Naija girls and their facebook wahala.Anytime u see a naija babe dey ping her BB then u go know  say na facebook she dey.Wetin dey that facebook wey no wan let naija girls see road .Thank God say no be naija girl i dey date oo because she for don kill me with her facebook wahala .

sexkillz:

OP!
I may sound absurd, but the truth is that, i'll not end a relationship because of that! For chrissakes, she made a request, and i'll tell you categorically that she does not mean that break up gibberish line she gave to you! It depends on how much you love her and how much you are willing to sacrifice for her! I may tow the line of some commenter's on here, by saying you should dump her, blah blah yada yada! Now ask yourself where every one will be when you start missing her? When your emotional infrastructure is in a state of quagmire? You alone know who you are, and how tolerant you are! Are you both committed to the relationship? Personally, if i'm engaged to someone i know i'll marry, what tha heck? Wetin dey there? But if the relationship is in it's precocious stages, i should be able to discern personally, the parabolic trajectory i want the relationship to head! Yes and while her request is an effrontery to whatever you think, why dont you show her why you said no, in a matured calm way, instead of tying to assert your authority as a man, by saying NO in all finality? She may be insecure as a person, and last i checked, insecurity is not a crime, it's a trait that she can always overcome! She may not realize the gravity of the implications that may befall her relationship with you! Try making her realize it, and She may even see reasons with you! Unless she is a personification of the word "Daft", i dont see why she should not be open to reason! If you've tried you best to make her see reasons, then i wont castigate you opinions about that!

Sometimes, all that is required is just a little twist of a key,  get the engine running!  

harakiri:



The truth is this lady is being possessive and wants to manipulate this guy into unecessary commitment. She wants everybody to know she's hooked a guy. This is NOT love, it's manipulation.

or else she's asking for a divorce. You don enter am be that. hehehehehehe  

Uncle Meka, biko how old is your babe?

Beync:

well said skillz.
I only pity naive minds who will take some advice the way NL throws it. most of the time when issue of relationships is been discussd, peeps will jus be saying throw her out or thow him out like we knew where the shoe is paining the wearer. If this issue is jus what is bothering their relationship why cant they mildfully discuss their reasons for their opipnions and settle it if they are sincere to themselves. there are serious issues that cud break relationship except if  this guy is not genuinly concern with the reltnshp or not sure he has any future with the girl like he sound, jus my observation.

Beync:

some peeps with bad experience sef shud not influence others, all rltnshps must not experience bad

Op, i think i cannot compromise things that has to do with morallity or will prick my conscience

yes some women can be silly and immature in their demands sometimes

but most time i see men behaving more silly especially when it comes to their 3rd leg

the truth is that you are not proud of her simple

all these excuses as to what Mr A and Miss/Mrs right wud say wud be simply immature on your side, are u living the life of others? u shud live your life

or u hav something u dont to say

micheall36:

[i][/i] The truth of the matter is, You dont love your woman,
Lets call a spade a spade, If your this unwilling to put her face on your facebook,
thats means u scared of loosing other gurls u rolling when they see the pic
which is just wat the poor gurls wants!!


If u are willing to lose her cause of picture on facebook, then u dont deserve her
Am a man and will never support u on this cause your a man like me.
If u dont love the gurl, let her go if u do truely love her, put her pic on your facebook

SIMPLE!!

mekaboy:

[b] NL UNA DEY CONFUSE ME MORE

LET ME CONFESS MY REASONS.

1, THERE IS THIS GIRL I HAD SOMETHING WITH IN THE PAST, SHE HAD A BF, AND ON HER FB PROFILE SHE HAD HIS PIC, AND HER STATUS SAID SHE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM AND HIS NAME WAS MENTIONED.

I DONT HAVE TO GIVE DETAILS OF HOW WE GOT TOGETHER, BUT THE THING IS WE WERE ENGAGED IN A S-E-X-U-AL RELATIONSHIP. NOW THIS GIRL WILL BE IN MY ROOM AND BE CHATING WITH HER BF ON MY LAPTOP, EVEN MAKING COMMENTS ON HIS PIC AND SAYING STUFF LIKE"I LOVE YOU"OPENLY ON HIS WALL, FROM MY ROOM AND MY BED , AND I WOULD BE LAUGHING.

NOW - I DONT KNOW IF ITS GUILT OUR FEAR- BUT I PROMISED MYSELF I WONT HAVE A GIRLS PIC AS MY PROFILE PIC UNLESS ITS MY WIFE, BECAUSE THIS FACEBOOK THING MEANS NOTHING TO ME. HERE IS A GIRL CHEATING ON HER BF, AND STILL HAS HIS PIC ON HER PROFILE, CHATING WITH HIM FROM MY LAPTOP ON MY BED.

NOW I DONT WANT TO BE THE FOOL, IT MAKES IT DIFFICULT FOR ME TO TRUST GIRLS, IF I YOU OR I WANT TO PROVE LOVE, I DONT THINK FACEBOOK WILL BE THE RIGHT MEDIUM, BECAUSE PEOPLE DO STUFF ON FB AND DO SOMETHING ELSE BEHIND THE PC.

I DONT WANT TO BE PARADING FB WITH A GIRLS PIC AND ANOTHER GUY WILL BE LAUGHING AT WHILE SCREWING THE GIRL I HAVE HER PIC AND MY STATUS AS MY GF ON FB.


2, THE WORLD IS A SMALL PLACE AND THE INTERNET MAKES IT EVEN SMALLER,  NOW I PUT HER PIC AS MY PROFILE PICTURE AND THE WHOLE WORLD AND HER FRIENDS AND FAMILY WILL SEE ME AS HER BF.

ASSUMING WE BREAK UP TOMOROW- AND I MEET ANOTHER GIRL I LIKE, AND I TRY TO GET TO KNOW HER, AND SHE WILL ASK ME IF I AM NOT "ME EXS BOYFRIEND" THEN I WILL START TO EXPLAIN, YES- I WAS BUT WE HAVE BROKEN UP - THEN THE GIRL WILL SAY NO, THAT SHE IS HER FRIEND AND SHE WONT LIKE TO DATE HER FRIENDS EX-BF AND ALL THAT.

YOU DONT KNOW WHO KNOWS WHO- WE ARE NOT MARRIED YET, NOT EVEN ENGAGED, SO WHY GIVE THAT PUBLICITY ? AND IF WE BREAK UP FOR SOME REASON AND SHE GOES OUT THERE TO SPREAD SOME FALSE NEWS ABOUT ME ON MY WALL OR HER PAGE, PEOPLE WILL BELIEVE HER BECAUSE I ONCE HAD HER PIC ON MY PROFILE ONCE.

I DONT THINK BF GF IS WORTH THAT PUBLICITY.

THERE ARE OTHER WAYS TO ASSURE A GIRL THAN FB. IF I WAS NOT PROUD OF HER WHY WILL I DATE SOMEONE I AM NOT PROUD OF? DONT WE GO OUT TOGEHTER? DONT MY FRIENDS KNOW HER? MUST THE WORLD ON FB SEE US TOGETHER BEFORE SHE KNOWS I AM PROUD.

THAT EXPERIENCE I HAD WITH A GIRL CHEATING ON HER BF MAKE IT DIFFICULT TO PUT A GIRLS PIC UP THERE. IF BETTER A GIRL CHEATS ON ME IN SECRET, THAN ME PUTTING HER PIC ON MY PROFILE AND SHE CHEATS AND PEOPLE WHO KNOW SHE IS CHEATING LAUGH AT ME , I TOLD HER , FACEBOOK IS FAKE AND I DONT WANT THE DRAMA AND GOSSIP ON FACEBOOK THATS WHY I CANT DO IT, BUT SHE SAYS I AM TELLING HER LIES.[/b]

Why didnt you post this earlier? I thought it was a serious matter sef! Treat others how you would like to be treated! Nothing like a clean conscience! The first reply i gave was bearing in mind you had a clean conscience! My bad! Pls disregard every thing i said earlier! Trashy Gibberish!