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The starting point concerning relationships between married couples is that [they’re supposed to be] lasting and ongoing, not [ending in] divorce and splitting up.

So it’s not right that a couple mention divorce during an argument or dispute; instead, each must do his [or her] best to calm the situation down and solve the problem.

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[Consider] the ḥadīth: “A believing man should not [completely] hate a believing woman [he’s married to]; if he were to hate some aspect of her character, he should [at the same time] be pleased with another one of hers.”

Meaning: a husband should not hate his wife just because he sees a mistake [she’s made] or comes to know of a sin [she’s fallen into]. And a wife is likewise addressed with the same.
Who’s someone who never makes mistakes?!

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A wife mustn’t lend her ear to everyone who offers [her] advice, even if [that person] were the closest of close people [to her] like [her own] sister or a friend. She should only consider those who advise her from among them [whose advice is] in accordance with the dictates of Islamic law and wisdom; then [that person’s] advice will bring about more good, prevent harm, and fix what’s wrong.

How often it is a piece of advice looks like mercy on the outside while its inner reality and effects are [really] separation and conflict.

4/10
If both husband and wife were to take care of their individual responsibilities in family matters, in their marital life, and in whatever’s related to [their] children—and that [happens] by their fulfilling [all] obligations [in Islam] and knowing the rights [of others]—we wouldn’t find, under the portico of [any] court of law, anything of disputes concerning that.

5/10
Polygyny is a matter that Allāh has legislated for numerous wisdoms.

But many men who’ve engaged in polygyny have marred its image, [not having done it properly, it] then becoming a cause of losing their family and children. And they’ve put people off [polygyny] as well—those who’ve made it their primary occupation to [get other] men to do it; in fact, they [even] insinuate that those who don’t do it are lacking in their manhood!!!

6/10
Among the reasons [marriages] break up is weak moral restraint, falling into sins, and laxity about that; sins have a tremendous effect on the occurrence of disputes.

But few are they from married couples who wake up and realize that.

7/10
That there’s trust between husband and wife is a matter of utmost importance. A man’s looking out to discover [something bad] from his wife and waiting for her [to slip up] and a woman’s doing the same to her husband is proof that things aren’t stable [in a marriage].

Doubt entering between husband and wife is an announcement of a [potential] split and is a path from among the various paths that lead to divorce.

8/10
[The way] some husbands point out their wives’ faults [to them] again and again and then follow that up by mentioning their desire to get more than one wife is one of those things that kills the joy [for a wife] and leads to ruining a good thing and driving [her] away.

Then what kind of love does a husband expect to get [from her] after that?!

9/10
A wife’s showing she doesn’t need her husband, whether that’s by her being employed or by some other way, and [her] working to take over being in charge [of the family] from him, or fighting with him over it: all of that is from the causes of instability in a family.

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The love [between a couple facing marital difficulties] has to be renewed; the differences and things holding them back from being together, put an end to–without them piling up, after which fixing things becomes difficult.

And [there must be] a resolve to take advantage of every means of bringing hearts together in order to keep out all cold treatment and distancing, [both of] whose growth the devil promotes and paves the way towards.

Shaykh Dr. Muḥammad ibn Ghālib Al-ʿUmarī (may Allāh protect him)

Thanks so much for sharing this awesome points. All Glory to ALMIGHTY.
Marriage guarantees future of Humanity, belittling marriage would eventually lead to extinction of Humanity. When there is no more marriage on Earth means their is no more True Love and Tolerance.
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AlhamdLillah for the topic

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OP, I have an honest question: How does this address the ongoing husband shortage? We now live at a time when men are not financially stable enough to take on the full role of provider in their daily lives. And we all know that women prioritize financial stability.

So how do these points help address the fact that women aren't getting married to struggling men the same way that our grandmothers were in years past


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DNoFXD4Bjo

There is no manual to these things. Just be a good person and know how to handle issues with your spouse through communication, I'm sure you guys will be fine

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The starting point concerning relationships between married couples is that [they’re supposed to be] lasting and ongoing, not [ending in] divorce and splitting up.

So it’s not right that a couple mention divorce during an argument or dispute; instead, each must do his [or her] best to calm the situation down and solve the problem.

2/10
[Consider] the ḥadīth: “A believing man should not [completely] hate a believing woman [he’s married to]; if he were to hate some aspect of her character, he should [at the same time] be pleased with another one of hers.”

Meaning: a husband should not hate his wife just because he sees a mistake [she’s made] or comes to know of a sin [she’s fallen into]. And a wife is likewise addressed with the same.
Who’s someone who never makes mistakes?!

Wahala for people wey wan marry

Dem follow Hadith or North... majority of the marriages na them produce offsprings wey dey give us masala for the country... But watch as dem go come after me ooo

JAZAAKALLAH

Jazaakallahu khairan for this wonderful topic.

Good

Jazakallah khairan.

TRINITY EXPLAINED. God And Man Are TRINITY-BEINGS. Bible Scriptures

https://www.nairaland.com/7798810/trinity-explained-god-man-trinity-beings

ALLAH misinterpreted the meaning of Begotten Son of God
"God does not have A WIFE neither does he beget nor is he begotten"

Question please:
Muslims, if good works alone could atone for your sins, why did God command to Moses/Musa the blood of animals (blemishless goat/sheep/bull) for an atonement of sins or sin offering??

The Bible's old testament is the book of the Jews.

Every Friday your topics that eventually make front page don't use to pass first page, you hardly see people contributing out of thousands of Muslims on this forum

I needed to read this at this point.

Jazakallahu Khairan!!

Most important thing:


As a girl:

DON'T BE A SLǓT
YOUR SĒXUAL PURITY IS VERY IMPORTANT!

DON'T THINK YOU CAN PLAY SMART AND EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT....

VIRGINITY is the greatest gift you can give to any man.

You can give multiple men
Love
Care
Children
and even marriages
BUT YOU CAN ONLY GIVE ONE MAN YOUR VIRGINITY.



MAKE SURE IT'S A MAN THAT WORTH IT!

Jerryhare:
Every Friday your topics that eventually make front page don't use to pass first page, you hardly see people contributing out of thousands of Muslims on this forum

Infact na half page

akinsmail51:
1/10
The starting point concerning relationships between married couples is that [they’re supposed to be] lasting and ongoing, not [ending in] divorce and splitting up.

So it’s not right that a couple mention divorce during an argument or dispute; instead, each must do his [or her] best to calm the situation down and solve the problem.

2/10
[Consider] the ḥadīth: “A believing man should not [completely] hate a believing woman [he’s married to]; if he were to hate some aspect of her character, he should [at the same time] be pleased with another one of hers.”

Meaning: a husband should not hate his wife just because he sees a mistake [she’s made] or comes to know of a sin [she’s fallen into]. And a wife is likewise addressed with the same.
Who’s someone who never makes mistakes?!

3/10
A wife mustn’t lend her ear to everyone who offers [her] advice, even if [that person] were the closest of close people [to her] like [her own] sister or a friend. She should only consider those who advise her from among them [whose advice is] in accordance with the dictates of Islamic law and wisdom; then [that person’s] advice will bring about more good, prevent harm, and fix what’s wrong.

How often it is a piece of advice looks like mercy on the outside while its inner reality and effects are [really] separation and conflict.

4/10
If both husband and wife were to take care of their individual responsibilities in family matters, in their marital life, and in whatever’s related to [their] children—and that [happens] by their fulfilling [all] obligations [in Islam] and knowing the rights [of others]—we wouldn’t find, under the portico of [any] court of law, anything of disputes concerning that.

5/10
Polygyny is a matter that Allāh has legislated for numerous wisdoms.

But many men who’ve engaged in polygyny have marred its image, [not having done it properly, it] then becoming a cause of losing their family and children. And they’ve put people off [polygyny] as well—those who’ve made it their primary occupation to [get other] men to do it; in fact, they [even] insinuate that those who don’t do it are lacking in their manhood!!!

6/10
Among the reasons [marriages] break up is weak moral restraint, falling into sins, and laxity about that; sins have a tremendous effect on the occurrence of disputes.

But few are they from married couples who wake up and realize that.

7/10
That there’s trust between husband and wife is a matter of utmost importance. A man’s looking out to discover [something bad] from his wife and waiting for her [to slip up] and a woman’s doing the same to her husband is proof that things aren’t stable [in a marriage].

Doubt entering between husband and wife is an announcement of a [potential] split and is a path from among the various paths that lead to divorce.

8/10
[The way] some husbands point out their wives’ faults [to them] again and again and then follow that up by mentioning their desire to get more than one wife is one of those things that kills the joy [for a wife] and leads to ruining a good thing and driving [her] away.

Then what kind of love does a husband expect to get [from her] after that?!

9/10
A wife’s showing she doesn’t need her husband, whether that’s by her being employed or by some other way, and [her] working to take over being in charge [of the family] from him, or fighting with him over it: all of that is from the causes of instability in a family.

10/10
The love [between a couple facing marital difficulties] has to be renewed; the differences and things holding them back from being together, put an end to–without them piling up, after which fixing things becomes difficult.

And [there must be] a resolve to take advantage of every means of bringing hearts together in order to keep out all cold treatment and distancing, [both of] whose growth the devil promotes and paves the way towards.

Shaykh Dr. Muḥammad ibn Ghālib Al-ʿUmarī (may Allāh protect him)

Sensible posts but Seun requesting people to say they're muslim before they can comment in Islam theme posts is a useless idea.
Meanwhile Christian and atheists posts are open to all (we're open).

Nevertheless, great lessons for marriages.

ANTlSLAAM:

Infact na half page

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