| Should I Continue Waiting For Her by Rubicon80: 3:14pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
I met this lady at katsina during our NYSC. I talked to her as I do to other corp members no emotions or fillings attached. She visited me once with a guy because we are in different PPA. After years of serving we met again on Facebook we started getting along , emotions and fillings comes though we did not see face to face because she was at Dubia at that time. After which I proposed to her and she accepted and we started working towards it. I lost my job that period she send me money and take care of things - in fact she is a very nice lady. Along the line we had misunderstanding over religious issue because she is born Catholic and am born Pentecostal we couldn't resolve it though she tried , i admit the fault was from me. The communication ended for months. Later I tried making peace with her but she seems mean so I let go, even when she return from Dubia I tried my possible best to see her no way . she later secured admission in UK and traveled. After months or a year of no communication i lost my dad and she collected my number from my friend and call me for condolences which from there we starting talking again. But all has changed. We started talking about marriage again , she get serious today and get fed up tomorrow, she reply my chaat after hours though she I'll be seen online. Today she want me to come to UK tomorrow she stop picking my calls. After a while I gave up. After like months she I'll call me again start asking if I have gotten a girl friend and want me to come to UK . In fact she told me to get my transcript and my documents ready that I'll be coming to UK by September. The problem here is that we don't talk if I don't chaat her she won't check on me unless after months if she wish. last week I sent her a voice note asking her that we need to talk, after hours she replied and said send me a voice note. The truth is that I love her so much. Am not in a relationship since after we had issue though I meet some potential girl but with her in my heart I couldn't do anything. Even when I sent her the voice not concerning our marriage if she is still interested in it or not she has not reply me going to a week now and she has led the messages. I base in Lagos and I earn monthly. All I want is to settle down. What do I do . I'll appreciate your contributions thanks |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by taylor89(m): 3:18pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Are you really a graduate with this kind of writing? No single paragraph Rubicon80:
I met this lady at katsina during our NYSC. I talked to her as I do to other corp members no emotions or fillings attached. She visited me once with a guy because we are in different PPA. After years of serving we met again on Facebook we started getting along , emotions and fillings comes though we did not see face to face because she was at Dubia at that time. After which I proposed to her and she accepted and we started working towards it. I lost my job that period she send me money and take care of things - in fact she is a very nice lady. Along the line we had misunderstanding over religious issue because she is born Catholic and am born Pentecostal we couldn't resolve it though she tried , i admit the fault was from me. The communication ended for months. Later I tried making peace with her but she seems mean so I let go, even when she return from Dubia I tried my possible best to see her no way . she later secured admission in UK and traveled. After months or a year of no communication i lost my dad and she collected my number from my friend and call me for condolences which from there we starting talking again. But all has changed. We started talking about marriage again , she get serious today and get fed up tomorrow, she reply my chaat after hours though she I'll be seen online. Today she want me to come to UK tomorrow she stop picking my calls. After a while I gave up. After like months she I'll call me again start asking if I have gotten a girl friend and want me to come to UK . In fact she told me to get my transcript and my documents ready that I'll be coming to UK by September. The problem here is that we don't talk if I don't chaat her she won't check on me unless after months if she wish. last week I sent her a voice note asking her that we need to talk, after hours she replied and said send me a voice note. The truth is that I love her so much. Am not in a relationship since after we had issue though I meet some potential girl but with her in my heart I couldn't do anything. Even when I sent her the voice not concerning our marriage if she is still interested in it or not she has not reply me going to a week now and she has led the messages. I base in Lagos and I earn monthly. All I want is to settle down. What do I do . I'll appreciate your contributions thanks 7 Likes |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by vincenteger: 3:23pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
I hope you know how to mop, clean, wash and cook becos I dy see potential hb
Since you can't read the writing
They're using you to catch cruise.
Are there no women in Nigeria?
Learn to discipline yourself bro, no be everything be abroad 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by AsomStructures: 3:26pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
I always tell ppl, no man should be subjected to ridicule by any woman unless you don't know yourself. Let her go, there are decent/loving women around. Just get ur eyes fixed..
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| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by lilvicky68(m): 3:35pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
You need to change that she you are talking about to he, because you are the she(woman) in this relationship 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by kernniejay(m): 3:35pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Rubicon80:
I met this lady at katsina during our NYSC. I talked to her as I do to other corp members no emotions or fillings attached. She visited me once with a guy because we are in different PPA. After years of serving we met again on Facebook we started getting along , emotions and fillings comes though we did not see face to face because she was at Dubia at that time. After which I proposed to her and she accepted and we started working towards it. I lost my job that period she send me money and take care of things - in fact she is a very nice lady.
Am not in a relationship since after we had issue though I meet some potential girl but with her in my heart I couldn't do anything. Even when I sent her the voice not concerning our marriage if she is still interested in it or not she has not reply me going to a week now and she has led the messages. I base in Lagos and I earn monthly. All I want is to settle down. What do I do . I'll appreciate your contributions thanks I don't think you guys are compatible from the look of things. It's not necessary that every good friends who once had a fling for eachother must marry eachother. You people will be better off as friends. The wide distance between you and her is already a turn-off for any intimate relationship, (not sexual). Abeg, if you think you really want to marry, look elsewhere. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:37pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
i dont understand.... how long have you guys been in a r/ship face to face?! it seems you guys are two strangers who barely know one another.
BTW you sir, with that chameleon woman of yours (that changes her mind ever 15days), you will end up being homeless within 3months of landing in the UK... because at the 1st sign of trouble, she wil get rid of you. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by Rubyjade: 3:38pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
 taylor89:
Are you really a graduate with this kind of writing? No single paragraph |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by Dshocker(m): 3:43pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Rubicon80:
I met this lady at katsina during our NYSC. I talked to her as I do to other corp members no emotions or fillings attached. She visited me once with a guy because we are in different PPA. After years of serving we met again on Facebook we started getting along , emotions and fillings comes though we did not see face to face because she was at Dubia at that time. After which I proposed to her and she accepted and we started working towards it. I lost my job that period she send me money and take care of things - in fact she is a very nice lady. Along the line we had misunderstanding over religious issue because she is born Catholic and am born Pentecostal we couldn't resolve it though she tried , i admit the fault was from me. The communication ended for months. Later I tried making peace with her but she seems mean so I let go, even when she return from Dubia I tried my possible best to see her no way . she later secured admission in UK and traveled. After months or a year of no communication i lost my dad and she collected my number from my friend and call me for condolences which from there we starting talking again. But all has changed. We started talking about marriage again , she get serious today and get fed up tomorrow, she reply my chaat after hours though she I'll be seen online. Today she want me to come to UK tomorrow she stop picking my calls. After a while I gave up. After like months she I'll call me again start asking if I have gotten a girl friend and want me to come to UK . In fact she told me to get my transcript and my documents ready that I'll be coming to UK by September. The problem here is that we don't talk if I don't chaat her she won't check on me unless after months if she wish. last week I sent her a voice note asking her that we need to talk, after hours she replied and said send me a voice note. The truth is that I love her so much. Am not in a relationship since after we had issue though I meet some potential girl but with her in my heart I couldn't do anything. Even when I sent her the voice not concerning our marriage if she is still interested in it or not she has not reply me going to a week now and she has led the messages. I base in Lagos and I earn monthly. All I want is to settle down. What do I do . I'll appreciate your contributions thanks My brother, if i tell you the work wey she go do for Dubai, you go just tire. I will advise you look for someone that is straight forward here in Nigeria, don't use because she is in the UK to profess love. 3 Likes |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by austine4real(m): 3:43pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
U better face your life here in Nigeria Girls are ruled by emotions 
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| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by Rubicon80: 3:43pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
But the message is passed |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by Shalommy(f): 3:45pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Op, She knows that you truly love her, but her feelings for you is gone. She keeps you pending, just to find another to replace you. I'll advice that you look for someone else. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by Rubicon80: 3:49pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
But the message is passed. How do u mean when you said "paragraph". Kindly teach me thanks |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by Psychopatheko: 3:53pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
taylor89:
Are you really a graduate with this kind of writing? No single paragraph So people just dumb anyhow person dey talk watin dey pain am you dey look for paragraph if you know say your head no fi contribute to anything Bleep off |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by Waffarianman(m): 4:11pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
You better just face your life here forget about all these UK girls things. I once had a girl that travel 🧳 to UK me no kukuma send her na dey r/ship end... Who give monkey banana 🍌 |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by Odward(m): 4:41pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Run oo |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by MechanicMike: 5:03pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Rubicon80:
I met this lady at katsina during our NYSC. I talked to her as I do to other corp members no emotions or fillings attached. She visited me once with a guy because we are in different PPA. After years of serving we met again on Facebook we started getting along , emotions and fillings comes though we did not see face to face because she was at Dubia at that time. After which I proposed to her and she accepted and we started working towards it. I lost my job that period she send me money and take care of things - in fact she is a very nice lady. Along the line we had misunderstanding over religious issue because she is born Catholic and am born Pentecostal we couldn't resolve it though she tried , i admit the fault was from me. The communication ended for months. Later I tried making peace with her but she seems mean so I let go, even when she return from Dubia I tried my possible best to see her no way . she later secured admission in UK and traveled. After months or a year of no communication i lost my dad and she collected my number from my friend and call me for condolences which from there we starting talking again. But all has changed. We started talking about marriage again , she get serious today and get fed up tomorrow, she reply my chaat after hours though she I'll be seen online. Today she want me to come to UK tomorrow she stop picking my calls. After a while I gave up. After like months she I'll call me again start asking if I have gotten a girl friend and want me to come to UK . In fact she told me to get my transcript and my documents ready that I'll be coming to UK by September. The problem here is that we don't talk if I don't chaat her she won't check on me unless after months if she wish. last week I sent her a voice note asking her that we need to talk, after hours she replied and said send me a voice note. The truth is that I love her so much. Am not in a relationship since after we had issue though I meet some potential girl but with her in my heart I couldn't do anything. Even when I sent her the voice not concerning our marriage if she is still interested in it or not she has not reply me going to a week now and she has led the messages. I base in Lagos and I earn monthly. All I want is to settle down. What do I do . I'll appreciate your contributions thanks  |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by MechanicMike: 5:03pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Rubicon80:
I met this lady at katsina during our NYSC. I talked to her as I do to other corp members no emotions or fillings attached. She visited me once with a guy because we are in different PPA. After years of serving we met again on Facebook we started getting along , emotions and fillings comes though we did not see face to face because she was at Dubia at that time. After which I proposed to her and she accepted and we started working towards it. I lost my job that period she send me money and take care of things - in fact she is a very nice lady. Along the line we had misunderstanding over religious issue because she is born Catholic and am born Pentecostal we couldn't resolve it though she tried , i admit the fault was from me. The communication ended for months. Later I tried making peace with her but she seems mean so I let go, even when she return from Dubia I tried my possible best to see her no way . she later secured admission in UK and traveled. After months or a year of no communication i lost my dad and she collected my number from my friend and call me for condolences which from there we starting talking again. But all has changed. We started talking about marriage again , she get serious today and get fed up tomorrow, she reply my chaat after hours though she I'll be seen online. Today she want me to come to UK tomorrow she stop picking my calls. After a while I gave up. After like months she I'll call me again start asking if I have gotten a girl friend and want me to come to UK . In fact she told me to get my transcript and my documents ready that I'll be coming to UK by September. The problem here is that we don't talk if I don't chaat her she won't check on me unless after months if she wish. last week I sent her a voice note asking her that we need to talk, after hours she replied and said send me a voice note. The truth is that I love her so much. Am not in a relationship since after we had issue though I meet some potential girl but with her in my heart I couldn't do anything. Even when I sent her the voice not concerning our marriage if she is still interested in it or not she has not reply me going to a week now and she has led the messages. I base in Lagos and I earn monthly. All I want is to settle down. What do I do . I'll appreciate your contributions thanks You don't want siofra??(no oofencse) |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by Coolsat(m): 5:29pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
😆😆😆 na the UK no make you dy reason well. See as guyman set himself for cruise. That lady wicked sha 😆😆😆😆 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by Sweetvie: 6:07pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
She's not interested in you anymore. She just tryna find someone else to replace you. Hence, the pending relationship. Move on |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by Karlifate: 7:28pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Let her go.
Marital relationship cannot work between you guys.
Both of you were only meant to be Aquantaince, or at most, Friends.
Stop watering dead plants. 1 Like 1 Share 
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| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by talented321: 7:37pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
'She reply you when she like, and she may call at wish'. Most of you don't know the meaning of red flag. |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by advanceDNA: 9:33pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
taylor89:
Are you really a graduate with this kind of writing? No single paragraph Baba calm down...u too like violence |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by Houseofglam7(f): 11:32pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
…..a disaster waiting to happen….. |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by online4business: 3:41am On Jun 23, 2023 |
Don't carry someone like a bag of rice while they carry you as a pinch of salt. |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by diogo23: 8:17am On Jun 23, 2023 |
Rubicon80:
I met this lady at katsina during our NYSC. I talked to her as I do to other corp members no emotions or fillings attached. She visited me once with a guy because we are in different PPA. After years of serving we met again on Facebook we started getting along , emotions and fillings comes though we did not see face to face because she was at Dubia at that time. After which I proposed to her and she accepted and we started working towards it. I lost my job that period she send me money and take care of things - in fact she is a very nice lady. Along the line we had misunderstanding over religious issue because she is born Catholic and am born Pentecostal we couldn't resolve it though she tried , i admit the fault was from me. The communication ended for months. Later I tried making peace with her but she seems mean so I let go, even when she return from Dubia I tried my possible best to see her no way . she later secured admission in UK and traveled. After months or a year of no communication i lost my dad and she collected my number from my friend and call me for condolences which from there we starting talking again. But all has changed. We started talking about marriage again , she get serious today and get fed up tomorrow, she reply my chaat after hours though she I'll be seen online. Today she want me to come to UK tomorrow she stop picking my calls. After a while I gave up. After like months she I'll call me again start asking if I have gotten a girl friend and want me to come to UK . In fact she told me to get my transcript and my documents ready that I'll be coming to UK by September. The problem here is that we don't talk if I don't chaat her she won't check on me unless after months if she wish. last week I sent her a voice note asking her that we need to talk, after hours she replied and said send me a voice note. The truth is that I love her so much. Am not in a relationship since after we had issue though I meet some potential girl but with her in my heart I couldn't do anything. Even when I sent her the voice not concerning our marriage if she is still interested in it or not she has not reply me going to a week now and she has led the messages. I base in Lagos and I earn monthly. All I want is to settle down. What do I do . I'll appreciate your contributions thanks Remove any hope you have in that woman and move on she's just playing on your intelligent |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by diogo23: 8:20am On Jun 23, 2023 |
Oga use your sense why are you behaving like it's your first love or is it because you hear UK? Man up, if you end up with this lady you will never know peace |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by GodWrites: 11:20am On Jun 23, 2023 |
taylor89:
Are you really a graduate with this kind of writing? No single paragraph And he doesn't know the difference between 'am' and 'I'm'. A graduate indeed. |
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| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jun 23, 2023 |
Some people never learn |
| Re: Should I Continue Waiting For Her by diogo23: 3:28pm On Jun 23, 2023 |
GreatVocalist:
Omo na curse? Calm down na. It was not a curse rather the truth |
