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Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by MacDodger: 1:45pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
A dosage of the two is necessary for growth |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by iamjavadem(m): 1:48pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
It's for emotional intelligence. yeahh: |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by IamMobisola(f): 1:51pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Even orphans grow up to achieve great success in life. Enough of these stupid comparisons and trying to downplay mothers effort on their children! |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by GloriousGbola: 1:54pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
as a father of three, this is absolute BS sometimes my wife is the hardass, sometimes i am the hardass and vice versa. it all depends on the issue and the offence and the parents previous experiences 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by talented321: 1:55pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Many children raised by only mother as so emotional. I don't want any woman to raise my kid for me. 1 Like |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by GboyegaD(m): 1:56pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
There's a big difference between discipline and abuse. Unfortunately, many were abused and still repeat the same process and call it discipline. 2 Likes |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by Rhozabeth(m): 2:00pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Interesting write up! However, some people (men and/or women) grew up under one of the parents and they came out very disciplined. I know cases of these kind of people that either grew up with only the mum or only the dad and they came out well. However, we cannot separate the fact that the individual also wants to be a better person in life. For a person like me, my mum was a 'crazy' disciplinarian but my dad was the meek type. However, I can say for a fact that I and my siblings came out disciplined, although we have different level of discipline but i know say our head correct. Non of us ever went astray! Three of my siblings are now out of the country and two of us are here in Nigeria but non of us has ever had any form of brush with the law and this is all becos of what we learnt growing up! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by Anticrime77: 2:07pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Mothers love. My dad almost hv me killed when i was young in d name of discipline. I will neva treat my kids dat way. He was a monster those yrs. |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by greypencils: 2:09pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Whosoever seats you down and tells you the truth about the facts of life, whosoever tells you the TRUTH about his or her own mistakes and tells you how to avoid future problems is more influential. |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by Anticrime77: 2:10pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
GboyegaD: God bless u for this my brother. This has affected me so badly dat i hardly want to see my father. Still finding it hard to connect with him till today 1 Like |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by youngsahito(m): 2:10pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Microwhy:why not confront your wife about it now b4 it's too late. |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by Emeka71(m): 2:17pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
emmaak2:Nothing said. |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by ofexpryz(m): 2:18pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Microwhy:Best thing is to always remind the child when he or she comes of a reasonable age that you usually give the funds for those things. When ignored, the child grows up not knowing. Speaking from experience. |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by Meditation01(m): 2:19pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Visualize a beautiful rose in the center of your chest. It is not necessary, when doing this exercise, to see a clear picture of the rose. Simply do the best you can to imagine a soft, reddish rose in the center of your chest. If other thoughts and images pass through your mind while youíre performing this exercise, simply ignore them. Imagine that the rose is completely folded up; none of the petals has unfolded. Now, as you focus your attention upon the reddish rose in the center of your chest, imagine that the first set of petals, the outer row of petals, are gradually unfolding. As they do so, imagine them growing and expanding and filling the entire area of your chest. Simultaneously feel that a wave of peace and joy is spreading throughout your entire chest area. Then imagine that a second set of rose petals is unfolding. Slowly and gently they unfold and expand, this time filling the entire area of your body. And again, feel another wave of peace and joy, even deeper than the first, starting in the center of the chest, in the center of the rose, and expanding outwards, filling your entire body with peace and joy. Now visualize a third set of petals, again starting in the center of the rose, and imagine them expanding outwards, filling up the entire room, spreading peace and joy everywhere throughout the room or area in which you are located. Then visualize a fourth set of petals opening up, this time expanding and filling the entire earth. Feel that peace and joy are spreading from the center of your chest, from the center of the rose, throughout all of the earth, and filling all of the people, all of the beings and all of the objects on this earth with peace and joy. Now visualize another set of petals opening up, this time filling the entire solar system. And simultaneously feel that you are spreading your own inner peace, of which you have an infinite supply, throughout the entire solar system. Then visualize that a seventh row of petals is opening up, this time filling up the entire universe, spreading peace and joy throughout the universe and into the infinite. As you practice this exercise, continue to imagine additional petals of the rose unfolding. As each set of petals unfolds, and spreads out into the infinite, feel that they are reaching further and further out and spreading a deeper peace and joy throughout your whole being, throughout all of existence. There is no end to the petals of the inner rose. Continue to unfold set after set of petals for as long as you wish to practice this exercise. As you do so, you will find yourself constantly entering deeper and deeper into a state of total relaxation. |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by Microwhy: 2:22pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
youngsahito:Like I've stated before, my wife very often do tell them to say "Thank you daddy". I am speaking generally about some women using it against their husband. . |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by Microwhy: 2:29pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
ofexpryz:Very correct.. By the time children will grow up to realise that fathers are really the husler, it might be too late and the closeness won't naturally exist. Even though they go visit them both, the children often end up in mother's bedroom and not the father's to discuss pressing issues. |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by PHIPEX(m): 2:43pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Both are needed for balance. Once any of these is lacking, the child will feel the impact later in life one way of another. It's either he's overly pampered or mentally brutalised. Carrot and stick approach is always important for correction and discipline. |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by blackslayer: 2:43pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Definitely both needed! |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by BlackAlien007: 2:56pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Jovejj: Pls u all should be aware of this idiot here is a big scammer and a thief he goes around scamming people on telegram now he is here on our beloved nl.... Beware!!! |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by Deepthoughts: 3:52pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Chijeep:Father's Love don't work that way, father's are not sadist,they don't just beat children,a father would definitely like to know how the fees was misplaced or lost first before any other action would follow, that's what I would do, that's how my father behaved n I'm eternally grateful to him. 1 Like |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by maasoap(m): 3:57pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Chijeep: As for me, nothing like "father's disciplinary love" at all to my kids. Can't risk them growing up with mentality of "our daddy hate us". I haven't used all the love in correcting them, why should I employ unnecessary discipline? Must I raise my kids using punishments as the only means just because that's how I was raised? 3 Likes |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by hotspec(m): 4:01pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Microwhy: Next time, call the child, hand over the money to him and ask him to go give his mum to buy the stuffs for him. Or better, if u can buy yourself, do so. 2 Likes |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by Kaniff: 4:09pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Good point LikeAking: |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by GboyegaD(m): 4:28pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Anticrime77: I think most fathers did from a place of lack of understanding. For them, it was about how they were raised and them replicating the same thing. Many are still making the same mistake and sometimes, I feel it is because we know but don't understand. I am sure if you have a one-on-one discussion with him regarding why he acted that way, you will be shocked it was because he thought/knew it was better not that he understood if it was the right thing to do. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by Hassanmaye(m): 5:29pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
LikeAking:Lies from the pit of hell, why do most kids raised by single mums turned to drugs and alcohol and criminality?? |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by Chetas81(m): 5:42pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
What is the responsibility of Mrs single mothers |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by Eagle360(m): 5:58pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Father Vs Son Disciplinary method, be must become a man in no distance time. He is looking for every means to provide for his family. Father Vs Dauther He show love and care to the girl. Mother vs Son Very caring to him always available for moral support, use many tactics to control his life. So a wise son have to grow up so that he will not become mummy's boy. Mother vs Daughter Normal love.
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Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by mayorall(m): 6:15pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Microwhy: Next time, drive your boy to the store, let him choose whatever shoe he wanted. Give him the cash to pay the cashier. It's psychological. 1 Like |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by LikeAking: 6:47pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Hassanmaye: Go check am bf arguing. Half of the kids that went to none private uni are there cos of their mothers efforts. If not for mother's many children will not be educated. A woman selling Amara can train 3 children in the uni, but a man earning higher can't even do that. If not for the efforts of Nigerian mother's many children will not go anywhere.. The discipline our fathers give is mostly born out of hate and immaturity... It's over hyped. The mothers do the real work.. Even kids trained by father's take drugs, secondly most time it's just teenage or youthful over adventures. Dem go change. 1 Like |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by Hassanmaye(m): 7:53pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
LikeAking:Okay |
Re: Career's Success:- Father's Disciplinary Love Versus Mother's Caring Love by MICHEAL346(m): 9:12pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
butterfly777: My mum would starve me because she doesn't like beating, my dad rescues me each time to get food. On the other hand, my dad disciplines me either flogging my hand with kobo koko or corporal punishment (my dad is not a soldier though)... 1 Like |
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