mariahAngel:


CEO awon omokomo.

vickydevoka:

You girlfriend will soon join the acquaintance

everyone won't be like you sir. Except you don't plan to get married, you must have a serious relationship before marriage

He will outgrow the shameful act

Criminal son
Shame on him

Any child that is ashamed of his/her parents because they don't have money is a disgrace and should be shot dead straight away

Freshtruth:
I Have this friend whose mother sell roasted corn and bolle(roasted plantain) the mother called me and narrated what happen this is own son pretended not to know her because he is with a group of girls and guys that day when the car he enter with his friends stop buy to buy roasted corn. She saw her son inside the car and she was like 'kelvin wetin u dey inside person motor' the young man was shy and had to deny that he is not the one I confronted him. Continue..

Tell me your friend and I will tell you ................

The set of nairalanders that argue with you. They are all peasants and paupers. Lmao

Angelfrost:


Leave them... They think they are actually smart when they make such idiotic comments!

They call themselves "Woke"!

This Gen-Z ehn... The future is not looking bright at all! Especially in this part of the world! SMH!

You are right.

Na rubbish full dia head.

One of them on the front page even said that the boy was right to ignore his mother, so, it can help his connections for money or status. This is how they become low self esteemed rich idi.ots always worrying about status approval from fo.ols who equally, do not like them.

Even if you are the richest being on the planet and you can't accept my mother's social status (especially in a country where poverty is rampant and she is working responsibly hard), why should I consider you as a friend?

Freshtruth:
I Have this friend whose mother sell roasted corn and bolle(roasted plantain) the mother called me and narrated what happen this is own son pretended not to know her because he is with a group of girls and guys that day when the car he enter with his friends stop buy to buy roasted corn. She saw her son inside the car and she was like 'kelvin wetin u dey inside person motor' the young man was shy and had to deny that he is not the one I confronted him. Continue..

Deception of the highest Order...

Skepticus:


You are right.

Na rubbish full dia head.

One of them on the front page even said that the boy was right to ignore the woman, so, it can help his connections for money or status. This is how they become low self esteemed rich idi.ots always worry about status approval from fo.ols who equally, do not like them.

Even if you are the richest being on the planet and you can't accept my mother's social status (especially in a country where poverty is rampant and she is working responsibly hard) m, why should I consider you as a friend?

I have met a couple of them... The way they talk down on their parents shocks me to my bones! Even the ones with educated and well-to-do parents still have the guts to disrespect them, especially when in the company of their friends!

I just dey look them! I pity all of them!

They always believe they are wise whereas they are all less than stupid!

Bunch of disrespectful dimwits!

SeaTrade:
Smart young man,
Moat times in life,you'd need a lot of deception to progress.Show people the real you and you won't go nowhere,
Reason all the people claiming "real" are most times poor.
Life is a game,you have to play for your survival.
A smart mother would understand this and not make a big deal out of it,after all,whatever spoils of war the son brings is for the betterment of the family,
That's if the son is a team player anyway.

U are partly right...but nothing would make me deny my mom ever!....U see ehn, even now in my big age, I am still d one washing my dad's car whenever I go home for holidays, my mom still fit send me to d closeby market to buy stuff for her..etc..to me it really doesn't matter, no friends or social circle is worth ignoring d only woman that loves me more than any woman in dis world

A short story that never happened.


Mother's location: thin air
Son's address: OP's buccal cavity.

FahBuLous:
OP, you fall my hands over, why u no arrange some guys make them beat nonsense commut for him body?

you will just go to jail for nothing with this your wrong way of resolving issues

RoadMozart:
That boy must be a bast*rd. The mama suppose naked swear for am.

e don't reach like that?

Good! Next time his mother will try/endeavour to raise a mentally/socially stable and responsible son.

Odward:
What’s your own business with mama and pikin matter?

you supposed follow menstruation, animal children like you are everywhere in Nigeria killing their beloved parents for ritual

Sucre6:
I have never seen that situation that will ever make me deny my mom, when I was in the university, i always use my free time when school is not on session to assist my mom in her restaurant shop, which was not very far from my school, I will always go to the shop to eat after lectures and I will spend few hours helping her even though she has like 3 people she employed that are assisting her. And most all of my course comes to eat in my mums restaurants daily.

When I got to 200 level, I would always take my ejebuter babe to go eat at my moms restaurant and after everything I will spend quality time wash plates and run few errands for mummy before leaving to my house, it got to a point, my babe would ask me to relax and she will be the one helping out. I never see that thing way go make me deny my parents.

God forbid. Even if Nah charcoal my mum is selling, I will confidently roll in the charcoal dirt with her, anyone who isn't comfortable with my parents aint worth being my friend.

Nice babe. Hope you married her

Your friend will use you for RITUAL one day,WATCH.

purples25:


I don't support the denial either, but I wish the mom didn't draw attention to herself like that. Not that she should be ashamed of herself, but let her be mature, cool and calculating.

Even moms of big people don't care to mingle with the friends of their children. They grace them with a nonchalant, cold hello mostly. So many poor moms too hold their dignity and don't really care for the attention of their son's friends. They put those kids in the position of little ones that can't possibly catch their attention and they move on. I wonder why this one wants to be acknowledged before her son's friends even when they were just driving by. They shouldn't be important to her.

As for the angle you referred to, you understand Nigeria's oppressive nature. Any small respectable job, position or object is often disgraceful in their eyes. That's what I meant by referring to the social structure.

There is a Korean proverb that says " seeing a thing a thousand times does not equate experiencing it once". You are telling a woman filled with unbridled emotions to play street smart when his son denied her in public, somethings are better analysed from the comfort of our rooms than how it plays out in the real sense.

There are many factors you are not considering, what about the spontaneity of the situation? everything is not about money, compassion and loyalty are important virtues too like money. There is no 100% guarantee that those friends would uplift him from poverty despite denying his mom, the way financial upliftment works is not something you plan, it is mostly divine.

I will not advice my worst enemy to tow that path, the heartache and emotional trauma that single action might cause that poor woman might not be rectified even if the guy buys a mansion for her in the future......A Man ( man and woman) with a trampled ego is as good as dead.

That your so-called friend can kill you o.
Any man who can deny his mother is dangerous.

Odward:

Go alleviate your father and mother from their generational poverty before you chat to me asshole

pray that your children will do the same to you in future 😜

LikeAking:


Stories!

I don't care if u believe or not, buttom line, my parents are my earthly creature am close to worshipng them, if u like despise yours, that's your own problem

the mother should disown him...his not worthy to be called a son, in short his a self made bastard

Samakus:
And you're friend to such a wasted sperms?

Use your head before I knack you 2 by 2

Most guys will literally be friends with toxic people,still don't know why and if you ask them whether their friends can date their sister,they will all say "God forbid"..... what's the essence of being friends with folks like that especially when you don't get anything in return? It's one of the things I love about girls,they rarely have time to be friends with toxic people unless there's something they gain

rukyboy:


Nice babe. Hope you married her

Almost bro, we are at the early stage of preparation for introduction and traditiononal wedding

Make the woman never hang boot for child bearing O, because she never get a son.

yarimo:
It shall never be well with that stupid boy

The mother called him to tell him what his friend did, she's obviously pained and she has every right to be

Flamemignon1:

The mother called him to tell him what his friend did, she's obviously pained and she has every right to be

very unfortunate son

your friend still be kid

How old is he?
He surely gonna regret it later in life and he won’t forget about that day for the rest of his life.

Freshtruth:
Why he didn't answer and greet his Mother he told me those guys was his new friends and they will not allow him.to mingle with them if the find out his mum is a bolle seller and the girls might laugh at him. Why we somebody be ashamed of his parents because they are poor na wa. The funniest thing this guy still come to their house and eat and he is the only son for that matter.

I pity him, what a curse he has incured

Elsueno:


U are partly right...but nothing would make me deny my mom ever!....U see ehn, even now in my big age, I am still d one washing my dad's car whenever I go home for holidays, my mom still fit send me to d closeby market to buy stuff for her..etc..to me it really doesn't matter, no friends or social circle is worth ignoring d only woman that loves me more than any woman in dis world

Who says you have to ignore your mother?
Remember,you're only playing a game and most likely your mom should be in on it.
Life's a stage,learn how to act!

Thanks for your bravery to understand. Most of the people that differ from you did not take the most important point made into consideration: he is the type of son that will quickly upgrade her mother.

Indeed, buy his mother a house before himself and his family. You never indicated that what he did was good. He was overwhelmed by shame, poverty and guilt of denial at the same time.

Some of those condemning your points have kicked their mother out for not getting along with their wives, have hardly visited their mothers in the villages, have left the responsibilities of their mothers with their sisters etc.

It does not make his action right. Some of the children ignore the same mothers who paid their fees, in a corner. Many Nigerians wasted millions and deny the rest of Nigerians income earned from natural resources to train children that do not speak their language, that call their parents uncivilized or uncultured. They hardly eat what their mothers cook.

We justify those in Nigeria and even proud of them! The boy in this story can be easily rehabilitated, not those I mentioned. Sometimes, the mothers do not want to embarrass their kids. Reminds you of your classmates whose mothers are teachers!

nokspos:
Its take maturity to handle such situation well, i understand him , it doesn't mean he hate his mom, obviously he's not comfortable with his mother's current situation and who do anything to upgrade her. Even though what he did was wrong. it shows he's not matured enough to handle the situation better and he's desperate to upgrade his status. He should just go back immediately to apologies to the mom or even help her sell for a few hours to make her understand that he's 100 percent with her. It's not a big deal if the mother understands.

Don't blame him, people borrow 10million naira to join big boys' clubs, i know a few clubs like that, and trust me , you will start getting big contracts ones you join their clicks, sometimes you have to fake it till you make it, he didn't handle the situation well because he's obviously not matured enough, but he could have gone back immediately to apologies and even help her sell for a few hours.