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How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Nobody: 8:13pm On May 31, 2023 |
Pls how do i deal with my junior brother? I'm 19 yrs old and he is 17 He is very spoilt and stubborn I just finished having a confrontation with him because i locked the window in our room cus the breeze entrying was much and it was making the cotton to fall. He came in the room where i was reading and started shouting that the room is smelling calling me insultive name like olorun,obun room that isn'tsmelling at all.a new room. When my mom intervened he starts saying she's always supporting me which he always says.. He thinks he can fight me but i don't just want to destroy that his mouth that is running like tap so i had to control my temper because he is a slim person and I'm more muscular. Imagine when he had a surgery my mom spent over 120k on the surgery yet he still has the balls to talk any how to her. Pls how do we bring him to order Note: Our dad is late Thanks much 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by taylor88(m): 8:16pm On May 31, 2023 |
19 and 17 Two of una need someone older to handle una two 180 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Westerhoffe(m): 8:20pm On May 31, 2023 |
Boys Remand Home straight… he'll come back gentle as a dove. Personal Disclaimer: I typed the above under the influence of water. 51 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by OgbeniOja1: 8:21pm On May 31, 2023 |
Destroy his mouth 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by HacheNoire: 8:22pm On May 31, 2023 |
Have you beaten him before? You need teach him a lesson he will never forget. That’s the way you can create limits and set boundaries. Take him to a field where no one can separate you, and beat him VERY well. I mean very well. If you can afford boxing gloves, get two pairs for both of you. If he insist, beat him till he raises up his hands. Make sure you do until you are tired, and make sure he does not run away. I will suggest upstairs of an uncompleted building cos he might want to flee. Come back and thank me. 183 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Nobody: 8:24pm On May 31, 2023 |
OgbeniOja1: Lolzz 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Nobody: 8:24pm On May 31, 2023 |
HacheNoire: Alright thanks 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by mariahAngel(f): 8:25pm On May 31, 2023 |
For the sake of your mum, do not fight (beat up) your younger brother. Please o! She might not be able to bear her sons fighting. Have and keep having patience with him, I believe he'll change eventually. Whenever he starts to act all aggressive and stubborn, talk to him in a calmer tone. Tell him not to talk back at your mum also. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Nobody: 8:28pm On May 31, 2023 |
Temioolajide: I'm guessing your mom is the type that dosent like you beating your younger one because he is a last born...if your mom allowed you to be beating him he wouldn't grow up spoilt...hes I'll advice you to beat him while he is still young hes only 17...he has enough time to still mature 17 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Nobody: 8:30pm On May 31, 2023 |
mariahAngel: My dear you dont understand boys. Unlike girls, boys actually need physical beatings to reset their brains..mothers may not like it but beating does wonders to a boy 93 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by mariahAngel(f): 8:33pm On May 31, 2023 |
Rayban25: What if something happens to either of them in the process? 😰 Op, don't you have any uncle your brother revere? 8 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Nobody: 8:36pm On May 31, 2023 |
Rayban25: If i beat him my mom will start saying we are making noise and disturbing the neighbour's... 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Nobody: 8:37pm On May 31, 2023 |
mariahAngel: Exactly my mom can't bear it when we beat up each other... I will talk to him in a calm tone next time Thank u Mariah 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by mariahAngel(f): 8:51pm On May 31, 2023 |
Temioolajide: Either that, or you ignore him. I believe he'll change. Pele. 6 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Nobody: 8:53pm On May 31, 2023 |
Temioolajide: Well I've given my own advice..sorry that your dad passed on..he would have better handled your brother but he must learn when one or the other...because if he gets to the university and further on in life with this attitude who knows..he may get into trouble especially with cultists that's a story for another day I just hope he dosent learn the hard way 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Dtruthspeaker: 8:55pm On May 31, 2023 |
Temioolajide: Have you not talked before? You already know it won't work. Why are you hesitant in beating him? I don go. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Nobody: 8:58pm On May 31, 2023 |
Rayban25: I hope not Many thanks |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by brain54(m): 9:18pm On May 31, 2023 |
HacheNoire:What if OP takes younger bro to the uncompleted building… Where he can’t get away. With the boxing gloves. Hoping to beat him blue- black. And then unfortunately the table turns. And younger bro beats OP silly instead. Meanwhile no one to separate them. So he beats OP till he gets tired? What if….? If you Dey think back also reason front. Meanwhile OP… you are the elder of the two. It is what it is. You just have to be the more mature… play the bigger bro part. It’s a good thing your mom supports you. Violence won’t solve anything… I don’t know the nature of his operation but what if something goes wrong in the process of you both slugging it out. Be the bigger man and ignore your younger bro. Youthful exuberance at play. He will out grow it with time! 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Waffarianman(m): 9:26pm On May 31, 2023 |
Just behave yourself until you're ready leave that home. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Nobody: 9:52pm On May 31, 2023 |
brain54: Alright sir I'll ignore him Thank you 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Kasdat5(m): 9:58pm On May 31, 2023 |
Lock yourself with him in the room Hide the keys Tell him to say any unpleasant word(s) Comot shirt Bleed his mouth Give him black eye but if he beats you instead , just give up.. 23 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by sisisioge: 11:10pm On May 31, 2023 |
Temioolajide: Biko no mind him o. Remember he had a surgery not long along. The silly pikin needs to be treated with other measures but not violence. Chai....they are just so stuipid when so young. It is well fa. And I cant think of what you should do to him too... Sorry 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Nobody: 7:30am On Jun 01, 2023 |
sisisioge: Thanks ma |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Mindlog: 10:13am On Jun 01, 2023 |
Temioolajide: Do get an uncle of yours who is assertive to come to the house and talk to both of you and your mum, help draw and encourage boundaries as there is need for behavioural modifications to be maintained as your younger brother shouldn't be enabled to continue that pathway.......las, las na outsiders go beat am up. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Westerhoffe(m): 10:31am On Jun 01, 2023 |
Temioolajide: If you take him to a field to beat him and the story ends up like that of Cain and Abel, will the commentor take responsibility? So, beating him may not be the way forward… 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by AyobamiIsaac12: 10:37am On Jun 01, 2023 |
Kasdat5:Omo 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by ahnie: 10:47am On Jun 01, 2023 |
Colos 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Miracle1677: 12:36pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Good |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Ioet: 12:36pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by OfficialRep(m): 12:36pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Patience |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by oluwaseyi0: 12:37pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
unpopular opinion here take things very very easy, you guys are more or less twins 17 and 19 are same age range it's not like you senior him with 10years or you can pay his school fees or feed him you probaly have friends his age, and he probably has friend your age who don't boss him around like you are desperate to do I'm 3 years older than my best friend and I don't see myself way older than him, we are even classmate in higher institution drink cold water and always talk things out with your homie, try to understand his view and let him understand yours let him understand he will sometime need to compromise just like you will also need to compromise don't mind all those shouting beat him as if he is you 6years own brother are just setting you up for more adversaries 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by MASTAkiLLAh(m): 12:38pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Everything you said there should be blamed on your parents so don't disturb yourself with frivolities. The best you can do is to advise him one last time man to man then look for a way to improve your life. Get into school or finish with school, learn skills that will put a steady income in your pockets and account then look for a way to leave that house. Carry your cross, your brother should carry his own cross while your parents carry their own. Whenever he comes visiting your place, you can impose and enforce your own laws 4 Likes |
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