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Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Gerrard59(m): 7:07am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Urheadmaster: Why are you angry? The official language in Germany is German. You have to learn the language and fit in o 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by donprinyo(m): 7:11am On Jul 19, 2023 |
One thing about bed is that u lay on it just the way u made it. Your problem is not abroad but ur decision making. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Gerrard59(m): 7:19am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Omoawoke: This is a mistake most make. I understand hypergamy is an issue, but consider that for a young man to leave Nigeria, get admitted into a good university on his merit aka legal migration, get some form of scholarship, study a relevant course, try as much as possible to learn the language etc. It means he has good heads over his shoulders. Such a person is responsible to a great extent and quite ambitious. It is not like he got there illegally or was caught for nefarious purposes. But hypergamy and fear of the unknown no go gree. Beecause truth is; these young men notice these things and decides to mix up with other nationals esp if there is a significant black population. The situation is quite different if the lady has permanent residence or is older than the guy. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Gerrard59(m): 7:24am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Rahkman: Black men are also affected. There is no country outside a black dominated region where black men are prized or the top of the dating chain, except for the famed black preek. Most will want to taste or feel how a black man's preek is. They will not marry you. So stop thinking black men are prized. That said, humans are tribal and will always prefer those who look/think like them. 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Breadwinner(m): 7:25am On Jul 19, 2023 |
As a person who likes to study and understand how various human mind works, I believe sometimes women don't know that the solitude they believe they are experiencing is just absence of male headache, constant anxiety from worrying about not having enough money to get what they desire, random ehsss fine girl (as thugs or touts like to say when they see pretty Nigerian girls on the road especially alone) and much more mind disturbing a things like that. Why I say this is, if a good guy comes that is gentle, understands them, give them time to be themselves and do what they want, they will still feel solitude....#I am very interested in female responses to this my hypothesis. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Gerrard59(m): 7:28am On Jul 19, 2023 |
ELKHALIFAISIS: The difference is that those women just want to fee how the penis of a black man is. Most will not want to marry you. That is the difference. Most importantly, women of all races desire relationships/companionship more than sexual intercourse. It is why they are demisexual. So having sex with different white girls does not mean you are into a long term relationship this woman desires. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Raalsalghul: 7:29am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Gerrard59: It's not being responsible or ambitious that will settle the bills or give them soft life Oga Gerrard59. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Gerrard59(m): 7:32am On Jul 19, 2023 |
robinsoncrosoe: If you knew the bold, why request she go to Nigeria to pick a man to marry? Most of the men she grew up/studied with in Nigeria go don marry as those are the men she can trust if she decides to marry a man and move over to the UK. But a random man living in Tinubu's current Nigeria? It is a risky venture. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by isabi2lof: 7:36am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ebubu2: Anyone that cheats doesn't have any genuine reason, no matter how you satisfy a man as a woman, if he lacks self control, forget it , human beings are insatiable.. If my man cheats on me , do you think I will give a fvck about it , the answer is no , I live my life one day at a time , some people do tell me that I don't use to bother about anything in this life , I will just look at them at smile 😊.. If I care for you enough, just know that , my mind is the one disturbing me to reach out to you , cos on a good day , I no too dey send anybody, my mama sef don talk tire .. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by maasoap(m): 7:36am On Jul 19, 2023 |
TemplarLandry:You are insensitive to her plight, to the plight of many Nigerians looking for greener pastures abroad. But I get it, you believed that they already have the opportunity that you are dreaming of and that they shouldn't complain about anything else. Instead, they should be grateful. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by henrisco: 7:37am On Jul 19, 2023 |
I understand your plight. Reach out to me for a possible discussion |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by ashawopikin(m): 7:38am On Jul 19, 2023 |
And yet, you don't want to come back to Nigeria |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by maasoap(m): 7:42am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ebubu2: You made a lot of sense, very apt description of the whole debacles. Hard choices, dilemma |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by tonididdy(m): 7:44am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ok this loneliness episodes are becoming stale as I cannot never relate to it. I also live overseas and trust me, you really can never be lonely overseas unless you are a premium saddest. There’s so much to do outdoors for fun and unless it’s just the UK but in another abroad, Nigerians love to make friends and visit each other houses. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by maasoap(m): 7:54am On Jul 19, 2023 |
enemyofprogress:Lol. Over there, they don't see masturbation as a big deal. She can't say she's not already into that but it is not a substitute for companionship. She's particularly concerned about human relationship to deal with loneliness. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by 2hrt(m): 7:57am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Calitoscassius: Bro I don email you abeg |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Nobody: 8:07am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Urheadmaster:If my type enter that place, to make friends will be easy as ABCD, una no get Moral at all |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Pinkybush: 8:09am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Come back to Nigeria and marry me. But you must be submissive |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Nobody: 8:10am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Omoawoke:Una no know how to woo women, if na me at that student level, I go de knack many of them in that UK and US E de for mouth, u no get sweet mouth Oga |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by AbleGodsolution(m): 8:12am On Jul 19, 2023 |
odenkirk:connect me with her Abeg 🤲 I get time |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Nobody: 8:15am On Jul 19, 2023 |
HacheNoire:If I enter that country, to make friends will be easy as ABCD, I go de knack like say tomorrow no de, una no get sweet mouth, try get better sweet mouth. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Nobody: 8:17am On Jul 19, 2023 |
uthompson2001:Why will you go outside the country and still be chasing Nigerian women?? omoo una de fall hand 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Nobody: 8:19am On Jul 19, 2023 |
obaidan:Na una still de chase after black women abroad,, If I mistakenly comot dis country, nothing concern me with black women again 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by buJu234: 8:22am On Jul 19, 2023 |
African ladies especially if u're dark in color.. please b4 leaving ur country for the west.. try and get married or worst case a trusted guy in Africa b4 relocating. your chances of getting married over here to a real guy is very slim.. not impossible sha 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Gerrard59(m): 8:40am On Jul 19, 2023 |
TheBillyonaire: Agreed. If Nigeria becomes as developed as South Korea, the country will lose some of its social engagement. Lagos is an example. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Gerrard59(m): 8:49am On Jul 19, 2023 |
cococandy: In your opinion and observations, why is that so? I don't fancy a baby mama situation. I rather remain single. Having children in a two-parent household remains the best. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by HacheNoire: 8:51am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Lewisjohnson: Travel and see. Experience is the best teacher. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Gerrard59(m): 8:54am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Raalsalghul: Then, what do they want? I have seen the benefits of playing the long game and delayed gratification. So, why not do the same as first generation immigrants? Na one of the reasons I no dey interested in marriage. Soft life when the foundation is not balanced does not make sense. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by obrian888: 8:54am On Jul 19, 2023 |
My sister is a nurse, she relocated to the UK 2 years ago, she is a very wonderful person to make friends with just hook up with me and i will give you her control. she will be glad to have you as a friend since you are in the same profession, i look forward to hearing from you. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Gerrard59(m): 8:56am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Lewisjohnson: I have read your posts. Your type no dey stay long before we read your news for Instablog for sexual abuse or harassment. E no dey tey. Yen yen yen I can't be with a black woman. 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Osanoghodua1: 9:09am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Start praying for 5yrs daily, loneliness will disappear..Get involved in humanitarian works help people, have a foundation, have a community you do support. Join a church and a social fellowship like Rotaract. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by cococandy(f): 9:24am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Gerrard59: I’m with you on that as well. I think a healthy family with two loving parents is best. The only time I think one parent household would be better is if the two parent one is fundamentally and unfixably broken. Why is the that so? There are so many social determinants stacked against the black community in America. The reason I blame the men is that instead of understanding that they are in it together with their women, they hate the women for things that are entirely not their fault and think going to white women will solve the issue. Then of course it doesn’t. So they bounce and circle the block. Only to do it again. all over again. They often don’t take the opportunity for self reflection and re-strategizing. This is not say BW are blameless but statistically when things go sideways, they are the ones who often stay to “hold down” the forte. BM don’t give them the same grace when things go sideways 1 Like |
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