stop thinking, thinking, why did you marry your wife first?

Walahi, problems differ sha

Sonnobax15:

My Nigha,if you truly love your wife and want peace in your home,then you must keep the distance between your Y-axis(your wife) very far from your X-axis ( your ex banny)....

It's a simple arithmetic.........Tho thinking about her is normal,but don't let it get to you....... She's gone, you're gone,so let bygones be bygones..

You go explain tire....no evidence

This has been trending among married couples of recent, I don't know the connection behind it, married folks should be contented with your current partner and do away with corner corner love.

OP the devil is about to celebrate his victory over your marriage. Just keep towing the path.

Oga FOCUS!!!!
the flow of your story get as e be but ......FOCUS!!!! on what is before you and not what is behind you.

if she had not wept and done all that drama u may not feel like this. whatever you do sha FOCUS!!!!!! on what is ahead. let the past stay past

scoobyblogspot:
My ex was having some issues with me cause of my addiction to alcohol and a lot of times I misbehave then, although I have changed now that I am married.

Well, she asked us to take a break from the relationship which I refused and she said she has made up her mind already, I pleaded but she refused so i respected her decision but I kept calling her and chatting with her so we don’t go far from each other. The feeling was fading as contact wasn't regular anymore.

Let me caught the long story short

I found someone else, now my wife and she is so understanding and caring towards me, when she got to know this, she hated me and called me all sort of names and wept via chat that is it because she asked for a break just to test me that I broke her heart and she also didnt give me S**?. Don’t judge me yet, I found some missed calls from a guy who kept calling her by 12am on video call at night and sent her gifts upon gift, even took her out secretly. I missed her anyways and I know she misses me too, we have both moved on but I can’t stop thinking about her months after our break up.

WildChild00:
This has been trending among married couples of recent, I don't know the connection behind it, married folks should be contented with your current partner and do away with corner corner love.

I want to place a curse on all scammers (using WildChild00 as a point of contact to other scammers ) especially here on nairaland, it shall never be well with them, they shall die a miserable death, vultures shall feed on their dead bodies, misery shall forever locate them. Woe betide all scammers.
WildChild00

Another fake news.

Whyyy

scoobyblogspot:
My ex was having some issues with me cause of my addiction to alcohol and a lot of times I misbehave then, although I have changed now that I am married.

Well, she asked us to take a break from the relationship which I refused and she said she has made up her mind already, I pleaded but she refused so i respected her decision but I kept calling her and chatting with her so we don’t go far from each other. The feeling was fading as contact wasn't regular anymore.

Let me caught the long story short

I found someone else, now my wife and she is so understanding and caring towards me, when she got to know this, she hated me and called me all sort of names and wept via chat that is it because she asked for a break just to test me that I broke her heart and she also didnt give me S**?. Don’t judge me yet, I found some missed calls from a guy who kept calling her by 12am on video call at night and sent her gifts upon gift, even took her out secretly. I missed her anyways and I know she misses me too, we have both moved on but I can’t stop thinking about her months after our break up.

You should continue thinking about her and na sorry go end your story one day

I don't understand was it your wife you caught or your ex

You go use ur hand destroy your marriage and render your life miserable. Move on. You have made you choice live with the consequences. Your wife should be an upgrade of your ex. Una too they make mistake self

rtdCivilservant:

I want to place a curse on all scammers (using WildChild00 as a point of contact to other scammers ) especially here on nairaland, it shall never be well with them, they shall die a miserable death, vultures shall feed on their dead bodies, misery shall forever locate them. Woe betide all scammers.
WildChild00

Mr scammer see your activities here, everyone kindly click on the link

https://www.nairaland.com/5581961/scam-alert-avoid-calm-scammer#124783487

It's normal. It's natural. It will go with time. Once she marry, you both forget yourself. You are feeling this way because there is vacancy.
About her own feelings, na women mumu sense. They always feel this way after you get married. When you are still single and begging them, they will be acting stubborn like you have committed an unforgivable sin

Stupid man

WildChild00:



Mr scammer see your activities here, everyone kindly click on the link

https://www.nairaland.com/5581961/scam-alert-avoid-calm-scammer#124783487

I want to place a curse on all scammers (using WildChild00 as a point of contact to other scammers ) especially here on nairaland, it shall never be well with them, they shall die a miserable death, vultures shall feed on their dead bodies, misery shall forever locate them. Woe betide all scammers.
WildChild00

KIDS EVERYWHERE!!!

You need to block her if you love your wife. Let bygone be Bygone

scoobyblogspot:
My ex was having some issues with me cause of my addiction to alcohol and a lot of times I misbehave then, although I have changed now that I am married.

Well, she asked us to take a break from the relationship which I refused and she said she has made up her mind already, I pleaded but she refused so i respected her decision but I kept calling her and chatting with her so we don’t go far from each other. The feeling was fading as contact wasn't regular anymore.

Let me caught the long story short

I found someone else, now my wife and she is so understanding and caring towards me, when she got to know this, she hated me and called me all sort of names and wept via chat that is it because she asked for a break just to test me that I broke her heart and she also didnt give me S**?. Don’t judge me yet, I found some missed calls from a guy who kept calling her by 12am on video call at night and sent her gifts upon gift, even took her out secretly. I missed her anyways and I know she misses me too, we have both moved on but I can’t stop thinking about her months after our break up.

Marriage is not meant for boys........ 😂

If you want to stop missing her, have an affair with her and deliberately allow your wife to catch you. I bet you, you will never miss her again.

Acekidc4:
I don't even Understand this your Story 🤔🤔

I swear

So you don't know that money and blood don't mix keep your family away from your shit business completely separated

Sorry o.

Broken marriage loading.....

scoobyblogspot:
My ex was having some issues with me cause of my addiction to alcohol and a lot of times I misbehave then, although I have changed now that I am married.

Well, she asked us to take a break from the relationship which I refused and she said she has made up her mind already, I pleaded but she refused so i respected her decision but I kept calling her and chatting with her so we don’t go far from each other. The feeling was fading as contact wasn't regular anymore.

Let me caught the long story short

I found someone else, now my wife and she is so understanding and caring towards me, when she got to know this, she hated me and called me all sort of names and wept via chat that is it because she asked for a break just to test me that I broke her heart and she also didnt give me S**?. Don’t judge me yet, I found some missed calls from a guy who kept calling her by 12am on video call at night and sent her gifts upon gift, even took her out secretly. I missed her anyways and I know she misses me too, we have both moved on but I can’t stop thinking about her months after our break up.

You're not over her yet.
You don't really love your new wife.
Stop comparing them and see the wonders it will work. Stick to the one who agreed to marry you. Don't let your ex manipulate you.
Talking from experience.

Was in a relationship with a lady.
We were out at the market when i bumped into my ex. Did all my best not to engage her, wasn't even with my phone, she collected my number. She had the audacity to tell my current babe she's my sweetheart.
Buzzed me and came over that weekend. She knows my dad and sis. Mumu me was feeling like a player after lashing.
That visit didn't end well.
I ended up losing 2 amazing women because i couldn't decide well.

Bros hold your wife tight. Your ex has nothing to lose, she wants to ruin you and make you single like her.

scoobyblogspot:
My ex was having some issues with me cause of my addiction to alcohol and a lot of times I misbehave then, although I have changed now that I am married.

Well, she asked us to take a break from the relationship which I refused and she said she has made up her mind already, I pleaded but she refused so i respected her decision but I kept calling her and chatting with her so we don’t go far from each other. The feeling was fading as contact wasn't regular anymore.

Let me caught the long story short

I found someone else, now my wife and she is so understanding and caring towards me, when she got to know this, she hated me and called me all sort of names and wept via chat that is it because she asked for a break just to test me that I broke her heart and she also didnt give me S**?. Don’t judge me yet, I found some missed calls from a guy who kept calling her by 12am on video call at night and sent her gifts upon gift, even took her out secretly. I missed her anyways and I know she misses me too, we have both moved on but I can’t stop thinking about her months after our break up.

You are immature, keep living in the past... Dooms day is inevitable

My guy, this your story get K-leg abeg. If I got you correctly... you're already "married" and in your conclusion, you guys separated some months ago! So, is it that you were seeing this your present wife secretly while you were still with your former girlfriend or what? If that's the case, then, you must be a very wicked and heartless person. Because, how come you both just left each other and now you are married to another woman? You better concentrate on your wife before thunder from Niger Republic fire 🔥 your mouth with coup d'eta.

Acekidc4:
I don't even Understand this your Story 🤔🤔

Guy😂

I was eating something peppery naaw 😂😂😂

How is it that you remember your ex to the point where it affects your thoughts?

Not kidding but it will take a great deal of time for me to remember an ex's name. I no dey ever remember anything after a short time.

Focus your time on the Nigerian economy and think about your wife's/kids' future. You will forget ever meeting an ex.

Acekidc4:
I don't even Understand this your Story 🤔🤔

He is still inside the alcohol and drugs that broke his relationship with his ex and his wife. He needs to be pitied🫠

Op is confused about his relationship status

scoobyblogspot:
My ex was having some issues with me cause of my addiction to alcohol and a lot of times I misbehave then, although I have changed now that I am married.

Well, she asked us to take a break from the relationship which I refused and she said she has made up her mind already, I pleaded but she refused so i respected her decision but I kept calling her and chatting with her so we don’t go far from each other. The feeling was fading as contact wasn't regular anymore.

Let me caught the long story short

I found someone else, now my wife and she is so understanding and caring towards me, when she got to know this, she hated me and called me all sort of names and wept via chat that is it because she asked for a break just to test me that I broke her heart and she also didnt give me S**?. Don’t judge me yet, I found some missed calls from a guy who kept calling her by 12am on video call at night and sent her gifts upon gift, even took her out secretly. I missed her anyways and I know she misses me too, we have both moved on but I can’t stop thinking about her months after our break up.

Stop contacting her
Start by deleting her number and block her on all social media handles

Destroy anything in your possession that will make you remember her like picture, gifts etc

3. Channel all the love and attention to your wify. Create future memories with her by going to movies, sight seeing and other wonderful moments

In no time, you should be fine. Except jazz is involved