So my girlfriend was chatting with me today and then she told me that it seems her boss is pregnant, that she wanted to buy disposable pants and also her tummy looked big. So I replied her that do I really need to know all this. She became angry and started giving attitude. The reason I replied her that way was because I felt she was breaching her boss privacy and I tried to explain to her but she wouldn't listen. So ladies was my reply wrong?

If we tell una say women get fish brain, this is the perfect example.
Now for heavens sake, wetin concern you with their gross female thing?
Abeg fashi her jare

Both of you dey craze

Mr man you’re wrong and you need to go apologize to her.

Your girlfriend is suppose to be your gist mate and amebo partner.

Atleast you should have given her listening ears even though you feel she’s breaching her boss privacy or you have nothing to say.

By the time another man start giving her listening ears hope you won’t complain

Yeye boyfriend!! Shior!!

Totally not wrong, change the topic and avoid confrontation from SO like this.

tuzle:
So my girlfriend was chatting with me today and then she told me that it seems her boss is pregnant, that she wanted to buy disposable pants and also her tummy looked big. So I replied her that do I really need to know all this. She became angry and started giving attitude. The reason I replied her like that way because I felt she was breaching her boss privacy and I tried to explain to her but she wouldn't listen. So ladies was my reply wrong?

Couples are the biggest gossip partners in the world... she may not have close friends she gists with apart from you......so to her, that mayb shutting her down, which might make her feel pushed away.....
. she's just sharing her day with you...though irrelevant...na part of ur boyfriend job to sometimes listen to her nonsense..... u will soon start knowing some pple's name and life even tbough u have never seen them b4

AdamuKD:

If we tell una say women get fish brain, this is the perfect example.
Now for heavens sake, wetin concern you with their gross female thing?
Abeg fashi her jare

Biko, close that toilet you called mouth!!

Hope you won’t be crying like a baby while sucking your thumb by the time another man start giving your wife/girlfriend listening ears and attention.

Nonsense!!

OP your response was very mature.

You have no business with such info really.

Don't mind her, she's just being petty. Her attitude will wear off.

Mtchewwwww

advanceDNA:


Couples are the biggest gossip partners in the world... she may not have close friends she gists with apart from you......so shutting her down down might make her feel pushed away.....
. she's just sharing her day with you...though irrelevant...na part of ur boyfriend job to sometimes listen to her nonsense..... u will soon start knowing some pple's name and life even tbough u have never seen them b4

You got it right.
But... Talking about getting her boss panties and stuff, feels out of line IMO.

And his response wasn't a shut down per se.

RoyalBlu:



You got it right.
But... Talking about getting her boss panties and stuff, feels out of line IMO.

And his response wasn't a shut down per se.

I ddnt say it was....i said she would feel shut down because women can be dramatic about almost every thing..

Jennyclay:
Biko, close that toilet you called mouth!!

Hope you won’t be crying like a baby while sucking your thumb by the time another man start giving your wife/girlfriend listening ears and attention.

Nonsense!!

Thunder strike you there holosho

Jennyclay:
Mr man you’re wrong and you need go to apologize to her.

Your is girlfriend is suppose to be your gist mate and amebo partner.

Atleast you should have given her listening ears even though you feel she’s breaching her boss privacy or you have nothing to say.

By the time another man start giving her listening ears hope you won’t complain

Yeye boyfriend!! Shior!!

You want him to be doing amebo like simps abi? U no well

advanceDNA:


I ddnt say it was....i said she would feel shut down because women can be dramatic about almost every thing..

*Okay. Sorry I quoted you out of context.

Agreed, she's just being dramatic about this.

..."women can be dramatic about ALMOST EVERY thing.."

This your statement sha. Not true tho.

RoyalBlu:



This your statement sha. Not true tho.

U want us to go down that road??

This is not a dialogue u can win

You should've simply said okay and have your peace by now. Reasoning with or advising the people of Delilah gender is an exercise in futility because of their low brain capacity. See as she is now trying to manipulate you emotionally into believing that wrong is right. The gender is so foolish I tell you.

advanceDNA:


U want us to go down that road??

This is not a dialogue u can win

It's a tricky road.

Letting it go.

RoyalBlu:



It's a tricky road.

Letting it go.

Impressive

I wan knack

Vanilla4:
Totally not wrong, change the topic and avoid confrontation from SO like this.

I love your profile pics!!!! You are not Nigeria??

She was only trying to bring topic of discussion to her lover(you)'' you know women na when they love a person many atimes they do things like kids''

tuzle:
So my girlfriend was chatting with me today and then she told me that it seems her boss is pregnant, that she wanted to buy disposable pants and also her tummy looked big. So I replied her that do I really need to know all this. She became angry and started giving attitude. The reason I replied her that way was because I felt she was breaching her boss privacy and I tried to explain to her but she wouldn't listen. So ladies was my reply wrong?

so i don't she any big deal with what your girl did'' even if u don't like the discussion their are better ways to end it than making her feel bad or make her look like a gossiper.

talented321:
She was only trying to bring topic of discussion to her lover(you)'' you know women na when they love a person many atimes they do things like kids'' so i don't she any big deal with what your girl did'' even if u don't like the discussion their are better ways to end it than making her feel bad or make her look like a gossiper.

I know she was trying to bring gist up, but I believe there are some personal stuff in other people's live that u don't have to discuss with others. I wanted her to understand that but she read me wrongly.

Oga the girl love u

tuzle:
I know she was trying to bring gist up, but I believe there are some personal stuff in other people's live that u don't have to discuss with others. I wanted her to understand that but she read me wrongly.

do u think she will have that same topic with another man?
The best you would have do is to caution her face to face' that she should not bother too much about other people's affair.

She told you alone that her boss was pregnant and you accused her of breaching her boss' privacy by telling you, but you came to nairaland that contains millions of people to make the same revelation and you still see nothing wrong there , your own way get as e be oo

tuzle:

ladies give the most boring stories. You just have to pretend you are interested.

Jennyclay:
Mr man you’re wrong and you need to go apologize to her.

Your girlfriend is suppose to be your gist mate and amebo partner.

Atleast you should have given her listening ears even though you feel she’s breaching her boss privacy or you have nothing to say.

By the time another man start giving her listening ears hope you won’t complain

Yeye boyfriend!! Shior!!

... so because of "listening ear", he should listen to any toxic thing that proceeds out of her mouth in the name of boyfriend?

What is not his business is not his business!

Another man that starts giving her listening ears to gossips and things he doesn't need to hear is irresponsible.

He lost nothing if he loses the girl because of this!

PerfectStranger:
Both of you dey craze

seconded

Like the general saying, she's your gossip partner. She's only trying to be free with you by giving you such gist.
It could also be because you're boring and lack good conversational skills and so she's trying to bring up any gist just to liven things up and you still shunned her. That was wrong of you. A simple "hmmm", and "Really" Would have solved the whole thing.

Try and keep your relationship lively before she looses interest. You sound boring to me.

Jennyclay:
Mr man you’re wrong and you need to go apologize to her.

Your girlfriend is suppose to be your gist mate and amebo partner.

Atleast you should have given her listening ears even though you feel she’s breaching her boss privacy or you have nothing to say.

By the time another man start giving her listening ears hope you won’t complain

Yeye boyfriend!! Shior!!

You were making sense until the last sentence.

Hmmn

Jennyclay:
Mr man you’re wrong and you need to go apologize to her.

Your girlfriend is suppose to be your gist mate and amebo partner.

Atleast you should have given her listening ears even though you feel she’s breaching her boss privacy or you have nothing to say.

By the time another man start giving her listening ears hope you won’t complain

Yeye boyfriend!! Shior!!

So because of your compulsive need to not mind your business, I have to engage?

tuzle:
So my girlfriend was chatting with me today and then she told me that it seems her boss is pregnant, that she wanted to buy disposable pants and also her tummy looked big. So I replied her that do I really need to know all this. She became angry and started giving attitude. The reason I replied her that way was because I felt she was breaching her boss privacy and I tried to explain to her but she wouldn't listen. So ladies was my reply wrong?

Who wanted to buy disposable pants? She or her boss? 🤔