beautifulsoul12:
Yes.
We've tried and still trying.
They said is an attack. Family problem. We have been praying, maybe is yet time for God to intervine otherwise we have tried all our best

beautifulsoul12:
Good morning everyone. I have to create this account to post this.
I can't even sleep at night lately.

I'm so tired and I need help right now. I have been doing this all by myself for so long now, without much complain but now, I need help.
Before I got married to my husband, I didn't know he had a seasonal mental health challenge, but not violent.

I met him in the university, he was in medicine, he had dreams, very ambitious, one of the best in his department, Working his way to travel abroad to continue his education. We were just friends, but I liked him. He kept on asking me out, but I declined. I wanted to graduate first.
We parted ways in year two. He changed school, so, I knew nothing about him again till years later.
Reconnected with him years later after graduation, to my greatest surprise, he didn't graduate, wasted all his resources and couldn't travel out. We still love each other, so we got married.
after the birth of my first child, I wanted to leave him, but I couldn't because he was a good man, but with too many changes and I was the only one who truly care and was there for him.
Three years ago, he became much better. He got a small job, Started bringing in little for upkeep. I saw change and I was happy. We had our second child last year after 8yrs.
Since early this year, the whole thing came up again. Since then, he became jobless again.
The financial burden is all on me. Right now, we can't afford to renew our rent.
I lost my business capital some times ago in wrong business, since then, it has been so much struggles.

I'm trying hard but it's not enough.
I'm thinking of working away, but to where? what about my children? Who will be there for them? What about him? But I'm tired of being in a marriage where I have to struggle for everything, where I can not depend on my man.
Pls, help us renew our house rent.

What do I do?

beautifulsoul12:
Good morning everyone. I have to create this account to post this.
I can't even sleep at night lately.

I'm so tired and I need help right now. I have been doing this all by myself for so long now, without much complain but now, I need help.
Before I got married to my husband, I didn't know he had a seasonal mental health challenge, but not violent.

I met him in the university, he was in medicine, he had dreams, very ambitious, one of the best in his department, Working his way to travel abroad to continue his education. We were just friends, but I liked him. He kept on asking me out, but I declined. I wanted to graduate first.
We parted ways in year two. He changed school, so, I knew nothing about him again till years later.
Reconnected with him years later after graduation, to my greatest surprise, he didn't graduate, wasted all his resources and couldn't travel out. We still love each other, so we got married.
after the birth of my first child, I wanted to leave him, but I couldn't because he was a good man, but with too many changes and I was the only one who truly care and was there for him.
Three years ago, he became much better. He got a small job, Started bringing in little for upkeep. I saw change and I was happy. We had our second child last year after 8yrs.
Since early this year, the whole thing came up again. Since then, he became jobless again.
The financial burden is all on me. Right now, we can't afford to renew our rent.
I lost my business capital some times ago in wrong business, since then, it has been so much struggles.

I'm trying hard but it's not enough.
I'm thinking of working away, but to where? what about my children? Who will be there for them? What about him? But I'm tired of being in a marriage where I have to struggle for everything, where I can not depend on my man.
Pls, help us renew our house rent.

What do I do?

Foodqueen:
Your story is incomplete o jare.

His family members should care about him.

efficiencie:


This is sad but the norm. By your admission, the man has been good to you when he is sane but for the mental health challenges he has. It is your responsibility to help him get healing. As with most mental health issues, it is most likely supernatural. You have to pursue supernatural solutions as much as medical solutions to help that man get healed from his disease.

jeromestarks:
Handle your problem alone.
You rejected good men who approached you when you were younger and beautiful to marry this mentally retardant.
You chose your destiny. You should suffer it alone.

Never pity a woman who is suffering in her home. Good men came for her but she rejected them saying "he's too short, he doesn't have money, he's to tall, he doesn't have a car etc" and settled for a guy who used suya to bribe her.

Many women wished the men they rejected came back. But guess what, none will come back.

Loyalty1:
■ If you believe that God Almighty can heal and deliver your husband joins NSPPD streams of joy International online prayer from Monday to Friday by 7am to 8am. I promise you God will heal your husband. Millions have give mind blowing testimony definitely your own will not be different. If you are interested, I will buy data for you to connect to the online prayer. If you do hear the slogan''WHAT GOD CAN NOT DO DOES NOT EXIST. Na then

beautifulsoul12:
Yes.
We've tried and still trying.
They said is an attack. Family problem. We have been praying, maybe is yet time for God to intervine otherwise we have tried all our best

Jewessgratitud3:
Madam, if you truly love him like you claim, don't leave him. He's now a part of you.

You know it's not his doing that he has mental health issues, the best you can do is help him get through this phase until he gets back on his feet again cos if you leave him, you may regret the outcome of your actions if he plunges deep into depression and it gets out of hands
Or leads him into the street. The shame will be on you and your children.

Don't think it is Rosy out there. Every one has one thing or the other they are passing through that even when you hear it, you'll thank God. It is not better out there.

So it's better you try and look for help and find something to do in the meantime. cover your shame/man until he can bounce back again. Lastly, don't forget to pray.

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Desusi:
■ You're great with this counsel! And if l may add to this, there is nothing God cannot do,you said you have prayed, how persistent are you? Do you pray a prevailing prayer? This kind of suasion is not a gentle men prayer,you need the anointing of men of passion and power to break this yoke.People like Adeboye,olukoya and papa kumuyi who is currently at ogbomoso for July edition of GCK.What are you still waiting for get in touch with him thru GCK ON YOUTUBE and get your miracle. God is real madam.l stand in faith with you.Money is not everything, the lord will surely provide for you!

beautifulsoul12:
Yes.
We've tried and still trying.
They said is an attack. Family problem. We have been praying, maybe is yet time for God to intervine otherwise we have tried all our best

Kobojunkie:
▢ What mental illness(es) would that be?

▢ Has your husband been getting treatment for the condition or have you both not been paying attention to these things?

▢ You learned right after your first child that your husband was mentally ill, so you must have done some serious background to at least learn whether the condition is hereditary before having your second child. Or did you think it was all Ok to leave such things to chance?

▢ Your husband does not work and he is mentally ill, have you both tried coming together as a couple to maybe replan your union in such a way that would maybe get you to become the major breadwinner while he transitions more into the role of househusband during his down seasons? I mean what have you both tried up until this point in time that has not worked for you still?

jeromestarks:
Handle your problem alone.
You rejected good men who approached you when you were younger and beautiful to marry this mentally retardant.
You chose your destiny. You should suffer it alone.

Never pity a woman who is suffering in her home. Good men came for her but she rejected them saying "he's too short, he doesn't have money, he's to tall, he doesn't have a car etc" and settled for a guy who used suya to bribe her.

Many women wished the men they rejected came back. But guess what, none will come back.

Kobojunkie:
Your gods of men don heal them millions of followers , many who come back year after year with the same problems, finish? Na to dey recruit more blind followers for una dey always they without first reasoning that maybe it is wrong to rope others into the delusion wey never solve your own personal first.

Kei144:
■ If it's attack, then all you need is to find a Christian who really has the Holy Spirit. The Christian can drive out the evil spirit(s) causing the problem by the Holy Spirit. If you were in my vicinity, I could have done it for you. You need to see a true deliverance minister.

Myer:
■ This is a greatly articulated counsel. I'll just like to add one more option;
Have you considered praying about it?
If your faith cannot deal, kindly take him to your pastor or MFM. God still heals everyone who is sick in the name of Jesus.

Desusi:
■ You're novice to the things of God.Needless arguing with you.

Kobojunkie:
MFM don heal all the many 10s of thousands wey dey flock to their churches week after week, year after year, finish? There are many 1000s who have been coming for deliverance for over a decade out there...una don heal them finish?

Na to rope others into the same delusion wey never resolve una own shit....na im many of you know.

Kobojunkie:
1. You are right but knowing that poster, I tend to think what he meant is instead that mental illnesses patients are not to be seen the same as Nigerians used to see and think of witches.

2. I have myself in addition to living with it and I can tell you that exercise and good diets are not solutions. They can serve as a form of coping mechanism but a coping mechanism can also become a problem if care is not taken.

3. I did what you suggested for years after which my brain still crashed. My condition got worse and I eventually had to surrender to treatment. If I had started treatment earlier than I did, I would have probably faired much better than I did.

beautifulsoul12:
Yes.
We've tried and still trying.
They said is an attack. Family problem. We have been praying, maybe is yet time for God to intervine otherwise we have tried all our best

immortalcrown:
May God help you and your family.

If he is not violent and abusive, I advise you to cope. Those who have suffered abuse in rich homes understand that happiness is not always determined by money. Those who have not suffered in rich homes, claim money is everything.

Myer:
■ Instead of countering my counsel why not focus on your own counsel sir.
■ Or do you doubt that God heals every sickness?

Frankmorgan:
2. What were you feeding on?. List what you were eating. Were you eating probiotics?.
3. Food plays an important role in mental health. Your brain contains neurotransmitters responsible for various functions.Neurotransmitters are chemical compounds. Chemical compounds needs to be produced or they get depleted. Chemicals are produced from other chemical compounds. Food and drugs are the only things that have chemical structures that pass through your mouth. Neurotransmitters are synthesized from either food you eat or drugs you take.(most prescription drugs for mental illness just works by increasing this neurotransmitters or inhibiting another compound that causes the reduction of neurotransmitters).. E.g serotonin is a neurotransmitter responsible for mood. Low level of serotonin is seen in people with depression.
I don't have the strength to start explaining how sugar affects this neurotransmitters. Because it is a very complex subject. And will require the use of structures for understanding. But as I have explained above food affects your neurotransmitters which is responsible for many functions including your mental healthIt is a very complex subject andi am not in the mood to type much

beautifulsoul12:
Good morning everyone. I have to create this account to post this.
I can't even sleep at night lately.

I'm so tired and I need help right now. I have been doing this all by myself for so long now, without much complain but now, I need help.
Before I got married to my husband

I met him in the university, he was in medicine, he had drdepartment, Working his way to travel abroad to continue his education. We were just friends, but I liked him. He kept on asking me out, but I declined. I wanted to graduate first.
We parted ways in year two. He changed school, so, I knew nothing about him again till years later.
Reconnected with him years later after graduation, to my greatest surprise, he didn't graduate, wasted all his resources and couldn't travel out. We still love each other, so we got married.
after the birth of my first child, I wanted to leave him, but I couldn't because he was a good man, but with too many changes and I was the only one who truly care and was there for him.
Three years ago, he became much better. He got a small job, Started bringing in little for upkeep. I saw change and I was happy. We had our second child last year after 8yrs.
Since early this year, the whole thing came up again. Since then, he became jobless again.
The financial burden is all on me. Right now, we can't afford to renew our rent.
I lost my business capital some times ago in wrong business, since then, it has been so much struggles.

I'm trying hard but it's not enough.
I'm thinking of working away, but to where? what about my children? Who will be there for them? What about him? But I'm tired of being in a marriage where I have to struggle for everything, where I can not depend on my man.
Pls, help us renew our house rent.

What do I do?


the lord is your strengh

beautifulsoul12:
I can be verified Sir. It take courage to come to the public and tell your life story. So many will love to hear the whole thing, just to laugh at you.