In my teenage years I believed those girls that'll say they love being friends with guys than their gender, the older I get I realised that is rubbish talk. A male and a female can never be in a platonic relationship.

Yes but nor for long

Efna55:
In my teenage years I believed those girls that'll say they love being friends with guys than their gender, the older I get I realised that is rubbish talk. A male and a female can never be in a platonic relationship.

Yep once a get wants to be be your friend she wants something from you and after she gets it she runs away. Gold destiny stealers

Efna55:
In my teenage years I believed those girls that'll say they love being friends with guys than their gender, the older I get I realised that is rubbish talk. A male and a female can never be in a platonic relationship.

God has blessed me with very sincere female friends. Some got married and somehow dragged me into becoming friends with their husbands self. If you are sincere, sincere people will come your way..

Efna55:
In my teenage years I believed those girls that'll say they love being friends with guys than their gender, the older I get I realised that is rubbish talk. A male and a female can never be in a platonic relationship.

Of course you can, don't you have female relatives?

As you dont see your male friends as sex objects, you don't have to see your female friends as sex objects either, I guess that mindset takes maturity.

Also, I bet if you had an overweight female friend, you will be very comfortable in a platonic relationship with them?

It happens but them most times they end up becoming fvck buddies. I see nothing wrong if my woman has male friends. It's normal but when she gets too close that she starts talking too much about one particular guy and becoming more fond of him and even spends a lot of time on that one male friend. My brother just let her go gradually without a fight. Na before I dey bother. This new me is peaceful. U are going out on dates with ur new found male friend and ur even bold to tell me... I will get ur replacement without telling u but I will make sure u see with ur eyes. I have seen dogs and chickens become pals for real. Even lions and goats so anything is possible. Life's not supposed to be hard. It's why I don't do girls with male besties but if I ever get entangled in such, na to let go

Why should I just be friends with a female?

Food is meant to be eaten therefore I do not play with my food

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Not for me.

I like to dig deep into any relationship. After all what are preek and toto for.

If you play with her, someone out there would be doing the fvcking for you.

Dey there dey play!

If I discovered that you have a female bestie, that's the end of the relationship