I have this profound relationship with my second son and love to lie together with my baby all the time. He sleeps extremely near to me while I sleep next to my hubby. It wasn't amusing when my one-year-old son (at that time) unexpectedly woke up one early morning and instructed his dad (in his 1year old language) to remove his hand from his mummy's arm.

My husband burst into laughter at the surprising outburst and maintained his hand on my arm. Baby kept whining and complaining, angrily woke me up (he thought I was napping), and briefed his dad. I laughed and clarified the best way I could that mummy is daddy's belonging and first love and can show admiration to her willingly. All answers fell on deaf ears! Admitting Dad and Mum are not going to budge, he changed roles and sandwiched himself between my husband and me, and held mute!
Smiles...he is more grown now, more self-reliant, and does not throw such blowups again.

Though children are adorable and so lovely, they can kill affairs and passionate lovemaking in marriage if permitted. The childbearing phase in marriage is a challenging one that needs wisdom to govern.
My first son likes to speak to his dad at the same time he is conversing with me. We have to teach him to allow grown-ups to finish speaking before talking.

When the children have not come, it is only you and your partner. You have all the time in the world to date him or her, have a loving moment together, get passionate, be romantic, and look into each other's eyeballs without a timetable for as extended as you want with zero distraction, but now that the infants have come, the attention is divided and you are so confusing about who to give most of your time. You occasionally feel regretful for giving your husband additional attention than the children and vice versa.
The key here is BALANCE. Learn to balance attention and admiration between your husband and the youngsters so that one does not unseat the other.

Here are the 10 keys to balancing affection between your spouse and the kids.
1) Whenever your spouse is not at home, spend time with your kids, and give them all the concentration, love, and admiration they need, when your husband is back home, switch to him for the affection he needs from you. You will always give them concentration but let them know your husband is the monarch of the house and .....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2023/06/you-need-to-read-this-challenges-in.html