I'm kinda curious. If you see a friend or colleague, an opposite sex, who has been running several tasks in a day at work, now looking tired and worn-out, is offering such person massage on their shoulders a romantic gesture? That is still at the office, but not in the presence of others.

Lifted07:
I'm kinda curious. If you see a friend or colleague, an opposite sex, who has been running several tasks in a day at work, now looking tired and worn-out, is offering such person massage on their shoulders a romantic gesture? That is still at the office, but not in the presence of others.

Its a gesture of a fornicator

Lifted07:
I'm kinda curious. If you see a friend or colleague, an opposite sex, who has been running several tasks in a day at work, now looking tired and worn-out, is offering such person massage on their shoulders a romantic gesture? That is still at the office, but not in the presence of others.

It's called massage therapy because it's to help relieve the body of pains.

@Lifted07
I'm kinda curious. If you see a friend or colleague, an opposite sex, who has been running several tasks in a day at work, now looking tired and worn-out, is offering such person massage on their shoulders a romantic gesture? That is still at the office, but not in the presence of others.


@me
Na so edey start...... from massage to bedsage.

Contextual.

Back in the days when I would invite a chick over and I wasn’t sure if they were dtf, I would offer a massage. I will usually start from the shoulder then work my way to the back and then the waist, if at that point there is no form of resistance, I would have gotten the confirmation I wanted.

Physical touch between opposite sex, whether it be as simple as holding hands, hugs, massage or dance is a way of communicating attraction.

If you walk in on a guy giving your wife a shoulder massage, would you shrug it off as ‘she must be tired’?

E be like sexual harassment never enter Naija workplaces.

It's not! It just the mindset attached to it that's all.