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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 4:02pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
DodadaKoKigbe: If a parent has to flog a small 2 year old, the parent is the problem. What is the parent doing wrong that causes a 2 year old to disobey them? How can a parent not control a 2 year old without beating them? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 4:07pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican: The 2 imported foreign Abrahamic religions have rot the brains of most Nigerians. Its almost like they are in a perpetual state of mass hypnosis. Imagine the dude bragging about inflicting violence on his 2 year old child! |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 4:14pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
DodadaKoKigbe: Nothing is normal about that. Many of these parents are taking out their frustration on their children. Did you see that someone said they know a woman who put pepper in a child’s eyes and body cavities? That’s a sick, cruel, and evil woman. Nigerians are here saying that beating a child works to instill discipline. If that’s true, why do children that started getting beatings at 2 and 3 years still require beatings as they age and even in their teenage years? If a parent is beating a 16 year old then the beatings he gave the child over the years didn’t work. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 4:18pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
godofuck231: If the dad was a real man, he would’ve done the things you said. The dad is going to lose his career over this and the son will still be curious about sex but may now act violently towards women because thanks to his dad, he now associates normal sexual urges with violence. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 4:19pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican: Thank you for that wonderful logic (emboldened). Christianity and Islam are enemies of logic. That's why MOST Africans are moving around like zombies. Also, that mother that put pepper in her daughter's cavities should be arrested, charged and if found guilty JAILED for a very long time! 1 Like |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 4:20pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
stephenponti: Are you a sadistic adult bully who brutalizes children for having human urges like the father? 2 Likes |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Nobody: 4:26pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican:It's in the minority. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 4:26pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
Emmaomotob: I know adults who were sent to Nigeria as children to learn “discipline”. They tell of being molested and raped by family members, househelp, and family friends almost as soon as they landed until the time their parents came to collect them. They also tell about going without food while family members spent the money their parents sent for their care on foolish things. The reason they changed when returning to America was because they never wanted to experience the horrors they face in Nigeria again. This is sometimes why the younger generation never visits family in Nigeria and ignore calls for help—they were partially raised in the West and know the things they experienced in Nigeria aren’t normal or healthy. 1 Like |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by purples25(f): 4:41pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
My grandfather never beat my father and his siblings. Grandad was always remembered to be a very loving father. He treated his sons like eggs and he was a full Nigerian that never left the country. They never became bad people. Africans just find excuses to be violent. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 4:57pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
FacilitatorLekk: You’re telling me that the majority of Nigerians are extremely honest, well-disciplined, non-violent, and altruistic? I might believe you had I not been to Nigeria ever. From the time you land at MMIA, you start to encounter dishonest civil servants and people who will lie, cheat, demand bribes, and yell if you don’t let them have their way. Taxi drivers will try to cheat you and even people in the market place will try to cheat you. You can’t go out at night out of fear of being robbed or kidnapped and you can’t travel by car to another state out of fear that you’ll lose you freedom or your life. You a Nigerian know that it isn’t the minority. And before you tell me the corruption is the government, remember that corrupt leaders are elected and re-elected by corrupt people. Corrupt leaders don’t thrive and grow rich in places with people who aren’t corrupt. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 5:00pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
purples25: I believe you. Words are more powerful than beatings and your grandad probably earned the respect of his children by respecting their feelings as children while still maintaining that he was the adult and had all the power in the home. His children became good people because their father treated them like they were good people, not like they were hated and unwanted burdens. Children should respect their parents, not live in fear of them. 1 Like |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 5:05pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
megastu: That’s because your children don’t fear you, they love and respect you. Respectful children who love their parents grow up to be adults who spoil and indulge their parents. Children who fear their parents grow into adults who resent their parents, are sting6 when it comes to them, and put distance between them. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 5:12pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by purples25(f): 5:15pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican: True. This country. If you're not violent or impatient or toxic, then they believe you are a dunce. May God help us. 1 Like |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 5:16pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
AllenSpencer: Everyone in Nigeria today was once a kid, right? If all these kids that are now adults were raised to have all the discipline, fight, hustle, morals, and respect that you mentioned, why doesn’t the nation as a whole reflect that? |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 5:19pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
damoobaba: No he won’t, the parent lost custody. They’ll be deported and he’ll remain in England with a foster family. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 5:20pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
DenreleDave: See the story from a week ago where the Nigerian father in the UK flogged the 2 year old son and slammed his head against the wall, killing him. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 5:28pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
Blitzerz: No he won’t be a refugee seeker. The father lost custody and the son will be raised in care at the expense of the government. He’ll also receive counseling to recover from the trauma his father inflicted on him. Imagine going to school and becoming a doctor then losing it all just because you can’t control your rage and act in a civilized manner. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DenreleDave(m): 5:31pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican: Person no dey die from flogging like I said earlier |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 5:36pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
AllenSpencer: Why do these kids raised in Nigeria grow up and move to the West that is run by adults who were once the kids that you described so negatively in order to seek opportunities and a better quality of life? Shouldn’t the awful children raised in the West that you described be the ones dying to Japa to Nigeria and other African countries? Look at the leaders and conditions in Nigeria and compare it to the leaders and conditions in the West and tell me which one is being run by rotten adults. Children are born good and innocent, being rotten and corrupt is learned behavior. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 5:37pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
DenreleDave: A person doesn’t thrive from floggings either. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Nobody: 5:41pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican:You are part of the corrupt people. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Blitzerz: 5:42pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican:what is the legal status of the boy in the country if his visa is dependent on his father? Or u dont know what they call visa dependent? Are you confusing immigration with police? |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 5:42pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
FacilitatorLekk: I don’t live in Nigeria and I don’t condone adults taking out their frustrations on children by beating them. Goodbye. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 5:46pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
Blitzerz: It doesn’t matter. When a parent loses custody, the child becomes a ward of the local government so any possible visa dependence or immigration status tied to that parent is severed. Basically, the parent is no longer the parent in the eyes of the law so why would the child get deported because the person no longer recognized as a parent it? Becoming a ward of the local government means the child is entitled to care and rearing provided by them. The government doesn’t take custody from parents only to deport the parent and then deport the child so that they can reunite. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Purvan(m): 5:48pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
I no fit raise my child for any country way don legalise LGBT |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Nobody: 6:02pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican:It's discipline, you better whip your child if they are unruly or that child might beat you one day. I have never hear of kid serial killers in Nigeria, it's due to the discipline factor. Live in mars in peace, don't try to tell us in Africa how to discipline the young. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Blitzerz: 6:15pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican:False Custody doesnt equal parentship You clearly dont know the law. You also think police is immigration I dont even need to argue further. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DenreleDave(m): 6:17pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican: Spare the road and spoil the child |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 6:17pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
Blitzerz: You’re wrong so no, you don’t need to argue any further. Goodbye Sir |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Emmaomotob(m): 6:56pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican:This is someone that has intelligence. Nigerians have linear thinking. If you can't train your child properly, why should you expect someone else to do it for you? Also, it is very stupid to claim moral superiority. If Nigerians were so morally upright, why is the country in a terrible shape? The trans agenda is not even absolute in the West, a lot of people are pushing back on it. To deny your child the best environment for self development is the most stupid thing a parent can do. Looking back at my childhood, I can rarely justify any punishment I received from my parents. Most parents beat their children for raising their voice and challenging their opinion and then wonder why they become failures in life. Beating a child does not make them understand better. Empathy, living by example, and a little rebuke go further. Beating a child only makes them docile, obedient and fearful, if not traumatized. The most important thing is the relationship you have with your child. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by being(m): 10:39pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
SMH So a parent will just give an instructions and a 2 yọ will just obeying?!! Are u in this world? 1stGenAmerican: |
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