As the first child, my life is like a tale of up and downs. I started a fruit business before embarking on my nursing program but a lot happened and I lost my investment.

I started again with the little capital to feed and pay for my and my son's fees but it's still telling on me.

Do I want to talk about my other two siblings that ask for money and I have not been able to send them?

While my achievement is that my other siblings could finish secondary school solely on me. I don't have but seeing them smile and laugh about their love for schooling gives me satisfaction.

It's not easy being the first but it is a blessing. I know someday, my siblings won't make my mistakes and they will be so much greater than me.

drinkgarri:
Let me be sipping my 50yrs old whiskey and lesson to some lies

Better keep that your whiskey aside and work on your English

First daughter dey try honestly, I love and respect our first daughter a lot. She is like a mother to me, I call her Ada Texas, she is the one that helped me and my bro relocate abroad( God used her in doing that).

I always pray for her for God to give her long life and prosperity...She is truly living up to her responsibilities.

God bless all First Daughters out there, and also all First Sons.


God bless us all.

Knacking siofra

Evestar200:
Dear Firstborn Daughters,

Have you ever felt you had more responsibilities than your siblings? Are you expected to serve as a role model? And what have been your greatest challenges or achievements as a firstborn daughter in the African household?

It has not been easy for me, I almost fall into depression one time because of too many expenses.

People will be seeing me as a big girl because of my salary but in reality that money will only be in my account within 10 days of payment and I will have to manage the little one that remains till the next payment.

One day I sit myself down, talk sense into myself and removed two of my brothers from my budget.

As for now, the only people am responsible for are my Mom and our last born.

My neighbours in School then and friends will be saying I want to be like you, I will always warn them not to wish for that because of the money I received, they can't manage what I am passing through.

Knowing how to Clean my pusssyy

Learning the important of jumping from Dicckkk to diccck

MaryAye:
As the first child, my life is like a tale of up and downs. I started a fruit business before embarking on my nursing program but a lot happened and I lost my investment.

I started again with the little capital to feed and pay for my and my son's fees but it's still telling on me.

Do I want to talk about my other two siblings that ask for money and I have not been able to send them?

While my achievement is that my other siblings could finish secondary school solely on me. I don't have but seeing them smile and laugh about their love for schooling gives me satisfaction.

It's not easy being the first but it is a blessing. I know someday, my siblings won't make my mistakes and they will be so much greater than me.

Which kind useless school you go

Your English dey very poor

You need to go back to primary school

Nazgul:
The only people I pity are their husbands. Cos they'll spend their entire life feeding and training her siblings. And if they're like 8 or 10 and she's the first daughter, the husband go hear am.

you lie!
My elder sister is the first and only daughter too…we don’t even send her husband talk more of depending on them…,our last born is in his 200 level and he has never asked them of 1kobo…
No be every siblings are lazy.
NB:our dad is late too

Mummyimbecile:
First daughter dey try honestly, I love and respect our first daughter a lot. She is like a mother to me, I call her Ada Texas, she is the one that helped me and my bro relocate abroad( God used her in doing that).

I always pray for her for God to give her long life and prosperity...She is truly living up to her responsibilities.

God bless all First Daughters out there, and also all First Sons.


God bless us all.

Texas

For your dream

Evestar200:
Dear Firstborn Daughters,

Have you ever felt you had more responsibilities than your siblings? Are you expected to serve as a role model? And what have been your greatest challenges or achievements as a firstborn daughter in the African household?

It has not been easy for me, I almost fall into depression one time because of too many expenses.

People will be seeing me as a big girl because of my salary but in reality that money will only be in my account within 10 days of payment and I will have to manage the little one that remains till the next payment.

One day I sit myself down, talk sense into myself and removed two of my brothers from my budget.

As for now, the only people am responsible for are my Mom and our last born.

My neighbours in School then and friends will be saying I want to be like you, I will always warn them not to wish for that because of the money I received, they can't manage what I am passing through.

I can totally relate..You have to take it easy,my sister.
As a first child,first and only daughter.. the responsibility no be here.

People used to envy me because I earned well but I was suffering.
Would send money home for virtually everything..The worst of it..my jobless brothers would complain it was not enough and my mom would take sides with them.
All of us ..graduates..trained with family funds and some scholarships but it was me who was expected to bear family responsibilities.

I was at some point,almost resorting to loan apps,in order to satisfy them.

I started having palpitations and insomnia.
Whenever my phone rang and it's a call from home,my heart would skip a beat .
I know what I will hear is " Send money for this and that".

I was with some colleagues one day,my brother called to say I should send money for tissue paper and also to refill gas...
That mom was cooking and gas finished.

I was angry and flared up..
After,I sent them a token,The last born called and requested I send money for DSTV subscription..
I told him I didn't have.
There was no insult this boy didn't reign on me..he even went as far as sending me SMS to insult,calling me barren and ugly...afterall,I wasn't married(as at then),so what was I doing with ALL my money?


I received sense...stopped bankrolling them.
Saved up my money,got married soon after and relocated overseas.

Since then,I only send money to mom, occasionally.
The rest are sorting themselves out.

Mentor all your kids to strive for themselves!... no one owes anyone anything, na as dem born me dem born you, first or last born.

Mummyimbecile:
First daughter dey try honestly, I love and respect our first daughter a lot. She is like a mother to me, I call her Ada Texas, she is the one that helped me and my bro relocate abroad( God used her in doing that).

I always pray for her for God to give her long life and prosperity...She is truly living up to her responsibilities.

God bless all First Daughters out there, and also all First Sons.


God bless us all.

With which visa?

InyinyaAgbaOku:


With which visa?

Stident Visa, but change to F2B when my mom got her permanent residence.

Evestar200:
Dear Firstborn Daughters,

Have you ever felt you had more responsibilities than your siblings? Are you expected to serve as a role model? And what have been your greatest challenges or achievements as a firstborn daughter in the African household?

It has not been easy for me, I almost fall into depression one time because of too many expenses.

People will be seeing me as a big girl because of my salary but in reality that money will only be in my account within 10 days of payment and I will have to manage the little one that remains till the next payment.

One day I sit myself down, talk sense into myself and removed two of my brothers from my budget.

As for now, the only people am responsible for are my Mom and our last born.

My neighbours in School then and friends will be saying I want to be like you, I will always warn them not to wish for that because of the money I received, they can't manage what I am passing through.

You have succour in your husband. For a man it’s a different story he take care of his own home. house rent school fee food stuff even the wife’s needs, then he takes care of his family and wife family e no easy at all.

AlabiKILLER2021:





Texas

For your dream

Yeah yeah, a dream that came to reality. Dream it, work towards it, and it will come to fruition.

Just an advise.

I'm the last born. I can't relate

Na Woman dey remember House ooo. That's why I dey shock when men dey underrate Female child. Female wey get Money no fit forget House wey she come from, na Man get new responsibilities em go face another side

Spiceadole are your brothers employed now? The last one went too far seriously. Grown ass men waiting to be spoonfed. Graduates for that matter.

What To Do When You Are Afflicted.

Apostle Joshua Selman.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mUP_LdmEnTA

DaddyRochie1642:




Better keep that your whiskey aside and work on your English

Goalnaldo:
Spiceadole are your brothers employed now? The last one went too far seriously. Grown ass men waiting to be spoonfed. Graduates for that matter.

He copied it from my mom.
That was how she used to insult me.
At 26,she was already labeling me a les.bian & pro.sti.tute because I was not married.
Forced me to leave home and live away from them.
But I was the one paying their bills including the rent.

My brothers are employed now..but the last born is a complete nuisance.

I am 45 years and still living with my parents.
No job, no skill in fact nothing to write home about.

marry e go reduce

Sirchiboy:
I am 45 years and still living with my parents.
No job, no skill in fact nothing to write home about.

and you lost 2.5m recently

Evestar200:
Dear Firstborn Daughters,

Have you ever felt you had more responsibilities than your siblings? Are you expected to serve as a role model? And what have been your greatest challenges or achievements as a firstborn daughter in the African household?

It has not been easy for me, I almost fall into depression one time because of too many expenses.

People will be seeing me as a big girl because of my salary but in reality that money will only be in my account within 10 days of payment and I will have to manage the little one that remains till the next payment.

One day I sit myself down, talk sense into myself and removed two of my brothers from my budget.

As for now, the only people am responsible for are my Mom and our last born.

My neighbours in School then and friends will be saying I want to be like you, I will always warn them not to wish for that because of the money I received, they can't manage what I am passing through.

Happened to someone:
Acting like a mother to your siblings especially when mum is no longer alive. Unfortunately those sacrifices were not appreciated by her siblings

spiceadole:


He copied it from my mom.
That was how she used to insult me.
At 26,she was already labeling me a les.bian & pro.sti.tute because I was not married.
Forced me to leave home and live away from them.
But I was the one paying their bills including the rent.

My brothers are employed now..but the last born is a complete nuisance.

eyaa. I wish i'm there right now to give you a hug. So sorry for what you went through. May your marriage give you succour.

Goalnaldo:
eyaa. I wish i'm there right now to give you a hug. So sorry for what you went through. May your marriage give you succour.

Thank you.
My husband is a good man.
But I still have the problem of bonding with him.
I am comfortable going all day without talking to him on phone or seeing him .
I don't feel his absence,when he is away.
I am trying my best to get used to being this close to someone.
I will keep trying.

I'm a first daughter but I no dey do pass myself, I can't give you all my salary and be drinking garri, my job demands strength and strength comes also from eating good food which costs money. Nobody should put unnecessary pressure on me. I give what I can give, take it.

I'm the first born daughter. I no dey do pass myself besides I've got kids so they come first before anyone.

Though I don really face setbacks for this life sha😭
I need a hug.

Beremx:
I am the first born daughter of my family. I do as my hand reach. I cannot kill myself

Same here oooo

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