kyber: My morning erection sometimes comes and sometimes doesn’t, and when it comes it is semi hard.
So I have tried to have sex with girls, whenever I’m being excited I get hard, But after putting on a condom and inserting my male organ into the vagina, it’s becomes soft after 2 or 3 thrust.
It takes minutes for me to get hard after some caressing by the lady and when I put it in it goes soft again.
Mind you I do masturbate but I stopped a month ago. Those were the period these things happened. I haven’t had sex since I stopped masturbation for fear of the repetition.
The girls I had left cause I couldn’t satisfy them, the love they had for me vanished after I couldn’t even perform well like their ex, making them miss their exes .
I haven’t tried raw sex yet to confirm if I can sustain my erection when I feel the inner walls of the vagina and it’s sweetness, because some of the articles I have read here on Nairaland talked about my male organ getting used to my left hand (cause that’s what i use) thereby making it loose sensitivity to the point where my male organ becomes insensitive inside the condom.
Is my condition a critical one or one that can be fixed easily by following few steps of instructions?
What can I do to get this fixed and get my male organ back to its full potential?
You're having a type of anxiety. It happened to me recently. Ordinarily I have a gf of 2 years and I have never had issue with erection when I'm with her unless I'm not in the mood due to stress or thinking alot at that moment.
So recently I had a girl I met randomly at the bank and she showed interest in me and I myself took the opportunity to see if I still get small game cus I've not been with another girl since I started dating. So I got her in my net and invited her over and was prepared to do the do. After all the small talk, we started kissing and took her to the room. That's where problem started. I started thinking about my girl, i started having performance anxiety cus I haven't been with another girl in over 2yrs and when I tried fingering this girl... I kid you not 3 fingers nearly enter finish 😂 Me wey I no get 9inches gbola, how I wan make this one moan biko? When I was fingering her I also did the sniff test and perceived that fishy odour which further turned me off and the girl doesn't know how to turn me on like my babe. I still tried ignoring these thoughts and strapped on a condom but my dick went down again. I had to take it off and tell her I can't do this. Typically I was so embarrassed but life goes on. Better to be embarrassed than catch an infection I guess.
Everyone is different but I disagree it's masturbation that causes it. I was a heavy masturbator some years back but now it's just occasionally and I still perform very well with my girl.
Bottomline is ensure you're not having anxiety when you're with any of these girls cus the mind controls the body and once your mind is not in sync with your body then you'll have these types of issue
kyber: My morning erection sometimes comes and sometimes doesn’t, and when it comes it is semi hard.
So I have tried to have sex with girls, whenever I’m being excited I get hard, But after putting on a condom and inserting my male organ into the vagina, it’s becomes soft after 2 or 3 thrust.
It takes minutes for me to get hard after some caressing by the lady and when I put it in it goes soft again.
Mind you I do masturbate but I stopped a month ago. Those were the period these things happened. I haven’t had sex since I stopped masturbation for fear of the repetition.
The girls I had left cause I couldn’t satisfy them, the love they had for me vanished after I couldn’t even perform well like their ex, making them miss their exes .
I haven’t tried raw sex yet to confirm if I can sustain my erection when I feel the inner walls of the vagina and it’s sweetness, because some of the articles I have read here on Nairaland talked about my male organ getting used to my left hand (cause that’s what i use) thereby making it loose sensitivity to the point where my male organ becomes insensitive inside the condom.
Is my condition a critical one or one that can be fixed easily by following few steps of instructions?
What can I do to get this fixed and get my male organ back to its full potential?
Your story long abeg....
But most of it is psychological and a lil bit physical
You have performance anxiety, solution is simple
Go to libgen.is, search for Stirling Cooper, download all his books and learn...try use common sense as you dey read the books...
Only you know your body best
Here is one of his videos on YouTube on the issue:
kyber: My morning erection sometimes comes and sometimes doesn’t, and when it comes it is semi hard.
So I have tried to have sex with girls, whenever I’m being excited I get hard, But after putting on a condom and inserting my male organ into the vagina, it’s becomes soft after 2 or 3 thrust.
It takes minutes for me to get hard after some caressing by the lady and when I put it in it goes soft again.
Mind you I do masturbate but I stopped a month ago. Those were the period these things happened. I haven’t had sex since I stopped masturbation for fear of the repetition.
The girls I had left cause I couldn’t satisfy them, the love they had for me vanished after I couldn’t even perform well like their ex, making them miss their exes .
I haven’t tried raw sex yet to confirm if I can sustain my erection when I feel the inner walls of the vagina and it’s sweetness, because some of the articles I have read here on Nairaland talked about my male organ getting used to my left hand (cause that’s what i use) thereby making it loose sensitivity to the point where my male organ becomes insensitive inside the condom.
Is my condition a critical one or one that can be fixed easily by following few steps of instructions?
What can I do to get this fixed and get my male organ back to its full potential?
You are suffering from venous leak. While waiting to get the problem fixed, when next you are with a chic and it fails, "use your tongue"
You cant do it alone, you need the understanding of your partner. she has to help you get used to her, and when you get used to her you can sustain the hardness of your erection. From there regular sex will bring back your stamina. And any time you penetrate your partner tried counting numbers backward like from 100, 99,98,.... it will help distract you from her London
kyber: My morning erection sometimes comes and sometimes doesn’t, and when it comes it is semi hard.
So I have tried to have sex with girls, whenever I’m being excited I get hard, But after putting on a condom and inserting my male organ into the vagina, it’s becomes soft after 2 or 3 thrust.
It takes minutes for me to get hard after some caressing by the lady and when I put it in it goes soft again.
Mind you I do masturbate but I stopped a month ago. Those were the period these things happened. I haven’t had sex since I stopped masturbation for fear of the repetition.
The girls I had left cause I couldn’t satisfy them, the love they had for me vanished after I couldn’t even perform well like their ex, making them miss their exes .
I haven’t tried raw sex yet to confirm if I can sustain my erection when I feel the inner walls of the vagina and it’s sweetness, because some of the articles I have read here on Nairaland talked about my male organ getting used to my left hand (cause that’s what i use) thereby making it loose sensitivity to the point where my male organ becomes insensitive inside the condom.
Is my condition a critical one or one that can be fixed easily by following few steps of instructions?
What can I do to get this fixed and get my male organ back to its full potential?
exercise exercises exercise expecially squatting squatting squatting ooo with barbells come back after 1 week and thank me,squat with better bar bells ooo trust me u no go need drugs for ur life again
kyber: The day I use the first dose of Vega and I tried to have sex with my gf, she refused to have sex telling me she needed to sleep. I belive it’s cause the first time we tried it I didn’t satisfy her cause my dick became flaccid when I went into her. I used Condom though.
She told me she likes her sex raw but I didn’t want to but I’m considering trying it out to know if I can sustain the erection without condom
Guy nor try raw on top a random babe ohh! Please use a CD! However,Its not the reason for the non performance of ur machine!
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kyber: The day I use the first dose of Vega and I tried to have sex with my gf, she refused to have sex telling me she needed to sleep. I belive it’s cause the first time we tried it I didn’t satisfy her cause my dick became flaccid when I went into her. I used Condom though.
She told me she likes her sex raw but I didn’t want to but I’m considering trying it out to know if I can sustain the erection without condom
better know her status oga. Which one is " she likes it raw"? Shey Ur brain is paining you ni?
slawomir: Damnnn niggar Nothing much Relax after all you have stopped Masturbation Not really the cause though
But observe your self for some time if after you stopped Masturbation any improvement
Do some kegel exercises for men in the morning for one month and observe
Now most important of them all
Reduce your anxiety when you are with a woman
Anxiety fuckks us up alot when we are with a woman Most of what we call sexual problems we encounter when we are are with a woman is actually not sexual problems...it is bros Anxiety Anxiety is even the cause of most quick ejaculation
Emmysky: You're having a type of anxiety. It happened to me recently. Ordinarily I have a gf of 2 years and I have never had issue with erection when I'm with her unless I'm not in the mood due to stress or thinking alot at that moment.
So recently I had a girl I met randomly and she showed interest in me and I myself took the opportunity to see if I still get small game cus I've not been with another girl since I started dating. So I got her in my net and invited her over and was prepared to do the do. After all the small talk, we started kissing and took her to the room. That's where problem started. I started thinking about my girl, i started having performance anxiety cus I haven't been with another girl in over 2yrs and when I tried fingering this girl... I kid you not 3 fingers nearly enter finish. Me wey I no get 9inches gbola, how I wan make this one moan. When I was fingering her I did the sniff test and perceived that fishy smell which further turned me off and the girl doesn't know how to turn me on like my babe. I still tried ignoring these thoughts and strapped on a condom. My dick went down again. I had to take it off and tell her I can't do this. Typically I was embarrassed but life goes on.
Everyone is different but I disagree it's masturbation that causes it. I was a chronic masturbator some years back but now it's just occasionally and I still perform well enough with my girl.
Bottomline is ensure your not having anxiety when you're with these girls cus the mind controls the body and once your mind is not in sync with your body then you'll have these types of issue
Goodluck 👍
It is not anxiety that causes it but poor blood circulation which can be due to excess sugar and build-up of plaque in the vein or when the liver is not functioning at full capacity.
kyber: My morning erection sometimes comes and sometimes doesn’t, and when it comes it is semi hard.
So I have tried to have sex with girls, whenever I’m being excited I get hard, But after putting on a condom and inserting my male organ into the vagina, it’s becomes soft after 2 or 3 thrust.
It takes minutes for me to get hard after some caressing by the lady and when I put it in it goes soft again.
Mind you I do masturbate but I stopped a month ago. Those were the period these things happened. I haven’t had sex since I stopped masturbation for fear of the repetition.
The girls I had left cause I couldn’t satisfy them, the love they had for me vanished after I couldn’t even perform well like their ex, making them miss their exes .
I haven’t tried raw sex yet to confirm if I can sustain my erection when I feel the inner walls of the vagina and it’s sweetness, because some of the articles I have read here on Nairaland talked about my male organ getting used to my left hand (cause that’s what i use) thereby making it loose sensitivity to the point where my male organ becomes insensitive inside the condom.
Is my condition a critical one or one that can be fixed easily by following few steps of instructions?
What can I do to get this fixed and get my male organ back to its full potential?
kyber: My morning erection sometimes comes and sometimes doesn’t, and when it comes it is semi hard.
So I have tried to have sex with girls, whenever I’m being excited I get hard, But after putting on a condom and inserting my male organ into the vagina, it’s becomes soft after 2 or 3 thrust.
It takes minutes for me to get hard after some caressing by the lady and when I put it in it goes soft again.
Mind you I do masturbate but I stopped a month ago. Those were the period these things happened. I haven’t had sex since I stopped masturbation for fear of the repetition.
The girls I had left cause I couldn’t satisfy them, the love they had for me vanished after I couldn’t even perform well like their ex, making them miss their exes .
I haven’t tried raw sex yet to confirm if I can sustain my erection when I feel the inner walls of the vagina and it’s sweetness, because some of the articles I have read here on Nairaland talked about my male organ getting used to my left hand (cause that’s what i use) thereby making it loose sensitivity to the point where my male organ becomes insensitive inside the condom.
Is my condition a critical one or one that can be fixed easily by following few steps of instructions?
What can I do to get this fixed and get my male organ back to its full potential?
This one that you're not yet married and having multiple girls , by the time you get married to stay faithful to your wife , will be very difficult for you . Well 99.9% of men cheat on their wives.
Open marriage has come to stay . Na who dem catch be theif.
Find a close by pharmacy or hospital to check your vitals and confirm that your blood pressure is not high. If you are hypertensive, consult your doctor for the choice of the appropriate drug for management if not hypertension also consult a doctor. DO NOT TAKE ANY SUBSTANCE THAT IS NOT PRESCRIPTION BY DOCTOR.
kyber: My morning erection sometimes comes and sometimes doesn’t, and when it comes it is semi hard.
So I have tried to have sex with girls, whenever I’m being excited I get hard, But after putting on a condom and inserting my male organ into the vagina, it’s becomes soft after 2 or 3 thrust.
It takes minutes for me to get hard after some caressing by the lady and when I put it in it goes soft again.
Mind you I do masturbate but I stopped a month ago. Those were the period these things happened. I haven’t had sex since I stopped masturbation for fear of the repetition.
The girls I had left cause I couldn’t satisfy them, the love they had for me vanished after I couldn’t even perform well like their ex, making them miss their exes .
I haven’t tried raw sex yet to confirm if I can sustain my erection when I feel the inner walls of the vagina and it’s sweetness, because some of the articles I have read here on Nairaland talked about my male organ getting used to my left hand (cause that’s what i use) thereby making it loose sensitivity to the point where my male organ becomes insensitive inside the condom.
Is my condition a critical one or one that can be fixed easily by following few steps of instructions?
What can I do to get this fixed and get my male organ back to its full potential?
kyber: My morning erection sometimes comes and sometimes doesn’t, and when it comes it is semi hard.
So I have tried to have sex with girls, whenever I’m being excited I get hard, But after putting on a condom and inserting my male organ into the vagina, it’s becomes soft after 2 or 3 thrust.
It takes minutes for me to get hard after some caressing by the lady and when I put it in it goes soft again.
Mind you I do masturbate but I stopped a month ago. Those were the period these things happened. I haven’t had sex since I stopped masturbation for fear of the repetition.
The girls I had left cause I couldn’t satisfy them, the love they had for me vanished after I couldn’t even perform well like their ex, making them miss their exes .
I haven’t tried raw sex yet to confirm if I can sustain my erection when I feel the inner walls of the vagina and it’s sweetness, because some of the articles I have read here on Nairaland talked about my male organ getting used to my left hand (cause that’s what i use) thereby making it loose sensitivity to the point where my male organ becomes insensitive inside the condom.
Is my condition a critical one or one that can be fixed easily by following few steps of instructions?
What can I do to get this fixed and get my male organ back to its full potential?
Guy, try check your blood pressure. If after you have confirmed it's normal.
Engage in daily exercise, mostly èvery morning before the day's activity. After a week or two, you should be bck to normal. Also avoid junk food and soft drink during this period.
Sorry, I am not an expert in these things, but I like to think that since you can attain arousal, maintaining it might be more of a psychological thing. I would avoid jumping to the use of sexual enhancement drugs or concoctions.
Try to address it in a most natural and traditional way.
Dear OP, Stop leaving in self denial. Why the rush to prove your potency if not because of anxiety? You keep repeating that you're considering doing it raw as if looking for someone's validation. It's your decision, your life. On the main issue, you need to stop masturbating completely and start exercising; jogging on a spot, skipping and push/sit-up will help. I'll advice you stay away from sex for like 3 week/a month and eat lots of fruits and veggies. There's more to living that sex! sex!! sex!!!
Masturbation is not the cause. Try the traditional medicine and if u can't, kindly visit hospital. Try and be taking fruits and zinc to supplement ur libido. Things will be ok soon
kyber: My morning erection sometimes comes and sometimes doesn’t, and when it comes it is semi hard.
So I have tried to have sex with girls, whenever I’m being excited I get hard, But after putting on a condom and inserting my male organ into the vagina, it’s becomes soft after 2 or 3 thrust.
It takes minutes for me to get hard after some caressing by the lady and when I put it in it goes soft again.
Mind you I do masturbate but I stopped a month ago. Those were the period these things happened. I haven’t had sex since I stopped masturbation for fear of the repetition.
The girls I had left cause I couldn’t satisfy them, the love they had for me vanished after I couldn’t even perform well like their ex, making them miss their exes .
I haven’t tried raw sex yet to confirm if I can sustain my erection when I feel the inner walls of the vagina and it’s sweetness, because some of the articles I have read here on Nairaland talked about my male organ getting used to my left hand (cause that’s what i use) thereby making it loose sensitivity to the point where my male organ becomes insensitive inside the condom.
Is my condition a critical one or one that can be fixed easily by following few steps of instructions?
What can I do to get this fixed and get my male organ back to its full potential?
Start exercising with heavy weights....
Reduce watching porn or eliminate it completely!
Commit to one lady in a relationship life ...
Nothing is wrong with you. You just conditioned yourself mentally not to bond with a woman.....
Just chill out...give yourself a break for a while maybe 2-3months....Excercise well...think if something else ...engage yourself in other activities for about 2-3months..before testing yourself out again.
The thing is once you can successfully manst...you can have sex.
