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Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by Lannyjoe4u: 4:00pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
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Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by seguno2: 4:00pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
SamWales: We don’t have a maintenance culture. How many people renovate their houses in the city regularly 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by seguno2: 4:01pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
taylor88: Who will stop the wasteful culture |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by Solidkay(m): 4:01pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
No be everybody get money renovate their village houses, Some of them are even living in wooden houses in Lagos, Aside that, some of the rich ones have relocated their aged ones to the city. |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by toprealman: 4:02pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
SamWales:Scale of preference. |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by Vintage100(m): 4:02pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
This is not Nigerian thing, it seems nah some people culture to renovate house after their parents' demise |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by onoms4luv(m): 4:04pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
Maybe they are waiting for who will inherit the house first 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by Ikpunnegi01: 4:04pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
Nazgul:Na you go open mouth to answer am. He deh open eyes for you. |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by hansomb: 4:04pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
Maybe bcuz of inheritance. Everyone wants to know his position first 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by seguno2: 4:04pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
Acidosis: Wise words. Very wise words. |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by olaadesino(m): 4:05pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
SamWales:Tell your pastors to preach against it, It practically in Christianity. |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by Emperor5(m): 4:06pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
It's a tradition, some place it's a part of culture that after burial no any form of building nor renovation will take until after remembrance which normally take place after a year of the deceased, people usually build house before the burial because the remembrance may take longer that expected due to some ritual involved. |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by assholemods: 4:07pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
blaquemyc:I taya o! |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by LtChisom: 4:07pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
taylor88: but inside you you know this thing you just wrote no gel at all with the topic at hand? |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by LordBillionz: 4:08pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
SamWales:Foolishness, selfishness and vanity |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by sureinfo: 4:09pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
Good question, I'm here for the comments |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by Skillsnigeria: 4:12pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
Hmmm |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by easzypeaszy(m): 4:16pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
Nazgul:You kw say Igbo no get sense 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by SaLongs1(m): 4:18pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
Acidosis:It is much better feeding the living than trying to impress over the dead 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by Father4all: 4:21pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
Just for show. Only in Africa |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by Alpharey: 4:23pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
7demons: El Rufai's son should be recruited into the army asap. Everytime he will be running his mouth like tap. 🤣🤣🤣 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by scrupulousblog: 4:27pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
taylor88:It is the wickedness of our society. |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by porthouse7(f): 4:27pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
This thread is not for us who don't have village, please let read comments |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by Nobody: 4:29pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
taylor88:Chief title na huge bill to the children after his demise.That is why i no want make my pop buy am.My uncles come dey insult us as poor family.Yes i like am like that. |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by 0taPiaPia(m): 4:34pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
It's not really bad if you gave them a comfortable life. Their era and yours aren't the same hence the upgrade. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
Simply becos of the renovation is nt on the top of their scale of prefrence since there are other pressing need they have to attend to with the limited resources at their disposal. But once their parent(s) they hav to perform burial rites for them so their priorities list must change and the renovation becomes very necessary. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by OlujobaSamuel: 4:37pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
Why do you clean your room or home when you are expecting a visitor?? Same thing applies 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by Bfly: 4:39pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
You must do most of these things whether you like it or not. They are part of the burial ritual. |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by bassdow: 4:46pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
taylor88: my kinda person, a dead person is like DustBin - I can't spend more than 10% of my careLess funds in disPOSing such dead irrespective of how much I love the person. As soon as You drop dead, you're a WASTE - Who spends a fortune to disPOSE off waste ? As for traditions - if dem wahala me much, I leave the 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by bassdow: 4:47pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
porthouse7:especially those of Us wey be say na only name of our village we sabi. Even to pronounce am well sef, na wahala |
Re: Why Do People Do This After The Death Of Their Parents? by CaptainFM1: 4:48pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
SamWales: Sometimes they don't want to renovate or complete or even build in their village but the extended family back home do compel them that they must build renovate or complete before bringing their parent home for burial. Different family, different stories. |
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