pansophist:




It's like you've just started dating women. I'm assuming you're a man lol.

If a woman is in need, you will know. A man may hide his need because woman loose respect for men they support financially. But women? I'll know.

They leave cues. She will talk. She will say it indirectly. It's impossible to confuse it, unless the man just don't want to help. A woman in financial need is the easiest thing to spot in the world.

If I ask "how are you", and she said I'm not fine, I'll only continue asking her what the problem is if I'm sure I can help. If not, I'll just tell her " God is your strength ".

Stop generalising pls.
Some men are who they are today cause of their wives.
Some survived financial doom and resurrected courtesy of the women in their lived.
Many women earn more than their husbands and the financial muscles in their homes but how will you know if they don't tell you?
The house they live in, money in his account he sends to his people, that big car his salary can't afford, holidays, name them are the handiwork of their women but they are do respectful to the dignity of their spouses that they make the man take all the glory.

You will never hear anything and these women will never allow you to disrespect their men.
And some ungrateful in-laws..........,

Go to various Nigerian markets and see ladies with more than 6 sales girls and 10 ùmù boy with various branches. Hubby may have started small side biz for her but she made it.
She still go home and make some particular foods for her husband.
The way u guys crucify women shows lack of maturity.
Nigerian women are not favoured by marriage. If you remove culture and religion, tell 100 happily married Nigerian women if they prefer to have their freedom, I tell you more than 70% will shout Yes. Marriage is bondage cos our men take and take and take without knowing when to stop and we term that culture but its pure greed and need for control on their part hence psychological manipulation every time.
The likes of yul edochie and those that justified his greediness. He wouldn't have tried that in the West were the wife will be protected if she decides to walk.

NoToPile:


You have a point walahi. Na real manipulation, trap indeed.

Why should a married woman be paying houserent, schoolfees and chop moni? Ha!

She go provide the money come die on top home front work again. Lots of the men can't do any other thing in the home apart from providing money so let them provide.

With the kind of men being bred nowadays abeg let them do their providing in peace simple.

Independent and strong women. They are different from we gold-diggers. I always laugh in Hindu whenever I see their posts anywhere. All they get is social media praises from manipulative men. Even men know that men should provide. That is why if they sniff that the woman has the upperhand, they would say she married the man or she is the husband.

Men sat and divided themselves into groups. Alfa, beta, redpill, simp...etc. But when it gets to a woman picking a man, they try to bully her into accepting anything with a penis. You don't and they have a derogative name for you. I hope these women LEARN.

pansophist:


Haaaa, this one is serious. It's not a good start.

It's difficult to access their situation since we are not in a relationship. But is either the man who made her feel uncomfortable coming to him for her needs, he doesn't have, or something else. I don't know.

Lol

The man has. I don't know why is like that. Perhaps, that's what some guys want. They don't owe her not until after marriage.

She's right

I am happy I read this post, I am wiser now

Wawelexy:
No man prays for being fed by a woman... I totally agree with this in marriage...

But ladies showing entitlement mentality during relationship/courtship is what we won't succumb to.... You or your father should be responsible for your welfare until I marry you....

The idea of having a want is not entitlement. Men love and want sex,they want respect,they want purity and a host of all other of their wants.

Call women wanting providing men as having their wants not entitlement. Stop naming our wants entitlement. Else you should call men desires entitlement.

let him invest in you. Groom him in the dating days on his provider roles. Many idiots talk about not spending on women till they marry them. Ignore them. They test you of your capability of being a good wife in your dating stage,why not you also test them on their capability of being good husbands in the dating?
If a man invites you to his house and you didn't clean the place or cook,he will write you off . In that same vain you should write him off if you tell him of your problem and he can't solve.

Sadly some women will learn the hard way that marriage is a continuation of standards set in dating.

pocohantas:


Independent and strong women.They are different from we gold-diggers. I always laugh in Hindu whenever I see their posts anywhere. All they get is social media praises from manipulative men. Even men know that men should provide. That is why if they sniff that the woman has the upperhand, they would say she married the man or she is the husband.

Men sat and divided themselves into groups. Alfa, beta, redpill, simp...etc. But when it gets to a woman picking a man, they try to bully her into accepting anything with a penis. You don't and they have a derogative name for you. I hope these women LEARN.

You see the bolded is E.O.D they themselves know, how women argue this is what I don't get.