polytechnic or university.

Brother, I have nothing against polytechnic.

OmoNla99:
I remember that friend of mine that got a Canada PR in 2012. He was scared because of fear of unknown because he had a job that pay’s about 200k then. I encouraged him to go try it over there first (as someone that has been outta of the country then). He later told me it’s one of the best decision he ever made. @OP There is no harm traveling over there to see things first hand for yourself and ‘if’, you can find your way back. Besides, when did UK started interviewing for VISA?

Exactly. I am not aware UK interviews anyone for Visa. My last renewal happened in December last year. I did my usual fast track and was granted one in 48 hrs. I have never experienced anyone being interviewed sha

SHINJACRUSADER:
Head slammer like you and Ur family should target islamic countries like Pakistan,Iran and Saudi...
After voting Ur fellow apc disaster Ur family members want u to run away ..

You still dey carry and propagate hate on a faceless forum? Waste of your time. Better go to your Facebook and twitter pages

SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?

Hope they don't send you money

I think it's all about where everybody feels comfortable. I've been to the UK more than 50times in the past 20years and I never for once prefer it ahead of Nigeria. All my friends and colleagues don't understand me just like your mom too. Over time, I figured out that just been a citizen is one major source of happiness they have. And for me not to feel bad about not being a citizen makes them sad.

I have to do whatever makes me happy. In Burna's voice, my happiness still be my own.
I hate a society where "all man for himself" and "no community relationship". Everybody is watching each other suspiciously. I probably will like India better because of the communal and family culture they practice.

In Nigeria, I can practically wear my Ankara and enter any party tmrw and they will attend to me. I remember attending a friend's birthday party and the first thing the guy said to me and a colleague was " Did you guys come with your own drinks?" Even cigarettes that my guy borrowed had to be returned.

Mayeldah:
Don't go bro, UK is already writing names of people they will deport effective January 2024

We all live here and make it better. You can travel for hoildays though!

Names of illegals immigrants I believe.


I doubt if UK still got illegal immigrants, cos the porosity of the immigration system has made almost everybody legal.

Cruise master

Sleekcode:
You're destined to be somehow useless.

It's not your fault

🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😆

SultanOfAbia:

Honestly, I rather make it big in Nigeria

A lot of people have made this same mistake you are making and the end up being begger for the rest of their live , as a matter of fact your kids and generation unborn might end up not forgiving you for life .

This is not ordinary if I must say , does going to the Uk stop you from coming back to your country to achieve anything you wish to achieve . Go first make you know say at least your future is secured.

Former governor senator even president dey chop am finish for this country, even Davido be American citizen, former senate president saraki na Uk citizen . If future shake dem go japa . Ur matter no be ordinary bro.

SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?

Baba na the immunity when you get to smoke weed round town make you no wan comot , the thing wen possess you pass evil spirit

SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?

Funny as it may sound, You are not alone, but I advise you go spend at least a year then believe me, you'll be fine.

Go there and experience the life there compare and contrast and choose the one that suit you

I think the guy might have a visiting and not a settlement visa (if indeed there is any visa at all) which means practically resigning to life as an illegal. The life of a resident with correct papers is hard enough at the moment talk less of an illegal with virtually no right or access to proper work.

Hardship is not dealing with you . You have all the support from your family. If it was other way round. Na u go dey struggle to japa.

Photo or I ain't buying your bullshit boy.
So you got a tourists visa and never used til after a year,not even a single entry and expect to just wake up one night and fly?! You be moooron.

jackcanfield:
Just go if you don't like it come back...

Abi. He who has head has no cap

Iamajala:
When did UK start conducting interview?

Ah na true o , help us ask him 🤣

This story is not true lol

chatinent:
For facts, it is clear, yes, things are hard in Nigeria...but not for you.


Anyways, I'll prefer Canada to the UK twice on a Sunday.

I am not a fan of UK, but get a truthful person to tell you about Canada! It’s an empty and boring country. The opportunities there are highly competitive.

Unlike UK, Considering how robust the economy is, it has enormous opportunities with far less competition.


Australia will be a better option.

phorget:




Can your mum adopt me so as to replace yourself? Help me to ask her please.

Lolz wetin be this !

The answer is not now