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Genuine Advise Needed by Snakedoctor1: 9:49pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
He is abroad and gives N250, 000 monthly for the upkeep upkeep of his wife and three kids. He buys electricity and gas and maintains plumbing etc from abroad + house rent and school fees. Men and brethren, his wife cries wolf before 20th of every month. Please should this money not be enough for food and other house expenses in one month? |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by Oloki: 5:51am On Jun 22, 2023 |
Maybe the wife is building house. |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by UptownVibes(m): 6:07am On Jun 22, 2023 |
She diverts the money to a project of sugar boy dey collect the money with format. 1 Like |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by Candidlady: 7:42am On Jun 22, 2023 |
Oloki: Ilike you đź’• Love the way you think Believe me you.. that woman is definitely using the money for something positive that is gonna benefit the family at the long run Women are blessing to MAN kind 4 Likes |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by Nemesis0147(m): 7:42am On Jun 22, 2023 |
Depending on their location…but the wife should get a job That money is not bad na |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by Nice2023(m): 8:06am On Jun 22, 2023 |
That kind of woman is the reason why some men have been drained financially in this country. |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by tayo60(f): 8:49am On Jun 22, 2023 |
The money is enough to use for a month, she is diverting it into something else. |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by akube34: 2:31pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Snakedoctor1:reduce the money. Let her kill herself 1 Like |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by Nazgul: 9:22pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
She's definitely living above her means. Cos what she's saying is that if she's actually working and earning 250k per month, it wouldn't be enough for her. She needs proper orientation on how to manage money. 1 Like |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by anthonyuncle(m): 9:22pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
this inconsiderate behaviour from his wife is too huge to be neglected. maybe she has employed an assistant husband that her husband is unaware of. |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by JeffreyJunior: 10:59pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
It depends on her location but a reasonable woman can make do with that amount since all major expenses are taken care of by oga. I guess she goes about buying things without pricing just because oga dey obodo oyibo dey pick money for streets. |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by Kobojunkie: 11:29pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Snakedoctor1:The man knows why he chose that kind of burden in marriage, and he alone knows why he chose to leave his family in Nigeria so he can be alone abroad footing the bill from there. OP, are you the man? Why did you chose this kind of burden as your lot in marriage? |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by Kobojunkie: 11:31pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Nemesis0147:Should? If the man married her as a liability so he can sit as hee lord in marriage why should she? |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by Kobojunkie: 11:34pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Nice2023:Nonsense! The men bring it on themselves and then cry foul when they find the burden they chose go heavy for them to bare anymore. Did the man tell you he married his wife as a partner in the marriage? He probably married her to sit as liability while he beats his chest as Lord and master. Now e no work out and you all are quick to condemn the woman. Ask the man for truth abeg! |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by Kobojunkie: 11:36pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
tayo60:All assumptions. If the man married himself a submissive woman who would sit at home and call him Lord while he provides all for her and the family, price of her submission also fluctuates with economy naw! |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by talented321: 12:12pm On Jun 23, 2023 |
Manchi oil dey your head, she is acting like one jagaban for her territory because she don't know what her husband go through before sending the cash to her. Nazgul: |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by Snakedoctor1: 5:37am On Jun 25, 2023 |
If mod can take this to from page, he may be saving a marriage. Wider views are really needed. |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by frozen70(f): 8:23am On Jun 25, 2023 |
Snakedoctor1: She is just being wicked I have a family friend here in Lagos that gives his wife 200k every month for just two little children Yet she complains that it's not enough, whereas he pays school fees and house rent As am speaking with you now, he sent her to family and she took him to court They met in court and court ask the man to be sending 50k to her every month but continue to pay school fees and health needs and grant the divorce for the man It was too late for her to regret because she alone knows her intension Some women especially those who doesn't contribute anything to the family, frustrates their husband that carry the family burden A very bad attitude from them My advice to men If any woman is frustrating your efforts yet makes no contribution, send her to her family for rehabilitation and retraining if she continues when she comes back, do the needful. This life is too hard to add man made stress to it |
Re: Genuine Advise Needed by talented321: 9:01am On Jun 25, 2023 |
I swear frozen70: |
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