We have several selfish people looking for true love that suits them. You will see those who cheat looking for faithful partners, those who have anger issues probably looking for cool-headed people, those who are broke and unproductive looking for financially stable person..
How do we deal with this selfishness when finding true love? Firstly, we must start becoming the kind of person we are looking for. You must be teachable, willing to change immediately, currently changing with proofs, as you look for the right partner. Someone said, to find the right mate, you must be the right partner.
It is wrong to be a toxic and wicked person, while you roam online on dating apps, ceremonies, gatherings etc, looking for the right mate that will give you peace; while the right mate may go into trauma meeting you because you are wrong in character..

So as you pray and look for true love, look inwardly and look at yourself to know if you deserve yourself, before you look for someone you deserve...

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